Chance of a start...

She has bought the stockings but is yet to wear them, she has 5 or 6 different pairs in packets, all very nice.

I've offered to buy her some traditional style too with a belt, which she says she'd like but only when she's lost a few more pounds. I've told her that's fine and I want her to wear them to work under her skirt.

I love how much more she is becoming 'aware' and am encouraging it all the way.

She decided to wear hold ups today with a short skirt.

However, the nylons are all sheerest than she normally wears, and she was unsure. Once on though, she was happy with them being lighter and more sheer, but not happy with the quality. They weren't great being honest, and I don't blame her for wanting to look her best in then. So she is back in her opaque tights with the skirt. A shame, but progress that she wants to wear them.

My cock was rock hard to not only see her in the hold ups but that she wants to wear them to work.

She said that if they were better quality, she would wear them all the time as she's feeling better about herself and how she looks. So I've said I'll take her shopping at the weekend to buy her some decent hold ups and another short skirt. She loved that!

Gutted the ones she got were less than great quality, as she bought them from a place that normally does good stuff. Still, she'll wear them for fucking with me which is something

We had awesome sex last night, saw her cum 3 times, whilst I held back. I was really tired anyway, but love her cumming more anyway. She was a little disappointed I didn't want to cum, so I'll suggest we fuck again tonight and perhaps cover her breasts which she loves.

Looking forward to that, and to shopping at the weekend. She needs some more shoes for work too, so we'll be trying on heels, which always has my cock twitching

Remember, these relationships grow and evolve over time. As things progress you'll both get more confident and trusting. You'll want to push boundaries, including your own.

At first I wanted to always be present to watch her. Then I was okay being in another room. Then I was okay with her going out to play and coming home. Now I like the idea of her playing "secretly", then telling me about it a few days later. It's a progression thing, for sure!

Your wife is gradually getting more into it, too. Being more aware of how she dresses... the nylons... shoes, etc. Women's dress is a reflection of how they feel... and she's definitely showing signs that she's feels more like a Hotwife.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I accept things will probably evolve, and in many ways I hope they do.

I really hope these 'feelings' continue, I'm nearly in a constant state of arousal now

You guys have only scratched the surface. You have a long way to go, and a lot to explore. It's exciting as hell, but there is a risk of getting addicted to the constant rush of emotions and adrenaline. Vanilla sex will seem boring after this, LOL.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

To be fair, our sex life is far from Vanilla as it is, but any other facets are welcome!

Looking forward to seeing where we go next.

That's par for the course! Highly enjoyable, always being 'on the edge'. I really like how she's becoming much more aware sexually. She wants to be seen as not just attractive, but sexy too, she wants guys to hit on her. Get those quality stockings and shoes, and that Oh so short skirt bought as well, she'll look and more importantly feel a million dollars.
Keep me in the loop.

Shopping on Saturday, she's going into work on Sunday to catch up on a few bits as overtime, she might dress a bit sexier then incase 'new guy' is in again, or perhaps if fitness instructor is calling past. Failing that, I'll make sure she's in skirt and hold ups on Monday morning along with high heels. I love her feeling better, and really really love these other guys eying her up. Just wish one would be bold sooner rather than later.

She's doing fine. You're seeing changes. She knows what you want, so give her the time she needs to change her thinking over to that Hotwife mode. Be patient and supportive and let her move at her speed. Don't risk pushing her to do something "sooner rather than later". That can result in backlash, and undo a lot of the progress you've made.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

We shopped on Saturday. Got her a smart and sexy dress for work, shes never warn a dress before and looks fantastic in it, some trousers for days when shes not really feeling into it, several pairs of lace topped hold ups and some new high heels.

Yesterday was a trousers day, which is fine, I didn't push her or anything.

Today, shes gotten up a little earlier, and surprised me with hold ups and new heels under her short skirt. When she sits, the lace tops are nearly visible, but she said if one of her guys is about, shell cross her legs and hitch the skirt up a bit to give them a little flash.

Ive been hard ever since. She sucked my cock briefly before leaving, and told me I could wank if I wanted but I shouldn't dare cum, save that for her later on.

bursting You're playing it smart. Women don't feel sexy every day, so when it's "Trousers day" we gotta bite our tongues. That makes "Sexy days" all that much sweeter. You'll spend all day wondering who's oggling her legs... and guessing whether or not one of the guys might comment on her new outfit... or even have the balls to make a subtle pass at your wife (?). One day she's gonna text you that she's going to be late coming home because she's meeting ________, the cute new guy, for a cocktail after work.

Ahhhh... so many possibilities, eh cucky!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I've told her that kind of thing is fine with me, if she gets asked out. Just text me and tell me, I'll wait up for her.

She's been really busy today, so fun has been limited. Her Boss came to see her, so she quickly hitched her skirt up a little as she sat at her desk, showing her stocking tops. She loved doing it, but isn't too sure he looked this time.

Text from my lady today, telling me of something at work.

Ex boss stopped to talk to her, general chatter, then stood really close and asked if she was still exercising and going to the gym. Which she said that she was. He's said "well you've done great, and look amazing".

