Chance of a start...

She has made some big steps and really put herself out there.

He has replied.

And bottled it.

Simply said "Yes, sorry about that."

Brilliant. This will dent her confidence im sure of that.

She's replied with 'its alright, but a shame'. I guess this leaves it open should he decides to get back to her at some point.

I'm pretty miffed to be honest.

He may be trying to cover his tracks. If he feels threatened by a workplace sexual harassment lawsuit. In my opinion she certainly shouldn't leave any trail of her impending sexual desires with him on company coorespondance. Company IT can read their email or they could archive it for use later on. Maybe suggest they find some other way of communication like Facebook messenger or non-work cell phones.

I have been in his position before and have played it cool after I let my desires be known while under the influence of adult beverages until I gaged their reaction. He is probably doing the same. What I suggest your wife do is to contact him and tell him that she wants to have lunch or an after work ***** with him to clear the air and discuss what was said and what was actually meant at the party. Then at lunch she should tell him that she wasn't offended at all and even considered his coming on to her as a turn on. She should tell him that he missed a very pleasurable opportunity at the party and if he waits too much longer she might loose interest. She should then hand him her cell number and walk away as sexy and confident as possible.

I know this approach will work because I have seen the results first hand.

i1212
Thanks for your thoughts.

I agree, this could be the case. I'll chat with her about this tonight at home. Maybe something for after Christmas now.

Be patient, you will get there eventually. We look forward to updates, even if it's slow

peter50

Thanks Peter.

It will be slow, I'm sure of that, and at times will grind to a halt no doubt. But i'll post what I can as things go along.

As ever, any ideas or help gladly received.

She has been a little worried about meeting her ex-boss or having to speak to him on returning to work after events before.

I'd told her to try not to worry about it, as I'm sure it'll be fine.

She has now seen him a few times this past week, only passing at work and saying Hi, but he seems ok with her. Gave her a cheeky smile once or twice too, which she liked.
She gets ever so embarrassed though, and has said she felt like she was blushing like mad every time theve seen each other, and she feels silly.

I know its probable that this is as far as things will go now, but he has a history with younger women at work, and there is obviously an interest there from him and definitely from her, so i'll keep updating just in case.

Thanks for the update. He is surely flattered so why wouldn't he be ok with this.

We look forward to hearing more from you! Good thread! The first steps are always hot!

Thanks Peter.

She came home from work yesterday, telling me of a new guy that's just started there, who is 'really good looking' and has caught her eye a lot. She thinks she caught him having a second look at her as they passed in a corridor.
He's in a different department, and she won't work directly with him, but their paths will cross on occasion. She hopes more often than not she tells me.

We'll have to see won't we?

We'll stay tuned....

I just hope there's something to report.

This is the thing, she didn't have to tell me about this new guy. But she did, freely, of her own accord.

I get a text this lunchtime from my lovely lady who is at work.

She passed her ex boss today again in a corridor. Stopped and chatted briefly, nothing exciting sadly, just pleasantries and work stuff.
But. Shes texting me to say that she really wishes that she had said something to him about his Christmas party confession. Something along the lines of if he ever changes his mind, she'll be up for some fun. but shes worried that someone overhears at work or she'll get too embarrassed and fluff her words.

I reassured her that its ok with me if she does, just to choose her moment so shes not overheard, and to try and relax and not rush so she can say what she wants properly.

Again, she didn't have to tell me any of this, but shes obviously wanting to do it, and is seeking reassurance from me that its ok for her to try it on again with him.

I've not known any girl want a guys cock so much as she does his. She is always fantasising about him and cums so quick and hard when we talk about him as she plays or we fuck.

Excellent!

Im hoping it is Peter, I'm hoping it is.

A tiny update. Nothing of major excitement, but if note I feel.

We woke up yesterday, and she made a point if telling me if her dream. She rarely has any naughty dreams, and when she does, they are nothing amazing. So anything like that is worth taking note of.

She dreamt that her boss (not ex boss who has been of topic recently) had come to her office to ask about something, and she had to show him on screen. She dreamt that he leaned right over her from behind, and she could feel his breath in her neck. She felt very wet and aroused.

Like I say, it's very minor, but is something for her to dream of and to tell me.

I told her I liked that, and she said she did too, pity it was just a dream.

She has text this morning, to say that he's been into her office this morning, and he caught her looking at his bum. She says she's blushed loads and he's just smoked at her.

bursting
Tell her to wear low cut tops with a lot of cleavage showing and when the opportunity arises accidentally let him see her bare pussy up her skirt

i122
She does wear a few low cut tops already. And she's caught him looking down her top before too.

She wears quite short skirts with high heels that she looks ace in. She always teams these with black tights though. I've asked her to wear hd ups and suspenders with proper stockings, and she has said that she will, once she's list a bit of weight and feels a little bit more confident.

I'm encouraging this, and will push for her to go knickerless once she's wearing them often. Hoping for more interaction to develop.

She text at lunchtime today to say something has happened that's easier to explain when she sees me, that's left her hot and flustered. I'm intrigued. Don't expect it to be much, as always, but small steps are better than none surely.

Absolutely - there's signs of progress here I think. Keep us all posted as to what happens. She's coming round to your way of thinking!

What happened the other day was really tame and nothing at all really, but it left her horny as hell with thoughts more than anything.

Boss had been into her office and was stood right next to her as she was seated, ended up crouched down so his face was at her level, and he reached for something slightly catching her breast. Only slightly brushed as he picked something up. Not even enough to say sorry about, but she was left with a head full of naughty thoughts and a wet pussy.

