Chance of a start...

Patience my friend patience
Droopy and Miss

Patience my friend patience
Droopy and Miss

I know, I know. Heading for 4 years now though, wearing a bit thin.

My wife is the same if you've read our previous posts but sometimes she just wants to go with the flow remember its her boss so might feel a little awkward about it. If she does it off her own back instead of you pushing she will enjoy it more which means you will reap the rewards.
Droopy and Miss

I know what you are saying, and you're right of course.

It's still the same with others who aren't her boss though.

Still not replied to any of the lovely women who messaged her, or spoken to her boss about this coming Friday night. We went shopping at th weekend and she bought a very short dress for Friday, which she is going to team with nylons and towering heels.

Ask her to tie you up before she leaves?
Droopy and Miss

Ask her to tie you up naked and leave you in the garage before she leaves for party. Get her boss to pick her up from your home. You will hear him arrive and knock on door and hear them drive away and hopefully drop her off who knows he might want to stop for a goodnight *****!
Droopy and Miss

Will you be going to the party with her bursting? If so just boldly go up to her boss and tell him, "I'm glad to finally meet the guy who my wife fantasies about every time we have sex." Flatly ask him if he has fucked her yet and if he says no then tell him you don't know why because she is so hot to fuck him it wouldn't be any effort at all. Tell him if he doesn't believe you to go ask her for a blow job in the bathroom or wherever they could have some privacy.

if there is still time, something you could do is suggest to her that she offer for you to drive her and her boss to the party this year, so that way they can both have beverages and it would be like repaying him for him driving her last year. then when you go to pick him up instead of her sitting in the front with you and him in the back, she should slip in to sit in the back with him. then you will feel like a chauffeur. this way at the party they will arrive together, and they can both have *******... if she is feeling bold on the way home in the car she could be flirting with him in the back seat while you sit up front trying to concentrate on the road... just my idea...

mystTiger

Id love that, it would be ace. But he will be driving as he doesn't ***** and has some distance to drive.

i122

I wont be going, sadly. That'd be a sort of angle I would consider, maybe not in so many blunt words, but I'd hint at it and build from there.

shankly
I've asked her that sort of thing already actually, a few weeks ago.

I asked to be tied to the bed in the spare room, but she wont leave me alone tied up whilst she is out. Worried if there was a fire or something, which although unlikely, I can see her point.

Instead, I've asked to be locked away in my chastity cage whilst she is out so I cant play (because I would). She quite liked this idea when I mentioned it, but hasn't said anything about it since sadly.

Good thread!

Thanks Peter.

Any tips or ideas?

Tomorrow is the Christmas party. As of mid afternoon today, she still hadn't spoken to her boss about a lift or anything.

Really wish she would, and push from there.

bursting
I am starting to get frustrated for you myself. If you have her bosses number call him and ask him if he would mind taking her. Explain that you don't want her ******** and driving. Tell him to offer to drive her for her safety and that he knows she is to shy to ask for a ride. Also be sure to tell him that after a cocktail she can get horny and slutty so be prepared. Tell him that if he has a *****, it gets to late or the weather turns bad that you would understand if they decided to spend the night for safety reasons. Tell him if they do decide to get a hotel room to send you a text so you won't stay up all night wording about them.

bursting
I am starting to get frustrated for you myself. If you have her bosses number call or text him and ask him if he would mind taking her. Explain that you don't want her ******** and driving. Tell him to offer to drive her for her safety and that he knows she is to shy to ask for a ride. Also be sure to tell him that after a cocktail she can get horny and slutty so be prepared. Tell him that if he has a *****, it gets to late or the weather turns bad that you would understand if they decided to spend the night for safety reasons. Tell him if they do decide to get a hotel room to send you a text so you won't stay up all night wording about them. One other thing tell him to show her your text telling him you they should spend the night if it gets too late or ***** too much or the weather turns bad or it's too dark to safely drive home etc

You could leave a pair of wire cutters or scissors on case of emergency? You will be punished if found cut on her returning
Droopy and Miss

Be careful with the boss. You do not want her to loose her job.... Bad combination

peter50
Good point but on the other hand if both boss and wife have an adult perspective temperament and all understand the separation required between work & play it can be a rewarding and gratifying experience. Some of our best partners have been from our workplace. However if possessiveness emotions jealousy or expectations of a different work relationship because either of them are having sex, well that could indeed be bad. I once was at a place that required a lot of travel. We all knew who had home spouses and travel spouses.

i122
Thanks for your words.

I didn't contact her boss, I want something to happen without my 'meddling' like that, feel it should be her initiating it or being led into it whilst im on the outside. It needs to be her decision and doing, her control.

He is driving and is expected back at his home tonight, this is normal for his relationship, so no chance of a hotel anyway.

shankly
I'd said this same thing, still wasn't interested.

peter50
We are both VERY wary of this aspect, and its part of why she is hesitant at times.

Anything that might happen is fun, and needs to be seen that way by all parties, and needs to remain as such. This much we both agree on.

So. Tonights update as it were.

She came home from work and spent just over 2 hours getting ready upstairs.

