Started so well, but now...

When my wife and I first got together, she was very into the idea of relaxing with other men. She'd grown up religious and very conservative and she was just breaking out of her shell when she met me. She went on a bit of a rampage for about a year. It was pretty spectacular!

Since then though, she's cooled off a lot. As things currently stand, I'm only with her for two weeks at a time. Then there are two weeks where we don't see each other. I'd have thought that this would be the perfect chance for her to relax around some more, but she just lacks the interest. She's tried online to see what's out there, but nobody really appeals to her and so she doesn't follow through with anyone.

When we talk about it, she gets very turned on by the idea of being used and treated like a slut. The problem is that that isn't a very strong motivator for her to seek it out. Another problem is that I've kind of spoiled her... She likes getting fucked hard and most guys she sees just don't do a very good job. When she was still self-motivated, she slept with maybe fifteen different guys, but only one of them fucked her the way she wanted it.

So the result is that she doesn't see the prospective benefits as being worth the trouble and effort. She says she would rather just wait the two weeks for me to come back.

Meanwhile, I *want* her to be out slutting it up. I've even gone on various websites to try to find men she might like, but they all seem pretty terrible (every profile is some variation on, "lol i just want a fun girl and no drama"). I know she'd go along with it if I just invited someone over to fuck her (she's very submissive), but I'm really not interested if her heart isn't in it.

So what do you all think? Any suggestions for how I can reawaken that lust in her? And how do you find dominant bulls for your wives who can at least string a few sentences together?

@ Cuckoldbull are you interested in swapping wives? I'm also from Queens. Hit me up with a private message.
Just Give It a Little Kiss!

Maybe contact one of her previous good fucks and have him accidentally meet you two at a restaurant or club and flirt with her. She may just be feeling unsexy and his attention may reinvigorate her sex drive. Invite the guy over just for old time sake and let him bang the **** out of her for the night. The next morning tell her how proud you are of her effort last night and how much you enjoyed her being pleased by the stud. Tell her that you have missed your old wife and last night was a refreshing return to what she once was and how you hope and pray she will do it again for the three of you.

The idea that i122 suggests is a good one...I have at times arranged to 'accidentally' run into an old flame of my wife's at a lounge we frequent. When he saw us there and chatted us up I invited him to sit with us and one thing has led to another to the point they started dancing together very close, his hands on her buttocks. I could see him biting her ear as they danced and she rubbing herself closer and closer. I could tell things were looking up and I encouraged them as much as I could. Afterwards it ended up with the 2 of them in bed and me waiting for seconds. Sometimes you have to make your own luck. I felt a little guilty for arranging the encounter, but the end justified the means in my mind. All's well that ends well.