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Hi,
My wife and I created these three presentations (Parts I, II and III) to introduce those couples in the nuances of the lifestyle. The first part - posted above by an extremely helpful moderator - outlines an unintentional 'fling' occurring while on vacation. In fact, it's basically how we started - a totally unplanned event.
The second part (included above this post) is 'The Planned Event' - sitting down, discussing, agreeing and executing an initial wife sharing event. We tried to cover initial reactions, pitfalls and a suggested way to approach the issue while still keeping the wife safe and adhering to any rules the two of you have agreed upon.
The third and final part (included in a subsequent post) builds upon the planned event. Assuming the two of you have accepted the lifestyle and enjoyed it. We also touched on concerns the wife and husband may experience, agreed upon activities and, again, the continuing affair. We assume that in Parts I and II that the couple may not know exactly what they want, but are willing to give it a go. In Part III we believe that they are now comfortable enough to discuss and approach it rationally and with specific goals in mind.
As with any presentation, we don't hope to cover any and all possible situations. We simply focused as to what worked for us and subsequently evolved into a very successful diversion from our otherwise normal, suburban life. We sincerely others will find this useful and embark along a similar path.
It wouldn't be right for us to claim all the credit (or blame as it were) for these presentations. We wish to thank those (especially one couple) people who took the time to actually review our input, offer suggestions and convert it to a movie file, which is more compatible with this website than the original Powerpoint presentation.
Finally, we hold no 'copyright' on this presentation. If you wish to share, please do so, insofar as it's within the rules of this site. We will never complain if we find it elsewhere. If anyone has any questions, they may either post them in this forum or message us directly. We will always endeavor to respond to all honest queries.
Best of Luck!
R n T
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Hello again,
The post above is the final part of a three part series - all contained in this thread.
By way of explanation, we couldn't post these ourselves because the files were quite large. So we had the wonderful moderators do it for us. A big THANK YOU to them and their efforts!
As always, we would love to hear comments regarding our efforts (realize the production quality isn't great, but it gets the message across) our opinions and please, let us know if you've had similar experiences!
Warmest Regards and as always, best of luck!
R n T
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RnT
Thanks for your efforts, nice presentation you have put together. At the risk of sounding racist in this sensitive time here in the States. Why is there such an instant connection between cuckolding and interracial play?
To set the record straight my wife had dated black men in her past, and found it was not her cup of tea. I can hear some of you now (the crowd hisses racist) but oh well your hang up. In fact I believe with the over emphasis of interracial it is a form of racism. Again it is not a pure racist thing but my wife is not into black men. We have played in this lifestyle for more than 15 years and have had many great and well hung white males that play the role to various degrees and had a wonderful time with them.
My point is I attempted to show my wife your efforts, she just said here we go again with the black twist on cuckolding, she just walked away from it. Might it have been done without the instant black direction, for those who travel down one of the other paths of cuckolding?
I understand that some white couples like the bi racial thing, but it seems like they sometimes attempt to turn all cuckolding in that direction. There are so many directions to go within the sub set of cuckolding.
Being a couple that do not subscribe to the pleasure of interracial, we have talked about how it might appear to be a racist drive behind it. If I were black I think I would take offence to the idea that I was just a buck slave for some white couple. Used for nothing more than the old slave stereotype or reparations for it, just my take. But the basic concept of doing your presentation is great, thanks for all your hard work, we need all the resources we can get on this topic.
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rfresco
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Dear Mecca,
First, we sincerely appreciate you taking the time to not only review the post, but to submit a very well thought out response. We both deeply appreciate it.
We agree that interracial activities aren’t for everyone. The wonderful thing about this lifestyle is that there are so many variations associated with it that there is seemingly room for everyone! As an example, just take a moment and review all the various categories that this web site offers. One soon sees that what is of interest to some is definitely not of interest to others.
Although my wife has had about an equal number of black and white playmates, there were a number of reamisters why we tended to focus on the interracial aspect of it. Let me elaborate:
1. Her first playmate was black. While not following the presentation exactly, there were a lot of similarities in our experience as to what was projected in the presentation. So we took the seed of that first encounter and built and elaborated on it. We never once said it was a ‘true story’ but more of a guide.
2. There is also the ‘taboo’ aspect of it. We aren’t racists at all, but to be honest, taking that first step – and having it involve a black guy – was a serious turn on for her, especially (I was pretty much a basket case initially). She was brought up in an environment of ‘good girls don’t associate with black men (her parents opinion) so to ‘take the plunge’ with a black was an extra thrill for her.
3. No, the aspects of Bigger, or More Cum, didn’t play in to it – at least in the long term. We have found that blacks tend to run about the same average as whites do – and ejaculate about the same amount. So while the initial fantasy may have been there, it didn’t really play out in reality.
