It's been some time

I thought I'd post this as encouragement for others in the situation I've found myself in. My wife and I first had the cuckold experience more than 30 years ago when my boss at the time was the first guy to have my wife after we were married. Since then we've had many experiences. Some of those experiences were as a couple swinging with others but most were of the cuckold variety too. Once we found the swinging sites on the internet we thought it would be very easy to pick and choose new partners for her. To some extent this was true but we also found the "good" guys were outnumbered by the "fakes" to a significant degree.

Eventually we were lucky enough to find a business guy who although he lived in London spent a significant amount of time locally and stayed over in hotels 3 or 4 times a month. My wife would stay in his hotel overnight and come back home the following morning well satisfied! All good things come to an end of course and after 3 years he moved company to a more senior job and that put paid to his frequent visits close to us. They did try to continue but his new job was intensive and he often spent time abroad as well. After a few last minute cancellations they realised that future meets would probably not happen.

My wife was more than disappointed and so was I! Of course she had been thoroughly spoiled by his availability and he was particularly gifted in the bedroom too so I was not surprised when she decided that the extra martial side of her life had concluded and she'd just have to get on with it. This was despite my encouragement to find someone new. She remembered how difficult it had been to find someone that met all her requirements and simply did not want to face the disappointments all over again.

She did keep in touch by email with her old lover but it was on a purely platonic basis, typically swapping details of our respective families and holiday snaps. He did tease her lots about what they got up to and reminded her frequently of the fun they used to have but it was all cyber fun without any meetings for more than 4 years.

But! Things have changed in the last 2 days! He's due to be in our part of the world and he's coming to stay with us Tuesday evening! I've already been told that it would be a good idea if I went to the cinema Tuesday evening when he's due to arrive. My wife is planning to cook his favourite meal and I expect that by the time I get home from my film they'll have found it necessary to have an early night!

So, my message to others either Wannabees or like me, guys who thought their Cuck days were over "Do not give up!" You might be lucky like me.