Help with my wife!

Hi all,

I will start by presenting my wife: she is latin in its mid 3o, in good shape (some extra pounds), sexy, loyal wife and girlfriend for 15 years.

I am the first and only man with whom she has been. For a while we were attending swingers sites, but nothing happen more that between us. When I say thing to her like "I now want you to go and choose any man to fuck" she refused and showed obfubrownieed, because she want to "know" and "match" one interesting guy and not only a "dick" without knowing who is behind the dick.

In pillow talk, she showed more comfortable to an open relationship, but when I told him about emotional ties with a new partner and his potential problems to our marriage, she said that don't want that kind of open relationship.

In later conversations, I told her that I wanted to see her with another man, that was my fantasy. After that we have a great sex fantasizing about being fucked by other men.

By now, she agree to post a Ashley Madimister and Craigslist add. We have a lot of responses, but she don't seems to be committed to find a guy. She see the ads, pick one (of 170) but never take the initiative to go further.

Please help me to push it one step closer to the lifestyle!

Mav

Jeez! Fucking HOT body on her - I'll fuck her for you!

Let us know how it goes

Thank you Kennyboy, she's really hot in bed too! I can't wait to see it with another guy!

This night I'm going to initiate some pillow talk about this.

Today we was on wallgreens waiting for some medicine, and I was joking about a "make-your-self-at-home" dna parental test, and she said "You don't need it... by now" and was an instant hard on!

I'm very excited about this! Hope make it real soon.

Some of you are in a similar situation?

Mav

MavArg
So have you had any luck at getting your wife fucked by someone else yet? I have met a few people from Ashley Madimister. She might also try SwingersLifestyle, there are a lot of us on there looking to hook up also

She has a great figure

You need to put your wife's profile on a dating site. Candidates will be.

Hey Guys! Finally I have a great update on this.

After a year of pillow talk with wife, and dirty talk when we have sex. We start talking more serious about she being fucked by a guy. Time passed and she was more and more on it, and I noticed that every time we talked she became hotter and hotter. The most important issue was that I was the first and only men in her sexual life.

Two months ago, I had to travel almost a month out of the country for business, and one night we were talking about two hours of this and she told me she had a strong pleasure pain in their pussy, that moment was so fucking hot and I almost exploded. To end this conversation she told me: "ok, when you came back, we will go to a swinger site and see what happen".

And finally one Friday, we left our kids with her grandparents, and we go to a Swinger place in Miami. The place was nearly empty. We toke some dr1nks and the night become hotter and hotter. Twice we walked into a room and lock the door, but single men's constantly try to enter to our room knocking the door but never let them in. At such times we did nothing, we just kissed and touching a little bit.

Later, we went to the nudist zone, grab a room, and lock the doors again. But this time, without clothes, the atmosphere became hotter and hotter, and I start to suck her pussy, she was so wet! By that moment I had taken ​​the decision that the next time that a guy hits the door I would open and let the guy enter and see what happens.

The door was knocked and I opened it. A bald guy enter to the room and says "Who needs help?" I say "she". My wife has no complaints about this (dr1nks I think) and let him start sucking his pussy. I put my dick in her mouth and she has a double oral for first time. After a little warm up, the guy decide to take her, I grab some condoms and gave to him. He put the rubber on it and start to fuck my wife! that was awesome, a unique experience! At that time, I wanted to give them some time alone, and I go to the side of the bed to see the action.

The guy fucked her like half an hour, but I think that he was so dru.nk that will never come. Wife told me to take his place, so I told the guy thank you and please let us alone.

After the guy leaves the room, I started to suck her pussy, her used pussy, the smell and the wetness was so fucking great! After give to her two orgasm, I told her that I want to fuck her used pussy. The first time that my dick enter in her pussy was the more exciting moment of my sexual life. After a few moments I come inside her and was the great orgasm that I have.

I am exited! Attached are the only two photos that I can take!

