whats more important for you as the husband or partner

simple question really
do you prefer your wife or girlfriend to fuck strangers i.e. the bar pick up or an old boyfriend or well known to you and possibly your family stud or bull
I prefer the the old boyfriend ones cos there's more chance or cream-pies and pics
how about you guys?

I usually like to know who she is with just from a safety standpoint.
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Always strangers. But then I'm always present...

co-workers and old boyfriends.

she also feels more comfy with old boyfriends and people she works with but none of them know that i know what she is doing so they get a little extra kick as its like an affair
she is seeing one of my old work buddies that knows i know but he's really cool with the situation after all she's 20 years younger than him

My wife has regular boyfriends. She finds them herself and i'm never invited along. Some have been co-workers but most are men she meets while 'out and about'.

Even though fucking old acquaintances is safer, I find it much more exciting to see my wife fucking a guy we just met and picked up. There's a certain eroticism about her fucking someone whom just a few minutes ago we didn't even know his name! One of the best places we have found to pick up strange cock for my wife has been for us to go to a strip joint as a couple. The guys there are usually plenty horny watching the girls strip, and she can easily chat them up. The hardest thing most of the times is convincing the guy that I am very much ok with it! Usually she will bring him to meet me and I will verify that it's actually my idea and that I get off on watching her fuck a stranger. We lay out the rules and if he's agreeable we go from there. Later he will follow us to the motel room we have already previously rented for the night. I will have an ice cooler and takes already available in the room and we are stocked up with condoms which he must wear and which is one of our requirements with strangers. It has worked for us quite often and it's a mind blowing experience.

I prefer people we know for health and safety reamisters. But of course, what I prefer really doesn't enter into it. As it happen, however, she also isn't much on fucking complete strangers on first meeting. Strange to say, but she is sort of a one-man woman and her usually bf m.o. is serial monogamy.
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We prefer the best of both worlds: we use swinger sites that have verified pics & testimonials from other users... that way you know the permister isn't a psycho, and you can get to know them a bit first via emails & pics.

Always been strangers, but I wouldn't mind if it was someone we knew.

Hi - Excellent Question!

We prefer strangers - after a fashion. We find potential playmates on line using the various swing sites. When we find someone we're interested in, we start corresponding with him. If he is interested and the on-line relationship seems to be working, we schedule a purely social meeting at a local restaurant.

This meeting enables everyone to get to know one another without any expectations or implied pressures. We think this step is essential as everyone involved knows that nothing will happen that evening. Once we depart the restaurant, we take the opportunity to discuss his attributes alone, without pressure and at our leisure.

If we both decide that the guy meets our qualifications, then we send him a note and schedule a playdate at a local hotel. We always play at a hotel because we hardly know the guys and this enables us to meet on neutral ground. We always vary the hotel (we don't want to become known as 'regulars'), but stay within the same family of hotels. Hey, collecting the points is an extra bennie!

She insists upon condoms until she gets to know the guy, usually three or four meetings. Once she becomes comfortable, she allows him to mount her bare.

Realize that this may be long and involved, but it works for us and we haven't been disappointed. Please continue to submit inputs! It really is a good thread!

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Most people are new at some time in history. There is excitement in picking up a new person for the first time and maybe never seeing them again. Those one night stands are for pure physical pleasure but not as safe as a regular partner. With a regular partner everyone is more comfortable and the sex has a different feel, maybe more intimate. Anyway the best part of sex with a long time friend is that it's usually bareback. I just love seeing the wife's wet spot.

and I love her coming back all wet and sitting on my face .
she has always liked rubbing my face in it and especially when its all wet from her ex John after he's come in her and she told me when she got home that they connected like the old days. .