He might need to visit another part of the country later this year with business, only for a day and perhaps a night. He has said to her that if it happens, he'll have loads of paperwork to sort with it all, and might need to take her with him. She says it was said tongue in cheek and as a throwaway comment really, but she did reply that that would be good and fine with her.

Brilliant idea! I'm not holding my breath, but one never knows.

Wouldn't be the first time this kind of thing has happened - it's a perfect excuse for some extra marital fucking.

kennyboy82

Exactly. That's what I am hoping for. Only the very slightest of chances of this being a possibility, but I've my fingers crossed.

I'd mentioned before that my lady had interests outside of work as far as potential fix ups goes.

One has become a little more prominent this past week or so.

She has been trying to lose a little weight and to tone up too, so has been going to a gym and also doing a few classes. She had an instructor a little while ago that she quite liked, (Big build, 6ft 4 - she's 5ft 2 and prefers big guys) but his class ended and she'd moved on to another. They were still in touch on Facebook though, and he'd swapped a few comments publicly and a few messages privately (nothing exciting mind, but messages all the same) All private messages had a kiss or two added to the end of them from both him and her. Just friendly more than anything really.

He was starting a class up again so got in touch with her, and she went to the first one last Friday, and really enjoyed it. She messaged today asking if it was ok to go again this week, as she had said to him that she would confirm before this weeks class. I said it was ok, of course, and that I thought it was only fair she got her weekly fix of him again (slightly tongue in cheek comment from me).
She said that she wanted to check with me as it eats into our Friday night together and she will be out till nearly 9pm. I said that's fine, and it'll be worth it if she gets anything 'extra' from him. Again, being a little cheeky.

Her - I'll work on that
Me - You mean that?
H - I think so lol
M - Ok
H - If its ok with you obviously
M - I want you to
H - Ok, i'll try
M - Good. Try to keep imagining how good his hard cock would feel
H - *Horny*
M - And his big strong hands all over your body
H- *Grrrr!!*
M - And how hard he would make you cum
H - Really tingly now!
M - Good. I want you to be. You should message him about Friday, and start something.
H - Well I said I'd let him know if I'd be able to go this week so i'll message him. Will do it tonight though.
M - OK. Crank it up and be a naughty girl
H - I'll try!

Now I'm half expecting her to message him tonight as she said, but that will be it. A simple message or two, and nothing more, certainly nothing flirty or anything exciting. I hope she proves me wrong, but she does that sort of thing a lot. I have got to have hope that she'll be brave sooner or later.

sounds really promising and, in fact, much better than seeing a guy from work (could lead to complications....)

She messaged him, and tried pushing him a bit, but he wasn't biting and it didn't go anywhere sadly.

Not exactly what I hoped, but shes seeing him tonight and might message him again over the weekend. He has a partner, so may be being good, or simply not interested, I don't know.

She edged me several times whilst talking about him and teasing me though, which I really enjoyed. Then she got herself off thinking about her and him fucking whilst I watched, with a vibrator, then had me fuck her after she'd cum. She came twice on my cock whilst thinking about him and talking about him, but I wasn't allowed to cum at all.

Text this afternoon.

She has bumped into ex-boss (The guy she wants more than anyone else and the one who suggested a fling but bottled it).
She says that nothing exciting happened, but it has perked up her day, and she'll tell me later on.

Expecting perhaps they exchanged cheeky grins or something equally minor. Will report back when I know, and hopefully get some feedback.

Could it be that she is fucking others but just not telling you? I know my wife likes her privacy and thinks it is more exciting to have affairs that I'm not supposed to know about.

No. I trust her fully and she is very honest and open like that. She wouldn't do anything at all without telling me first.

Don't abandon hope, there's still signs that she's got the potential to fuck, be it her ex-boss or some other lucky guy. Keep me in the loop please.

She came home from her fitness class, in a good mood. Said she'd caught her fitness instructor looking at her a few times during the class, which she liked but that was all there.

Her ex boss gas her flustered earlier on though. They'd chatted amongst a group at work, and she'd caught him looking down her top twice and at her nylon covered thighs a few times too as she was sat down. He'd stood right next to her as the chatted at one point, leaning in a little, which made her tingle down below, and she'd been day dreaming about him kissing her neck and touching her.

She had me lick her to orgasm, then edged me several times whilst telling me what she'd like to do with both the fitness guy and her ex boss, leaving me terribly frustrated and with heavy aching balls having not cum. Then she played again with her vibrator, cumming once more as I kissed her neck so she could think about her ex boss again.

Before we went to *****, she swapped a few messages with the fitness guy, but nothing exciting sadly, he's still not biting there.

I'm at work today.

She's text to tell me that they are messaging again. As yet, just fitness chat. I've asked her if she wants to push it a bit and try and get the chat onto 'other' things. She's saying she wants that, but will see how it goes. She won't be blunt with him or anything like that.

Hoping!

More messages last night, still just chat. At my suggestion, a coffee meet was mentioned, albeit briefly, which he said ok to but we don't know of that's serious just yet.

On a weekend, she sometimes works for a couple of hours, and he is often working nearby too, so it was aimed at a weekend coffee if at all.

She's of to the gym this morning ( not one he's at) and will be back in a few hours. I asked if she's going to message him again today, as he's working. She said she might, if it was ok with me. I said it was, and that I want her to. She smiled and laughed, saying ok then.

As I'm alone for next few hours, I'm locked in my cock cage as I'm horny as hell and can't be trusted.