MavArg That's a great update. Congratulations on finally making it happen. Patience is the key, and you were both rewarded with a good first experience. Now that you've broken the barrier, hopefully she'll decide to keep going!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Welcome to the world of a shared wife! I'm sure she'll be wanting more strange cock from now on, maybe even getting to the point where she gives you a nice sloppy and creamy reward?
Cuck who loves a creampie.

It sounds like you have a wife that is both hot to have sex with other men, but is also on the shy side. The next time your wife reveals an interest in another man, but will not take the next step, you must take the initiative. Walk up to the guy and tell him: "I cannot satisfy my wife, and she needs a REAL man like you to pleasure her. Are you game to help us out?" Then let basic human sex drives take their normal course of action. All the Best to both of you.
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

Thank you all for the congratulations! All the talks with wife after this experience was about that she would love to do it again, with a new guy. She really enjoy the fuck, even if she didn't reach any orgasm with him, the sensation about being fucked with other guy was exciting and she have a really good time with the guy.

The guy after the fuck, give to my wife their phone, what I should do about this? Push her to call the guy? leave as is? arrange another swing night? I really don't know how to proceed!

The past two weeks after that night we have sex almost every night, and both of us remembering the great fuck of that night!

Call the guy and see if he will get and provide you with a current medical certificate attesting to him being STD free. Then arrange a meeting at a local watering hole. After having a couple "waters" suggest the three of you get a hotel room for the night because no one should ***** & drive.

I would suggest not pushing. Instead I would let your wife make the decision. Right now she's probably letting it all sink in. Give her time to adjust and think it over, then let her decide whether to call the guy for Round #2, or move on and find someone else...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I slightly disagree with PC on this one. It has been two weeks and you have said the sex between you two has bee constant and great. Like I said in my opinion you should contact him and tell him to get a medical certificate. That would not mean she should bareback him but it will help with the trust issue. Set up a meet in a week or two, preferably right before her period. She will be the most horny at that time of her cycle. Just meet the guy somewhere and see how she reacts. If you get a good bib from her it could be game on again!

Hey guys!

Thank you for your advice.

I think that shes not the type of girl that loves to be pushed! She take its time for this kind of things. I think that I must let it go at his time. But every time we make love the threesome bring up again and we have a really fucking hot sex.

Next week I'm traveling for business again. Several times I have told her that she can go out and have fun with a guy when I'm not in home, but she always told me about do this only with me present. I will love if she fuck another guy when I'm out! In my own bed!

I'm going to insist this time again, but maybe some advice is appreciated, because my approach is not working!

Two days ago, she cleanup it's purse, the guy give to her it's phone number in a napkin and she put it on it's purse. I don't know if she throw this napkin or not, but id she still have the paper, it means that she want to fuck him again!!

What to do?!?!?!

id follow SheDatesHeWaitss advice as it sounds pretty good and sagely advice from my experience, pushing could set you way back, easy does it everytime


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My wife was the same way, when we started. She would ONLY do it if I was there, watching. She was reassured by my presence, and she wanted to experience everything together.

Over time though my wife gradually changed her opinion, and today she's perfectly comfortable playing on her own. But you have to let your wife decide for herself. Encourage her and she'll get there. If you push her it can backfire and blow up on you. Be patient and give her time to adjust to the idea. Women don't move as fast as we guys do.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Another great update from here!

Last friday we went again to the swinger site. This time was she how ask me to go, and in the same conversation she told me: "the most difficult step was the first guy, now I want to fuck more guys!", this was for me an instant hard on, almost cum in my pants.

About the last friday, we go earlier to this site, grab some ****** and dance a little bit. Then we go to the nude rooms, and entered a room, when I was about to close the door, she told me: "let the door open to see what happens"... then we start kissing and touching, and a couple (early 40) come to the room and start to touch my wife, I looked to her, and she was so horny that I let the couple play with us. The girl was overweight, so I limit my participation to suck her. The guy also start sucking my wife pussy, she was moaning. After a while, he put a condom on his penis and start to fuck my wife, she screamed with each stroke, she was really enjoying the fuck. After 20 minutes, she ask him to let me fuck her, I stop to suck his wife pussy and enter my soaked penis into my wife. After the 4 stroke i came into her.

