lonewolf40
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Figure this would be the place to tell the true stories of my first experiences with this genre:
First serious GF/Ex#1
So back in my early college days I was still a virgin and my cf was too. I was ready whenever she was bit she wanted to wait till marriage to go totally all the way. Pretty much anything was allowed except true intercourse. Oral, fingering, toys were all fair game. She was also into light bondage and domination, which I wasn't, but I would play rough w her sometimes to appease her.
So after maybe a year of dating, she got online chatting (back when chat rooms and AOL was the norm) with a local couple who had a sub/dom relationship. She basically said she wanted to meet them for coffee and discuss that lifestyle with them. I told her as long as its a public place and she keeps in touch w me, so I know she's safe then I didnt mind. So it seemed to go well and she said they were nice and nothing much else was discussed.
A few weeks go by and she would randomly tell me that they chat about sexual things and sub/dom stuff etc. I think its no big deal, until one day she said she was excited and had to talk to me about it. She ended up confessing that the "coffee shop was a lie, and she met them at their house. She said they laid out ground rules of no sex, but anything else was OK. She said they tied her up and basically got her off with toys and their hands, but only she was naked. The way she discussed it, she sounded proud that she went through with it. I do believe she was honest about the details, but at that moment I was quite furious and let her know, but i didn't make a scene about it. She seemed a little devestated, and said this is who she is, that she loved me and wanted me to be accepting of this if possible. She knew I would never be the kinda guy who was into this, so she thought a married couple would be less of a threat and respect what we wanted, while still satisfying her wishes.
(Next part posting soon)
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lonewolf40
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After that discussion, things were kinda quiet for a while but she still chatted with them. She ended up asking if she could meet them again but with me, so I could make sure they were OK, and didnt do anything I wouldn't be OK with.
Long story shorter, they came over and basically did some bandage on her and he got her off with his hands. I was mostly OK but was jealous about it. We ended up breaking up for a month or so over that and other issues, but got back together. She did stop talking/meeting them as a result.
Some time later, we were both seeing each other weekly, but she had about a 1.5hr commute each way to school. On my off days, sometimes I would go with her to hang out between classes. She had a male classmate she got to be friends with and they both liked almost everything and she ended up discussing her bondage side and sexual interests and such.
She ended up going to his moms place during school days to hang out when I was working, or at my school. I told her I knew he was a friend but guys always have sex on their minds and he didn't want "just a friend". She said I was taking it too seriously, and not trusting of her when she loved only me.
So after a month or 2, she called me and said that she was too exhausted to drive home that night and was gonna crash at his moms place and ***** on the couch. That his mom was there and it wasn't a big deal. She would tell me often. that he wasn't attractive to her and more like a brother, etc.
I was pretty pissed but naively, I believed her and loved her, so I reluctantly agreed.
This ended up happening maybe once every 2 weeks, and then once a week, all with her making it like she was with on of the girls. Said they would work on classwork and watch TV shows or play video games etc. I didn't think she was physically cheating on me but I was losing time w her and it was causing friction all the time, since I felt she was being deceitful like the bondage couple incident. He would even come hang out w her some weekends at her folks place, and she always wanted me to wait til he left so we wouldnt end up fighting over the drama.
One day I came over with some good news I had to surprise her, and he was there. When I knocked on the screen door (summer time, front door open) I heard shuffling from the other room and it seemed to take an awful long time for her to show up. She seemed frazzled both mentally and in my guts I knew she was doing "something" with him. She told me she was busy and I told her to send him home, and she thought that was rude. He stood in the back of the hallway with a half smile smug look on his face. I wanted to beat his ass, but my gf and I just yelled at each other and I stormed out.
We didn't see each other for awhile after that, but stayed in touch. I ended up meeting another girl (ex#2) that made me forget all about my gf and I ended up going to visit my gf and broke up w her personally. She was all in tears but I have no idea why since I was sure she loved the other guy at this stage.
Just to make it clear, she never went all the way w him until months after I was gone. I had a mutual friend get me one of her social media sites user name, that she used to post about her self discoveries and sexual wants. Over time she eventually posted on their progression and that she finally had sex and wasnt a virgin anymore. (She fucked him) They actually got married. I think even w the cheating, she justified it in her head by not fucking him until after we broke up.
I have no idea of her life past that point.
I'll post the 2nd gf story that ties into this later. Thanks for reading about it!
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