She came down ready to go, and I have honestly NEVER seen her look so good. Never, ever, in all our years.

I was left literally breathless. Which has never happened to me in my life.

New LBD that is rather shorter than I thought it would be, a couple of inches below her cheeks. Sexy, glossy black opaque nylons and her sky-high black patent peephole stilettos. Smokey eye make up, subtle lipstick and hair done beautifully.

I am SO jealous that I'm not at her side tonight.

I gave her a lift to the venue, struggling to keep my eyes on the road all the way. Watching her getting out and walking away and through the doors was amazing.

I told her that id be available to pick her up at any time if she wants, but if she is to be getting a lift or whatever to let me know. She said she would, and said she'd aim to be ready to be picked up at midnight, unless she was getting brought home by someone else.

Really don't think anything will happen, sadly, as ever. But if theres anything, I'm online all night trying to keep my hands out of my pants, so will update if needs be.

As before, fingers crossed!!!

Any updates?
Droopy and Miss

Sorry for delay. Not always able to get online.

Text her just after 11. Asking if I was picking her up. Yes please, 12 was the reply.

So I drove over and parked outside.

A little after 12 she came out. Not a lot to say at first, a little ***** though.

Had a good night, been dancing etc.

Then she tells me...

Her ex boss was there. This is the guy shes lusted after for the last 5 years and has flirted with before. She always goes back to him during fantasies.

He always gets very *****, and often staggers home, not really recalling a great deal of an evening. He does have a bit of a history with young ladies even though he is married.

She danced with him a fair bit, him grabbing her ass and her returning the favour.

Him - I really like you
Her - Thanks, I like you too
Him - Youre really hot
Her - Thank you
Him - I think me and you should have a filthy affair
Her - Yeah? If you feel the same when you sober up, I'm game if you are
Him - Next time I see you at work, I'm gonna give you such a naughty look.

Sounds excellent!

I like the sound of that. and so does she. I told her that I want her to have a filthy affair with him, and she should go for it if she can.

She also danced a little with her current boss, that didn't amount to much but she enjoyed.

And danced and had slightly wandering hands with a female colleague who she really fancies.

Not sure what to expect from here on in, as it may have all been simply ***** talking from either side, but things just might turn soon.

We'll see. See if anything happens or is said this coming week or so.

We fucked hard and lustfully when she got home, it was amazing sex.

We text a little yesterday whilst she was at work. She had been a bit apprehensive about going in and what might happen if she sees her ex boss after the weekends events.

She did think that he might be off this week, to be with his Mrs over Christmas.

I'll transcribe the texts.



Me-Anything happened today so far?

Her-Not really. It looks like he is in this week though, not rostered off, Ive checked.

Me-Think you need to try and catch him.

Her-I'm going to try

Me-Whats the plan?

Her-Maybe ask if he enjoyed the other night and go from there.

Me-Do it by email?

Her-No. If it leads anywhere I don't want to risk anyone seeing it.

Me-OK. Need to go to his office then.

(His office is in a different building on the site, and she wouldn't normally head over there too much)

Her-The risk is that I make a point of going and he doesn't remember anything (as said earlier he has a habit of getting so ***** that he doesn't recall). I don't know if I want to remind him if he doesn't....

Me-I see. Calls him on it if he doesn't, or just says he doesn't.

Her-You think I should?

Me-Might be worth a try. If he doesn't remember, then you can laugh it off and say nice thought, never mind. Or, suggest its obviously on his mind, fancy some fun?

Her-I'll try that. I need to be brave don't I? And push it a bit.

Me-Yeah. You've always wanted his cock, I think you should have it. I know youre busy today, but try and get to see him as he might take rest of the week off to be at home.

Her-He's at the other site today, I know he is definitely here on Wednesday though as he has appointments booked.



So there we are so far. Hope its kind of made some sense?

He should be on site today, but shes not really sure as to whether she'll get to see him or not. She brought me off last night, telling me to think of him and her in his office, fucking on his desk. Felt fantastic!

Text from her.


Her-Just saw him in the corridor. He said Hi and looked very sheepish. I asked if he'd recovered from the other night, he said just about and made a joke about being well behaved as always, so I laughed, but he started walking off as he was saying it so I didn't have chance to say anything else. I want to email him but don't know if I should, just saying something like I take it you've had a change of heart since the other night?

Me-Do it. Whilst the chance is there.

She has. Took a pic of the email and text me it to show me.

She's really busy, so is getting on with her work, promising to text me later. We''ll just have to see what happens.

I know this is all basic and nothing much has or is happening. But it is real and happening to me/us.

Can we see the pic of email
Droopy and Miss

You cant im afraid. It literally says what she said in the text, and contains far too much info upon it.

Shes just text again, saying shes having a quick short lunch break, and as yet has not had a reply from him.

Really hope he doesn't ignore her

sounds like good developments... she has made some big steps and it from the sounds of it she is really worried about putting herself out there to much so i agree with you and hope that he doesn't ignore her. that could be a huge setback to her confidence if he ignores her at this stage. fingers crossed that things will pan out as you hope...