Chance of a start...

"True" cuck is merely your wife fucking around with another guy. The variations and the elements you can add to that core theme are almost endless (bondage, cream pies, humil/iation, denial, etc.).

With some couples the cuck is present. With other couples the wife and Bull play alone. Both are true cuck.

For us, we tend to prefer a mix. On one hand, I'm a voyeur and my wife loves me to watch. On the other hand we occasionally enjoy it when a guy prefers privacy. There's something about that dominant, Alpha male who selfishly wants her all to himself so that he can enjoy everything she has to offer without any prying eyes. My wife says that many guys are more uninhibited and aggressive when she's alone with them. Most men are more reserved when they know the husband is looking over their shoulder... it can even cause performance problems. So if a guy wants her alone, we're okay with that.

Do what's comfortable for you though. If a guy refuses to have you around, and you need that, then find another guy. One compromise might be a video cam. We once had a guy who didn't want me there, but didn't mind her videotaping the encounter.

I still have those tapes... and they're worth their weight in gold...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Good points PCC, appreciate your words again.

We may be looking for another guy, and have this one as a 'possible' for play of sorts as he is still keen on meeting her and such, and she's keen on him too.
I've suggested her ex boss would be an ideal, as he would be a one off fuck or perhaps just occasionally with no real danger or conflict. She would love that as an ideal, as her list for him is off the scale! She says she'll keep working on him, might be a very very slow burner to tempt him.
Until anything there, we're going to chat about things again this weekend with a view to looking online at a playmate.

I agree on doing what you feel comfortable with. There is no RIGHT WAY other than your way.

If the third does not feel comfortable with what you two consider necessary, then don't continue to chase. She can just say I would love to, but here is what I (really means you too) need to happen. If not I am sorry, no hard feelings, but it just won't work for me that way.

Keep looking there are more "fish in the sea" and the best of luck to you two.

Thanks FM, We'll keep looking with an eye on this guy coming round to our ideas hopefully. The door is open for him to come here and fuck her safely and comfortably.

Hang in there - the 'right' way of doing this is always the way you're both the most comfortable with. What's good for me isn't always good for you etc.
Hope she finds a new playmate with more 'go' in him!

So do I Kenny! So do I!

Surprised it's proving so tricky to find someone actually, she is fit cute and curvy in the best of ways, young and available for fun, come on guys!!!

I'm currently watching cuckold porn vids wishing it was my missus getting a hard fucking, as I stroke myself.

*dreams*

We can relate. My wife is tall, blond, busty, pretty and very outgoing and she has had a tough time finding the right guys. She has high standards and holds out for someone she is attracted to and has chemistry with. It can get frustrating but I actually encourage her to wait for the right guy because it's much hotter for her, which translates into better times for her and I afterward. Fucking someone she didn't enjoy is a bummer, and can actually diminish their motivation as a Hotwife.

Your wife is probably much the same. Try to be patient, don't pressure her and give her time to find the guy that suits her. It's worth the wait.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits

I'm giving her plenty of time on this, as I really do want everything right from all angles, for both of us.

Good man! Hang in there, it'll happen. The right guy's out there, just haven't found him yet, keep looking. I'd do the job myself but I'm in France!

kennyboy82

Shame you are in France!

In your place I would not insist on taking part. You may discard some good options and you may regret it later. I am speaking from experience!!

I'm not nailed down, I can travel if it's worth it! pm me.

Just been reading through this again... We are in a similar situation, spookily so. Looks like you are that bit further on than us but still its close.

We have a new guy on the scene.

He works on same site, but not directly with her. She sees him in passing maybe once every two weeks or so, but it is literally passing in a corridor or through a doorway for a second.
She mentioned he had started there a month or so ago, saying he was 'Dishy' and she quite liked him.

He came into the office where she is based today to see another colleague, but was repeatedly looking across at my OH all the while he was there.

She said she liked him doing it a lot. She sent me a link to his Facebook page which she'd been stalking, and he is a fit guy, much fitter than me (again).

She said she thinks of him fucking her and loves to imagine him inside her. I've encouraged this and suggested she adds him to her list of potential fuck buddies, she agrees and now has.

So. Watch this space.

