It doesn't usually happen overnight just like that...most times you talk about it, you fantasize, you get turned on by it and think nothing will ever come of it because one or both of you is apprehensive and fearful that it may harm your relationship. Slowly you start thinking more and more about it to the point that it is just making you crazy with lust and you just have to at least say you tried it. You finally talk her into it, and if your experience is like mine was you will get hooked on it! You will enjoy the experience like nothing ever before! What you thought previously was your best sexual experience does not even come close to the amazingly wonderful things that you will feel in the pit of your belly, your insides will rejoice as you share your wife with another man and you will think she's the sexiest thing alive...you will not believe what an incredible turn on it is and you will long for the next time you can have the experience. If you're like me you will find yourself trying to set up 'dates' for your wife and you will encourage her to dress sexier and sexier. After a while you wonder why you wasted so much time (sometimes years!) thinking about it. And if you are anything like me you will absolutely LOVE being a cuckold. Just remember: baby steps at first, and you will soon seek more and more! Best of luck to you! Enjoy the ride!