Chance of a start...

I'm at work again tonight, so she's at home alone, free to do as she likes I guess.

Just checked her account, she hasn't been online as yet. Sad face.

Well, she's online looking, on both sites this time.

Can't see too much happening, as she's text to say that one of the sites is quite full on/busy and she'll need to get her head around how it works an stuff first. I can understand that to be honest.

Fingers crossed for me!!!

Any thoughts this far?

Text saying that there really aren't many nice looking guys at all, or the profiles are really dodgy.

But.

She has found one and has messaged him on spec. And has had a reply, they are off and chatting.....

I don't know if anyone who has dipped into this thread is actually bothered, as I know it's all hardly anything amazing, but it's potential progress for me. And writing about it is helping my thoughts and feelings.

They swapped online messages for quite a bit, immediately turning the chat smutty and sexual. He seems keen and has suggested one or two ideas for a meet. She is really keen and in her words to me afterwords "I really really want him to fuck me".

He called it a night as it was late, and she was really tired to. She did say to me that she was knackered but didn't want to stop chatting with him.

They've arranged to chat again tomorrow, but sadly looks like via kik so I can't view it. We are going to talk in the morning when I get home before she goes to work.

I have told her that I want to see him fucking her, and I want her to give herself to him, to be his toy. She really liked that idea.

So. We have indeed made some progress, and I hope it continues tomorrow.

bursting, sounds exciting! Have you talked to your GF about rules for her to follow? Make sure you're both on the same page regarding what's ok and what's not ok. Have fun with this and keep us all in the loop.

Take it from a guy whose had experience; DON'T GIVE UP!!!!!! You're in a place with your wife many wannabe cucks would envy. Just be patient and direct. She already wants to give her pussy to another man. She's just a bit shy about closing the deal. Keep trolling for men and eventually she'll score. She should also wear low cut tops to work to make it easy for her boss to enjoy the view. Eventually he'll want her more.
Faggot Pussy

shall54
We've spoken at length about things and have a agreed ground rules as such.

TinyCockWimp
Thanks for your advice. She's recently bought a few more low cut tops just for work actually!

Her and her new fella have been messaging all day long, all sexual and quite naughty. She's been tingly and wet all day over him which I'm loving. I'm at work again tonight and she's home alone, still swapping filthy chat with this potential bull. He's talking just like a bull too!

I hope something happens!

Update

A couple of days messaging between the two of them. Really explicit chat, her being hugely turned on by him and saying to me that she's happy to try and arrange to meet him.

Then nothing.

He has vanished. Won't return any messages, she has sent a couple asking what's gone on but doesn't want to chase him.

She's gutted and has been really down since then. She logs onto the dating site he's on to see if he's there, and thinks about him a lot.

Really annoyed that he's done this. I know there are dozens of legitimate reasons why, but still frustrating.

She's looked online for other guys, but none really take her fancy.

Sadly this happens a lot. It's not just those who advertise for this who turn out to be fakes but quite often those who reply are also fakes. They are probably in a relationship going nowhere and like the thrill of something naughty but when it gets too close they back off. Keep trying - it will happen if you both want it to...

This is something I considered.

Such a shame.

She's gotten quite down through the experience. Her self confidence isn't great anyway, she was perking up through this adventure, now she's dipped lower than she was.

Not great.

I've tried encouraging her to get back on the horse and be actively looking/approaching online, but she's quite dispondant with it.

Post a pic of her. We will encourage her.
HIT1969

She shouldn't let herself feel so bad. The guy who pulled the vanishing act was a pretender- either a married guy who can't get away, or maybe a teenager.
You need to remind her what it was like when her boss was staring down her shirt. If the boss is still an option,
you need to send your wife a text/sms that says "go for it!" with a thumbs up emoji. Why? She can show this to the boss, and maybe this will convince him...
When to show him? Maybe she can stay late or let work build up on a day she's alone with him.
In my experience, my wife has NEVER hooked up with an internet connection. It's always been through personal contacts. Those have the best chance for success.
It seems the boss is shy. While she is flirting with him, she needs to look around during the day, and see if she likes
any of the males she sees, and start flirting with them, too. That will help her self-esteem.

There may be a pic on here at some point, but not just yet.

I have text her that kind of thing before, but nothing like that has happened. I've told her to look around, and there are a few other guys she'd like to bed, but the place she works in is huge and these guys she sees fleetingly in passing, and she wouldn't have a reason or excuse to go see these guys at other times.

So anything is limited sadly.

Update on actions and behaviours....

We have been playing with denial play for a while. On and off, nothing major. Currently, I am allowed to play with myself during the day, but not cum. This is the kind of thing we do a bit of.
I last came during sex on Monday night.
Tuesday, I was allowed to edge 20 times during the day, which I did.
Yesterday, I was allowed to edge 10 times, which I did 8 during the day and she allowed me to do another 2 in bed last night whilst she stroked my body to arousal.
Today, she has gone to work telling me I have a maximum of 5 edges allowed during the day, and that's it.

She trusts me not to break the limits, and I really try not to.

We have spoken about a chastity device before, but shes never liked them. Hates the look of them but likes the idea of why they are worn.

This past week or so, we have spoken about them a bit more, me explaining that I'd like to wear one for her, on occasion rather than all the time.
She made a point last night before bed to sit me down and to look at some online.
She still doesn't like the look of them, and isn't too sure she'd want to touch one or interact with me in one, but she has said that if that's what I want, I am to order one and we can see how we go with it. It might be that she or we don't gel with it, and its tried and no more. Or we could like it and it stays.