4. Contrast is a big factor though. My wife likes the sight of a very dark male penetrating her. This may play into the aforementioned taboo aspect, but we’ve both come to enjoy the sight.
5. Finally, it was technically easier to show ‘obviously open relationships’ with black men than with white. With white guys, it could be the husband having the wife with the camera on remote. Also, photos on the internet are much more prevalent in the interracial vein than in the white/white arena. When they did show the husband, they tended to depict him in a helpless (wimp) role. We wanted to show that yes, it was a married woman, and yes, it was obvious she was with someone other than her husband. It was simply a lot easier to convey that aspect in an interracial format than it was in a white/white format.
By all means, you are right – if you two aren’t into interracial encounters, then steer clear of them. We say that to anyone who asks. This is primarily about the wife – her happiness, her excitement and her experience. If she isn’t happy with a certain aspect (interracial, intergenerational, unprotected sex, wimpy husbands) then she should make her preferences known and adapt the lifestyle to her perceptions.
We don’t think of you as a racist. You have expressed an opinion. Fine. Thank goodness for your right to do so! You have a preference, the guy next to you has his preference and we have (kind of) ours. Like I said, she’s had whites as well as blacks, both are great in their own right. By all means, if you feel that interracial isn’t for you, then walk down the road that you find is best. We’ll be right beside you in supporting your decisions.
Again, thank you for posting. We both really do appreciate it!
Warmest and best regards,
R n T
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rfresco
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Dear Mecca,
First, we sincerely appreciate you taking the time to not only review the post, but to submit a very well thought out response. We both deeply appreciate it.
We agree that interracial activities aren’t for everyone. The wonderful thing about this lifestyle is that there are so many variations associated with it that there is seemingly room for everyone! As an example, just take a moment and review all the various categories that this web site offers. One soon sees that what is of interest to some is definitely not of interest to others.
Although my wife has had about an equal number of black and white playmates, there were a number of reamisters why we tended to focus on the interracial aspect of it. Let me elaborate:
1. Her first playmate was black. While not following the presentation exactly, there were a lot of similarities in our experience as to what was projected in the presentation. So we took the seed of that first encounter and built and elaborated on it. We never once said it was a ‘true story’ but more of a guide.
2. There is also the ‘taboo’ aspect of it. We aren’t racists at all, but to be honest, taking that first step – and having it involve a black guy – was a serious turn on for her, especially (I was pretty much a basket case initially). She was brought up in an environment of ‘good girls don’t associate with black men (her parents opinion) so to ‘take the plunge’ with a black was an extra thrill for her.
3. No, the aspects of Bigger, or More Cum, didn’t play in to it – at least in the long term. We have found that blacks tend to run about the same average as whites do – and ejaculate about the same amount. So while the initial fantasy may have been there, it didn’t really play out in reality.
4. Contrast is a big factor though. My wife likes the sight of a very dark male penetrating her. This may play into the aforementioned taboo aspect, but we’ve both come to enjoy the sight.
5. Finally, it was technically easier to show ‘obviously open relationships’ with black men than with white. With white guys, it could be the husband having the wife with the camera on remote. Also, photos on the internet are much more prevalent in the interracial vein than in the white/white arena. When they did show the husband, they tended to depict him in a helpless (wimp) role. We wanted to show that yes, it was a married woman, and yes, it was obvious she was with someone other than her husband. It was simply a lot easier to convey that aspect in an interracial format than it was in a white/white format.
By all means, you are right – if you two aren’t into interracial encounters, then stear clear of them. We say that to anyone who asks. This is primarily about the wife – her happiness, her excitement and her experience. If she isn’t happy with a certain aspect (interracial, intergenerational, unprotected sex, wimpy husbands) then she should make her preferences known and adapt the lifestyle to her perceptions.
We don’t think of you as a racist. You have expressed an opinion. Fine. Thank goodness for your right to do so! You have a preference, the guy next to you has his preference and we have (kind of) ours. Like I said, she’s had whites as well as blacks, both are great in their own right. By all means, if you feel that interracial isn’t for you, then walk down the road that you find is best. We’ll be right beside you in supporting your decisions all the way.
Again, thank you for posting. We both really do appreciate it!
Warmest and best regards,
R n T
(yahoo chat rfresco_99)
rfresco_99
http://www.cuckoldplace.com/6_84803_1.html
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I would like to thank you for your presentation and i think it has been very helpful. I am only a cuckwannabe but your points within the presentation are excellent and i intend to put them to use. I am at the moment trying to get my wife to understand that the idea of sharing is a turn on and not a reamister, for me to meet other women and it is a very complex and long term problem.
The point you make about showing her love and devotion has worked remarkable well and although we have a few toys i am now in the process of obtaining a black one for her and the chocolate cock is just brilliant.