She loved that, and so did I when she text me.

Is he changing his mind do you think? Got to be a little more to that than idle work chat?

It sounds like she caught his attention, for sure. But I'm not sure what you mean by "Ex-boss". Is he still with the same company, just in a different position? If so, with today's workplace environment, he's going to be VERY cautious about a sexual harassment situation. She would probably have to take the lead, do most of the flirting, suggest cocktails after work, etc.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Same company, different position.

He is the one who at the staff party at Christmas, told her he wanted an affair with her. Then a few days later when she suggested being up for it, he backed down.

She fantasises about him all of the time and wants him so badly, she'd drop her knickers for him on a heartbeat, and is aching for him to do something about it. Can't see what else she can do after sayin yes to an affair but getting nowhere.

bursting Okay... I see. Well then the sexual harassment angle is probably what's holding him back. He could easily lose his job if things went south, or if their affair was somehow discovered. If she's already agreed to an affair and he didn't bite, then she could try to change the circumstances. He's probably not going to risk starting anything in the workplace.

Perhaps she needs to turn up the heat a little, and suggest they meet for a cocktail after work at a local bar... stressing to him that it's "just to talk". Cocktails have a way of changing minds, and once he's away from the workplace and they get some 1-on-1 time to talk he might loosen up and decide to go for it.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It's a good idea. But. She is mega shy, and struggles quite a bit with just chatting and being a little more direct.

So to make that sort of suggestion is real hard for her, even though it'd be ideal probably.

She can't be any more upfront than she's already been, confirming to him she'd fuck him after he came on to her. What's the matter with the man, doesn't he recognise a good thing when he sees it? I agree with PCC, she should suggest a 'beverage' away from the work environment, he's probably very aware that they're out in the open at work, people soon put two and two together. She needs to overcome her shyness a little, maybe tell him again she'll drop her knickers for him anytime he wants, be forthright herself.

I agree, and have said as much to her. I'll try and phrase it a little differently tonight as we'll be chatting about him. See if I can nudge her on a little.

bursting My wife was also shy about making sexual advances at first. Over time they can be coaxed out of that shell. It's a gradual process. Dressing more sexy is part of it, which your wife did... and she saw immediate results.

Women are raised to be passive and let men make the advances. Remind your wife that it was her hot look and new outfit that actually lured him back in. She did that. Stroke her ego. When women discover that they're actually the ones in charge it can be life-changing for them (and you!). Help her understand that taking the lead is sexually empowering for her.

Try some subtle coaching... give her suggestions. The next time he comments on her outfit, encourage your wife to say things like "I was hoping you would notice"... "I've missed you being around".... "We should get together after work and catch up"...

Basically plant some responses in her mind that she can use if he comes on to her again. That way she'll be prepared to seize the opportunity, but not feel like she's being aggressive.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Thanks PCC

Its me, the nay sayer again.

Bursting, I know she has the hots for him. But it seems to me for whatever reason, and job security and professional managment ethics could be a major ones, he is not going to bite.

I don't think she should push or try to set something up with him. He has noticed. He needs to make to next move if there is one. The next move will mean he has resolved whatever is stopping him.

And since he noticed, she is fishing with the right bait. So she might want to put all that effort into him. Rather consider other fish in the sea.

Doesn't sound that shy to me bursting! I think it's good that you are both taking things slow. You both probably think it's too slow or not going to happen, but it will, maybe with not who shes's after right now or maybe really suddenly, catching you almost unawares. You can't rush these things. I spent over 2 years encouraging and gently persuading my wife to try it, then 9 years before I could convince her to do it again, but in the long run it was well worth it.

It's pretty obvious how much your wife is enjoying the power her low-cut tops and short skirts are giving her over men around her. She's enjoying looking good and feeling sexually attractive, whilst you reap the benefits too. You are both doing just fine, trust me.
Peter C

Damn... and I thought I was patient. I'm reminded of another thread where a guy wanted his wife to go black. I and others were giving him tips on how to begin that process. After a few posts he responded that he didn't want to go through all that crap... he just wanted her to fuck a black guy. Some people just don't get it. There's no microwave option for the recipe. It takes time for a woman to change the way she views sex.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Anything new going on buddy?

Sadly, nothing new. We have both been quite busy with work and a few family commitments, but I'm hoping to get back to where we were soon.

Had fantastic sex over the weekend though, fantasising about one of my buddies fucking her, which she really really loved.

That's exactly how you keep it alive and growing, even when life slow things down.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Keep planting these little seeds in her (no pun intended!) and talk to her about different fantasies for both of you. It keeps it alive during 'quiet' periods, and she's reassured this is what you want, and she'll realise it's what she desperately wants too.

Well this seems to have dried up pretty bad

It has gone really quiet lately unfortunately.

Shes not really been in the mood and work has been mega busy and stressful for her.

We did text about her fitness instructor yesterday as she went to see him last night after a couple of weeks break, but she wont pursue him like before now. Its just the fitness classes and a friendship.

I'm just having to sit it out and wait for her mood and interest to pick up again.