I am looking at ordering one today.

Chastity cage ordered and is on it's way. Denial play still ongoing, a little over 6 days since my last orgasm ( I normally cum at least once a day) and I haven't been allowed inside her since either.
I'm giving oral pleasure to her and helping her cum manually, but for me it is occassional masturbation with no release.

We had friends staying over the weekend, she allowed me to edge twice in bed, on the provision that we left the bedroom door open and I moaned out loud so I was to be heard. I agreed, but she made me moan louder and louder in order to maintain cock stroking. Very embarrassing.

I've been allowed to fuck her properly this week, ending denial play. Felt fantastic!

Chastity device arrived and I've tried wearing it a few times. It's pretty good! She isn't very happy with it though, and is taking time to come round. She might take a while but I'll not rush her.

No more messages from our male friend, he's really put her back. Thanks 'mate'....

She's back to her interest in girls a bit more this week, and as such, I'm encouraging her to pursue it. She's always been bi curious and I'd love to see her with another woman. She sent a few messages to women online, but hasn't had any feedback of any note sadly.

There's been some message swapping with a few girls, but nothing is coming from them really, which is a shame.

Nothing else happening with her boss either, he lets me down, what ********** male wouldn't at least give in to some flirting with a busty young lady who was trying it on?!?

I'm locked up again today, at her insistence which is a positive sign from the denial point if view if nothing else.

Nobody any more input or help for me?

Not sure what anyone could help you with... It sounds pretty much like you are controlling everything when the ball is really in her court. Is this what she wants? Maybe if you let her move at her own pace, she will make progress. I could be wrong here, but this is what I see based upon your posts.

I guess im just wanting things to pick up a bit. We've sort of been at this point, minus me in chastity, on and off for a few years now.

Frustrating.

I'm enjoying this, there's a lot of potential here, you just need to be a little patient, don't rush her, it'll happen for sure.
I'm more than happy to talk to her as a Bull. If she's interested then get her to pm me on here with an email or yahoo message addy and we'll go from there.

Thank you Kenny

She doesn't know im posting on here, and id like to keep it that way. This is more a cathartic outlet for me more than anything else.

I live in hope that she moves sooner rather than later.

I've been locked up for a week now, and I'm enjoying this side of things. No progress from the online sites she's on really, few random crappy messages not worth pursuing.

She stroked my locked cock and balls last night whilst telling me just what she wants to do with her boss, in his office involving lots of sucking and fucking. She was laughing as I squirmed. I begged her for release which she denied and I begged her to fuck her boss, which she liked.

Anything new to update?

Thanks for the request.

We played a few times more with me locked, and we both enjoyed it.

Of late though, shes lost interest in seeing me locked up. A shame.

Shes not had much luck on the dating site, other than one word messages which has sickened her off it sadly.

Fun with boss has been the odd look/glance and a few emails that have been a little flirty but nothing more.

SO,SO hoping she can push a little when the Christmas party comes round!!!!

Trying to encourage her, and she seems keen.

Bursting-
You mentioned above that you have spoken at length and have set some 'ground rules'. Would you be willing to share what those ground rules are to some extent? My wife and I are in the very early stages of her talking to other guys about sex and we would love to hear what your ground rules might be. We are pretty new at this and appreciate hearing how others have handled some of these things. Many thanks!
JK

Certainly Jimmy

She is allowed to flirt with anyone at all, male or female.

She can do this face to face, via message/text, phone or email.

She must inform me of anything though.

And keep me updated to any progress. this is something she wants too, so I'm up to speed and can voice any concerns.

Anything more than flirting, is ok too. Touching, holding, kissing are all good.

If SHE decides that she wants to go further, she tells me, and goes ahead.

Protection is to be worn, but full sex is ok.

If its a one off then fine, but if she wants to see them again, that's ok too.

That's the basics really to be honest.

It's just making it happen that's the issue. Really, really frustrating for me.

Christmas party is coming up soon for my lady. I've expressed to her how I'd like her to be given a lift from her boss again like last year.

I suggested that she make the first move, after he offered to bring her home out of the blue last year. I'd love him to pick her up and drop her off this time.

She loves this idea, but as yet hasn't spoken to him about it.

I really want to watch her walk down our driveway and get into his car, makes me so hard to think of it.

Any suggestions to help her along again?

Christmas party is a week today.

We spoke this morning about it. I asked her if she is going to speak to her boss regarding giving her a lift. She said that she'd love him to, but she doesn't want to bring it up with him. I said that she should, to take a bit of a lead on it, but she won't. Really disappointed.

In other news, she has had two messages of some quality on the dating site, both from pretty women.

First one she swapped a few messages with and was enjoying it, leaving things 2 days ago saying to this other woman that they'd chat again the next night. But she hasn't done this. I've said that I'm ok with her doing it, and that this woman will be waiting to hear back from her, but still nothing.

The second woman sent a nice message, and the Mrs said she'd reply, but again still hasn't bothered.

I'm so disappointed and frustrated.

My Mrs says so much how she wants to play with another woman, but fails to chase up anything.

She also always talks about her boss in bed, fantasising about fucking him and says she really really wants to and wishes he'd make a move, but yet fails to do anything that might result in this.