Big black guy for my lithe Japanese wife

My first post to the forum . Happy to be here .

I'm an American who has been living in Japan for 20 years , and I've been married to my wife Masumi for 19 years . I've often spoken with her about sexual fantasies , and asked if she had any , but she always has said she didn't . It's very possible of course that she does , but for some reamister or other can't say what it is . Well , my long time fantasy for her is to make it with a big , black guy . I often imagined her getting ready for her ebony sexual encounter : sitting on the sofa wearing sexy black bra , panties , and garter belt , slipping into some silky , black seamed stockings . Imagining her black , nylon clad legs resting on strong , muscular black shoulders as her black lover pounds his manhood into her lovebox ...Etc...etc... Does anybody have any advice as to how I should approach her with my fantasy ? My gut tells me that with the right coaxing she would fulfill my ( and possibily hers ? ) fantasy love match for her ( I've told her I wouldn't mind if she played around as long as it was for sex only ...I don't want to lose her ) . Any ideas/opinions/advice would be greatly appreciated . Here is a pic of the two of us at Ureshino Onsen . Thanks in advance !

My gut tells me that with the right coaxing she would fulfill my ( and possibily hers ? ) fantasy love match for her ( I've told her I wouldn't mind if she played around as long as it was for sex only ...I don't want to lose her ) . Any ideas/opinions/advice would be greatly appreciated . Here is a pic of the two of us at Ureshino Onsen . Thanks in advance !

Don't trust just your gut my friend, make sure she's up for it before you commit yourself too far down the line... Main thing is... what was her response and reaction to your permission for her to screw around for fun not love... did it interest her and develop into a conversation, or was she non commital and tried to change the subject??

Another thing you'll have to do is convince her it's for your kinky pleasure as well as her sexual pleasure that you want her to fuck with other men... Somehow, maybe when a bit takes and both horny, you've got to implant the seed in her mind that this is something 'you' really want to happen... and that her pleasure will be your pleasure if it does.

Would you object to her screwing other guys without you present to begin with, or as time goes by?

She's lovely by the way mate, don't fuck this up and lose her!!!

Mikemann ,

Thanks for your comments .

When I told her she could screw around she seemed disinterested , and assumed I was giving her permission so that I too could mess around .:shame:

I should interject that I have never had sex with another woman since we've been married . I have had B&D sessions with Dominas in Tokyo , and had the odd kiss and roll around on the floor with a few women , but no sex as such .

I would not object to her screwing other guys when I'm not around AS ALONG AS it is just for sexual/fantasy fulfillment .

She's in her 40's but has the body of a 19 year old !

She is HOT! I think you just need to tell her what your fantasy is and talk it over with her. Then you will have a better understanding.

You are of course right , Smitty . She has my permission to have sex with other men , but to my knowledge she has not taken advantage . I have not approached her with the black man fantasy , but have casually asked her if she would not enjoy having sex with a well hung ( unlike myself ) guy . She just shrugs it off . The other day , though , she brought up AIDS as a reamister she wouldn't do it . This may be THE obstacle . She seems a bit paranoid regarding AIDS . How the hell can I calm her fears about THAT ?

SUSHIMAN: Maybe you can assure her that you would be there to supervise her sexual encounter and you will make sure the guy wears a condom. By offering your presence there she will fee more secure and would possibly be more likely to take you up on your offer of letting her be fucked by another man. Ask her if she would let you set a "date" up where the two of you can meet with a well hung stud for some takes and later possibly the 3 of you retire to a hotel room. By the looks of her you will not have any trouble finding plenty of willing Bulls. She is beautiful.

sushiman, can you tell me more about the black/jap clubs in tokyo?
you mentioned it in another post.

Sushiman, if AIDS is her real reamister, you can make the guy get tested before any encounters. And a condom would be a good idea as well. Sounds like you just need to tell it would be a turn on for YOU.

Sushiman,

I love your wife, she's hot. Can you post another picture or 2 of her. Masumi looks great.

Thanks,

Subby
Subby Zocco

Sushiman,

I love your wife, she's hot. Can you post another picture or 2 of her. Masumi looks great.

Thanks,

Subby
Subby Zocco

Sorry for the late reply , I hadn't checked this section in a while .

I don't have any sexually provocative pics of my wife , unfortunately , just the everyday type .

I'm not sure which message you were responding to, but I would love to see everyday photos of your hot wife, they don't have to be provocative ones. Thanks.
Subby Zocco