Need advice

Wife found out I saw a few Dom guys over the last 10 years while we were married. She found out I was on this website and read up on Cuckolding.
Not only did she not kick me out of the house she said she wanted to Cuckold me.
This is something I dreamed of for years but now that it is real I'm freaking out.
She went out on a date with a friend of ours and told me she wants to fuck him.
What should I do?
I thought I wanted this till it became real now I'm not sure.
Anyone else had this problem?

Thank you

Ask her if she takes him home after the date..., maybe she'll let you watch!

You've found out the hard way that being a cuckold 'wannabee' is not the same as the real thing, just like lots of guys do. Don't wish for what you don't really want. This train's rolling now, and I doubt you can get off it. She's going to fuck your friend and you can't stop it, so either accept it and enter in the world of cuckold husbands or walk away with your tail between your legs!
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but this is what you wanted and it's happened, live with it.

She fucked me the best she ever has tonight. Then took out a CB-Curve locked my cock and left the house at 2 am it is now 6 am and she is still not home. My cock is killing me and I'm not sure if I like this or not.

Classic case of reward followed by punishment - better get used to it, as it's a pattern that will shape your future life! Personally, I'm glad she's put you in chastity. You will learn to love even that, and the high you get when you're released will be amazing. Bet you blow your load within seconds!

She went out and fucked him and had a good time while I sat home thinking about what I have done.
Have been locked up now for 3 days and starting to like it.

She did tell me all about it got me hard then went to bed.

Wow sounds like you are in for a VERY wild ride. Your wife can only get kinkier as she gets to enjoy more and more the effect she is having on you. OMG, if women only knew the REAL power they have over us! They do have some idea, but they don't realize their awesome power for a long time...once she's become sure of it and of herself she will TOTALLY own you my man! Enjoy the ride. You created it, now live with it and love it. Not to worry, there's tons of wannabe hubbies out there who would envy you.

Been locked up for 3 weeks now starting to be ok with it.
She has not played again but says she will be soon

Talk to.her and be completely honest.

Relax, soon it will just become your way of life. You will have no choice but to enjoy it, so it is a good thing that you are starting to do so. Soon you will be looking forward to her cuckold adventures. If you beg nicely she may reward you with pictures of the action or may even let you watch them together. That would complete the cycle and you will have thoroughly earned your horns! Here's something you can wear proudly!

Have started to like being locked and milked weekly