I love the interaccial thing by the way and i am hoping to take her away on holiday this year to somewhere that she can hopefully get some fun.
Lastly, i would like to say that after reading so many stories of offense and vulgarity by the wife and bull, your presentation was a nice reminder that cuckolding can be a very loving situation.
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rfresco
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Sportjeff,
Just saw your post and we deeply appreciate your comments! We hope they help both you and your wife achieve the goal you are seeking. We can say that it has been a wonderful trip for us so far, and don't harbor any regrets.
We have always regarded this lifestyle as an outgrowth of a very loving, respectful relationship. As long as you both keep that in mind, you shouldn't have any issues.
Finally, if you would like to talk, bounce ideas off of us or whatever, please feel free to PM us. Love to exchange ideas.
Warmest Regards and best wishes
R n T
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centurjone
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grazie MrBigCuckold
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Jennifer Allen
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Good job on the presentation! Also appreciate the discussion, lots more people should discuss things so openly.
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rfresco
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Jennifer Allen
Jennifer,
We can't agree more. If you wish to discuss individually, please feel free to contact us.
Warmest Regards,
R n T
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Dear All I must be honest...I have not read the presentation...surely will...but my comments below are more of a general nature... rfresco: Also, photos on the internet are much more prevalent in the interracial vein than in the white/white arena. This is true...and very unfortunate...when searching the web for pictures for my Caps...using the key work 'cuckold' when searching will return bunches of interracional pictures...same for stories and other...we should always remind ourselves that cuckolding is about the basic definition...'a cuckold is merely a man with an unfaithful wife'...however: for the fetish part of it...e.g. on sites like this...'a cuckold is a man that turns on by the fact that his wife is unfaithful...(or for us wannabe's: that she might be/in the future will/might be unfaithful...' (So by qualifying the term 'cuckold'...I too have a subjective view on this)  ...but...cuckolding has little to do with interracional - black/white sex... rfresco: This is primarily about the wife – her happiness, her excitement and her experience This is a prerequisite for a good cuckold relation...however...this is a couple thing...not a 'her thing'...if a wife really enjoys sex with other men, and her husband gets nothing out of it...even gets jealous and may divorce her due to this....it's not a 'cuckolding' relation as per 'definition' on e.g. this site...it's just being unfaithful with all the inherent risk...point being...its as much all about his happiness, his excitement and his happiness as well... rfresco: By all means, if you feel that interracial isn't for you, then walk down the road that you find is best. In my opinion, this must be the most racist quote of them all...what is it about skin color..? Isn't it just the 'man' that should be the interesting part in it all....that the wife (and the cuck) really appreciate the MAN...not his color..? Anyway....the interesting part of this lifestyle (that also was stated above) is that it comes in so many variations...it's even interesting that a site like this with 'cuckolding' on the agenda...manage to keep so many different people with so many different views on what cuckolding is...glued to the site... My thing is ... my wife enjoying her lovers...me knowing about them...she telling me after...or teasing me about it....no watching...no pictures...no filming...no offense (apart from the obvious offense inherent in the fact that she from time to time prefer somebody else)...and all in a safe loving relationship... BUT...that is my perspective...or lust... I will surely read your presentations...thanks for your efforts... Frank. A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
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rfresco... I started the presentation....thanks for you efforts...I came half the way into part 1 when I realize that it's very stereotype... I am sorry to be so hard...but this is not for me.... Maybe I will make an attempt to try myself on something alike...but...and to your defense...to make such a presentation on such a subject with so many variations is probably very difficult.... The core must be to focus on 'what is the common ground for all of us...despite the fact that we all have different views on what good cuckolding is...'...? (again...how does Mr Big and this site keep so many freaks (like all of us  ) glued to their computers...taking into account all the variations of the subject...? Is it the cucky angst...? Or something else..? in case...what...? Maybe we should try to understand this...would be interesting to discuss at least... Anyway...again...thanks for your efforts...technical quality was good...the idea was very interesting.... Frank. A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
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norwegian: I am sorry to be so hard...but this is not for me....Maybe I will make an attempt to try myself on something alike...but...and to your defense...to make such a presentation on such a subject with so many variations is probably very difficult.... Frank, Thank you ever so much for your comments. We believe everyone is entitled to voice their opinion - either supportive or critical. Neither myself or my wife were upset as to what you wrote and we invite you to submit your own 'presentation' exploring the lifestyle from your perspective. We have been active for quite some time and outlined what worked for us. We believe it's interactive in that the couple need to both be into this sort of thing for it to really work. We aren't into offense (although some are) and we aren't into wives dating while the husband remains at home (although some are). We both enjoy the activity and tried to convey that enjoyment in the presentations. If, in your eyes we failed to do so, we apologize. Please take care and we wish you only the best of luck in future endeavors. Warmest Regards, R n T rfresco_99
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