Sounds good.

How many potentials does she now have?

She as 4 now.

#1 has the green light to play with her, and has kissed and groped several times, but has backed off now he knows our situation.

#2 has confessed to wanting an affair with her, but backed off when she said she was game.

#3 is a potential although nothing more than a sensual dance has taken place and he keeps eyeing up her legs and boobs at work.

#4 is a new idea, and has just started eyeing her up quite a bit.

bursting

What you are experiencing is nothing new. One of the reasons virtual (here and many other alternate sexualities) is so popular. It is wonderful to dream and wank. Another to actually meet and do. So don't be discouraged, you will find many frogs before the handsome (and endowed) prince shows up.

Trying not to get discouraged and know that this is probably going to be a long drawn out thing for us both.

bursting Yeah... you've seen enough of "real life" to know that it's not as easy as most people think. It does take patience and perseverance. But when all the pieces finally fall into place and she finds that guy who blows her dress up you'll find out that it's definitely worth the wait. Hang in there.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Yes, I agree with the rest. Be patient. It's worth the wait. Also the search is part of the fun!
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The new guy at work, #4 in the earlier list, engaged her briefly at work over the weekend to say Hi and a little small talk. This doesn't seem much, but they don't work together or have any link really, so shows interest of sorts that he took the time. She noticed him looking at her afterwards, several times down the corridor as he walked a way. Interesting.

She came really hard thinking about him several times over the weekend, which we both enjoyed.

She's gotten to telling me how much she'd love him to bend her over his desk and fuck her hard. Mmmmm!

She went shopping yesterday (Sunday) and returned with several pairs of hold up stockings

bursting Those are perfect "baby steps". She's slowly getting more and more into the whole idea. Believe me, she's thinking about it even more than you realize. Keep giving her space... let her toy around with those 4 guys at her speed. Maybe something comes of it, or maybe another guy will suddenly step into the scene out of nowhere. Who knows? The important thing is that she's open to it, and she knows you're excited by it all. It will happen eventually.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

And the first you may not hear about it, is when she changes abruptly from being open about it to you and clams up.

I hope she doesn't do that.

I wouldn't worry. You two seem to have a very honest relationship, and she knows the whole thing turns you on. Much of my wife's enjoyment comes from sharing everything with me and seeing how it arouses me. If she saw someone and kept it to herself she would be denying us much of the pleasure we both get from it. Based on what you've posted I believe your wife is the same way.

Now... having said that, these relationships can evolve over time. For instance, my wife is now free to see someone without my knowledge at the time. But she's agreed to tell me about it within 5 days. This twist introduces the possibility of that "cheating wife secret rendezvous". I like knowing that my sexy vixen might have sneaked out to see someone last night... or could be planning to do so tonight or tomorrow, while keeping me in the dark. It keeps you wondering every time she walks out the door. I also like surprises! So it could be a hot twist to our games. She hasn't done it yet, but she keeps bringing up the subject while flashing that playfully threatening smirk of hers...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Thanks for the input, as ever.

Sounds exciting, but I'm not sure how I'd deal with her doing that. I'd be ok with her doing something then telling me when she came home, but not 5 days!

She's started wearing a little more make up for work this week. A small step, but she's naturally quite reserved and shy, so it's taken a little lift in confidence for her to do so.

I love it.

Some women like the thrill of sneaking around to get fucked on the side. My wife is that type and so is the lady I'm currently seeing. With the wife a lot of times I think I know what she is doing because she will get dressed and tell me she is bored and going for a drive. With my FB she will tell her husband she is going shopping and head straight to the hotel. Both normally like to shower before going home thinking that washed the evidence away. How wrong they can be. One of the wife's tell-tale habits is she will fold a tissue and put it in the crotch of her panties to catch the leakage. She sometimes flushes it but sometimes she will just throw it in the trash can for me to see. Once she was brazen enough to lay it on our bed.

I'd love to have that tissue from my Mrs!

Don't worry, you'll get it, and many more soon! Enjoy it when it happens. She's obviously becoming more aware of her budding sexuality, the wearing of more make-up to work is one outward sign. Is she wearing fancy lingerie, stockings etc to work as well yet?