noneforhubby
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I didn't have to convince my wife, she just told me that she enjoyed a varied selection of cocks ! She was only 19 at the time and we had been dating for about 6 months. By the time we walked down the aisle she'd fucked about 15 men.
I honestly believe that most women would like to try a bit of 'fooling around' but getting them to actually do it is normally quite difficult.
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clgrycuck
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The woman is either wants it or she doesn't. You have to put it out there before the relationship starts.
You need a girl that can't help but cheat, who needs other men, regularly and if you're lucky you will find a woman that gets off on the fact you need her to play!
My cuckold days are only in my dreams now. It sucks!
Don't live a life full of what if - or cheat on a girl because you are searching what's in your head, find a girl who wants the life....
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mecca410
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If you are serious about trying to get her to do it you have to start slow and it will take a while. There are many things you can begin to work on her. First, buy a dildo that is larger than yourself and get her used to it, I mean get her enjoying it, and get her to play alone and slowly bring in the size issue and how you are happy for her to enjoy larger with the dildo till she agrees and goes along with the size issue and your excitement from it. A lot of women will act all put out and say she will not use it, but find where she puts it and eventually you will see that she is using it behind your back, but that’s ok she is learning.
Second, watch porn, and get her to admit it being hot, then begin to ask what she likes and eventually she will admit she likes watching big boned guys fucking hot women, then you might ask if she ever thinks about her being the star, and how you would like to see her be the star, all the while in these steps telling her you love her no matter what.
Third, when you go to functions like work xmas parties of other functions like weddings and she kisses guys, talk to her after the event and say things like I am not sure how I should feel about it but it sort of turned me on to see you kissing another man, or hugging, dancing, or flirting. She will tell you that it is nothing and you should not worry about it. Then you say you are not worried about her doing it, you are worry about it turning you on. Always when you get home after talking about it turning you on make love to her big time and tell her how hot she is. Load her ego up with hot talk after she has given any attention to other men. Eventually she will let it grow and doing it just to turn you on.
And fourth, make it completely clear at all times she is the only woman that you are interested in, and is she, like most, accuse you of openning that door because wanting to screw another woman, you say no way, I just want to see you get off from a different viewing position. You only get to see her in action from up close, and how hot it would be to be sitting accross the room watching, able to move around and such, and always add that you most likely will be masturbating during it because it would be so hot!
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JUANITO
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GREAT advise from mecca410!!. I have used all the techniques he mentions and they worked favorably in my case. Once my wife and I finally were into the lifestyle they were no longer needed, but initially all of the things he mentions are important if you hope to be successful.
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jamesriske
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A good movie to watch to bring up the subject is Animal Instincts. The first one with David Carradine. It's about a guy who watches his wife have sex with other men. Watch that movie with her and it will totally bring up the subject. Admit to her that it's kind of a turn on.
Then start slowly. Have her meet the man and just give him a handjob and massage at first. See how it goes. Next time, she sucks his dick a little. And each time you work it up more and more until she's fucking them and you're watching. Take baby steps. Even if it takes you a year.
That's also good advice for those that are unsure if they really want to do it. Just start out with a hand job and massage. Test the waters. Have fun.
Worked for me.
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