Later she told me that this time was nice, but she enjoy more with the first guy, so I asked her if she still kept the mobile phone of this first guy and his answer was "yes, I have it", another instant hard on for me.

She is really into this fucking another guys, she has no problem telling her friends what we do, actually his 3 best friends know it, and one of the girls want to join us.

What do you recommend to do now? Let her fuck guys alone? I would love it, but I enjoy to much seeing this encounters. I don't know if I'm going to enjoy she fucking another guy without me in the same way.

Any want to tell me your experience with this points?

This Friday we are going to the swinger site again. Recommendations about what to do? Something new?

Thanks!

She had a taste of fucking other guys and she likes it. All you have to do now is follow her lead and be sure you give her MANY opportunities to get fucked. Seems like she's gonna like variety of different men
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Thank you for your response!

I think the same! But she is not in the BBC yet... have to wait to see he stretched! The guys that have fucked till now, have almost the same size than me (6").

I can't wait to see her with a big cock in her small and not very used pussy!

Lots of white guys have more than 6". I always make sure the men that stuff my wife's holes are AT LEAST TWICE my length. So it's 8 inches and thick for her. This way she can see how much better a real man feels fucking her than with me. The extra stretch reminds her what she's missing in our marital bed.
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That is true, but for this moment, she like more medium size dicks, thicker but about 5" or 6" in length. She like very hard dicks instead bigger, I hope in the future she want bigger cocks!

MavArg, don't worry about it, easy does it always brings results. Try not to push her too hard also, sometimes they don't like being rail-roaded into a situation, they lose any control they think they might have.
The telling thing for me is her confession after she'd fucked the first guy, that the first fuck outside your marriage was difficult, a mental barrier to overcome, but afterwards, she's admitted she can't get enough! It's good sign that she kept the phone number of the first guy, she'll be back for more, definitely!
Enjoy it, it's a whole new, exciting lifestyle opening up to you, so welcome to the world of cuckolds! I hope you're going to continue to post her exploits!

It's exactly what is happening now, she wants to fuck more and more guys!

Today night I'm going to talk about the other guy and about go to the swinger site tomorrow night. Any advice for tonight conversation?

Let her lead the way. A lot of cucks obsess about the Alpha males having "huge" cocks, but many women prefer average to above average equipment. For them it's just as much about the excitement of being with someone new, and the flattery of being desired by another man, etc.

Eventually she may want to explore bigger cocks. That usually happens. However, I would suggest letting her get to that on her own time. Until then, just encourage her to enjoy the variety of other men and have fun with it all.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

You will soon experience the unsettling feeling of watching your wife go out the door on a date knowing full well that before she returns to you she will have been fucked by another man. Control your jealousy, your urge to masterbate and enjoy her sex when she returns home.

This is true, I don't have the fantasy about bigger cocks for her, but if you see here in the site, all the bulls and all the photos are of big cocks.


We have this conversation the other day, for both of us, to be with any other men/women that we want, this is something that right now is up to us. Right now i don't want to do it with another women, I hope she want to fuck another guy.

Last update about the first guy, she have drop to the garbage the phone number. She don't want to be with this guy anymore, she want to try someone else.

She's got the bug now, it won't be long before she finds another stud to fuck, and after him, another, and then another, and so on! It's called being a Hotwife and a cuckoldress! Enjoy it!

If she carries on this way, it won't be long before you qualify to move up from the basic cuckold section!

Today night we are going to the swinger nightclub, yesterday night we talk about it, and I ask she about how many guys she want to fuck for now on, and she told me "as much as I can"...

I hope today we have another great history to tell about it! If I can, I will take pictures!