My wife's new boyfriend. Let me tell you a little about us

Let me tell you a little about us......We are a happily married couple of 15 yrs that has recently graduated our last young (from previous marriages). Donna is 45, 5'7 140 with shoulder length blonde hair, nice tanned firm body, 34D breast, tight ass, and lonnnng legs. She is gorgeous beyond any description I could give you.

We had tried swinging with another couple about a year ago and Donna couldn't handle seeing me with the other wife...jealousy caused lots of issues. She refused to even discuss trying it again, but I had slowly eased the discussion of a MFM into our sex talk. This idea really got her wet and she always came immediately when I talked about it, so i knew she was interested.

About 2 months ago, I asked her via text if she would try a MFM. I told her to give me her honest answer, and to tell me what she was really thinking. After about thirty minutes, I got this reply: "To be honest, I loved the attention of the guy we met before. It made me feel sooo sexy, but Im not sure about trying to please two men at once."

I replied and told her that this was totally up to her. I told her to just tell me what she wanted to do.....her reply surprised me

Go on.

She texted me back and said "I have been thinking about this and if you really want to know what I want, you have to promise to try it."

I wasnt sure what she was talking about, but agreed to try whatever she was talking about.

THat night, we were in bed making out and i was running my hands over her tits and stomach. I asked her what she had meant in her text earlier. She told me to lay on my back and put my hands to my side. I did as she told me, and she laid beside me and lightly stroked my cock. SHe whispered in my ear..."If we do this, I want it to be more than just finding a guy to fuck. I like the flirting and the chase. I want a boyfriend, not a fuck. If you want to do this, you are going to have to accept my terms." As she finished her sentence, I came all over her hand!!!

That's fabulous! She clearly has the right idea.

xoxoxo

Christine

I predict that you will have no difficulty agreeing to her terms. Good luck and keep us posted!

Be careful. Make sure that her boyfriend doesn't cause any damage to your marriage. From what I've seen, for couples such as yourselves, such a lifestyle works best when her adventures with other men are occasional treats followed by a returning back to your normal lifestyle together, not regular visits that might interfere with your relationship together.

Also, if you wanted to, you could probably add a request of your own with a statement like, "I've given thought to what you want, and although its not exactly what I had in mind, I do find it very hot and I'm willing to acquiesce. However, I'd like to request that the boyfriend you choose be a black man with a really huge cock. I think that, this way, it would fulfill fantasies for both of us."

Oh damn thats hot. Besides, with her having a bf, you won't be the one buying her takes!

I have to say that my experience, both in my own life and the lives of others I've met in the scene does NOT really bear out this advice. Yes, I have known situations where it works best this way, but not all. I know of some where a deeper, poly relationship results. Spooj is well-intentioned, but I think we ought not to project too much here.

The structure of your relationship is a matter of what you both want and can agree too. Her statements clearly indicate that she has no desire for one-night stand type things, but wants a more meaningful, integrated relationship. If this is fine by you, I see no reamister it can't work and know of many examples where it does. Frankly, it gives you more points of contact and involvement. Is that what you want? For some that is much better, for others it is too much. Only you can decide.

Speaking only for myself and from my permisteral experience, it is a much bigger cuckold high when her relationship with him is more than just sex. I find it titillating when she is away with him on a date, imagining her laughing and having a good time at a movie or a museum. I like it when they cuddle and act couple-like in my presence, etc. It helps me imagine more vividly that she prefers him. To me, this is true cuckoldry!

But that is me. Every cuck is different. The two of you need to negotiate a relationship that will feed your fetish but also have something for her beyond the pleasure of knowing she did it for you. Good luck with it. I wish you both the best. This is an amazing lifestyle and I hope you get to experience it if you want it!
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I don't mean to pick on Spooj, and I mean no disrespect to him at all, but I am also uncomfortable with this advice. Yes you can, and should, share with her all the details that could be incorporated to make you hotter. But I would be very reluctant, if I were you, to try to dictate details about her lover in this manner. If it is to be a guy she has as a boyfriend, it needs to be someone she is into - and who is willing to go there with a married woman. This is hard enough to find. For you to try to limit the pool to black men, or blonde men, or men without facial hair is foolish and self-sabatoging. If you have preferences, share them, but let her pick her own boyfriend. Realistically, you are going to be exercising a veto anyway (and you can explicitly discuss this) in the sense that if you really dislike a candidate and tell her so, she'll move on. So it's not like you can get "stuck," but you need to let her pick.

So to the example given: If you are white and into interracial (and I don't know that you are either) and she knows that and she will keep it in mind if she find a black man she is attracted to or as she considers potential guys. But it asks too much, in my opinion, to ask her to passover guys she is into just because they are white, or to push her towards black guys if she isn't into them at all.

If you want to be cuckolded, the best thing you can do is give her broad leeway to pick the guy she wants to be with. Save your rule requests and boundary limits for deal-breakers (like if you have a "no friends and relatives" rule, or "no have users," or other thing that would make it too hard to handle and therefore not fun.)

Again, no disrespect intended to other's opinions, but that is passionately what I believe and I offer it in the hopes it helps you and your wife move forward smoothly.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Spooj, we have talked alot about this since our initial texts and both agree that the boyfriend idea will work best for us. She doesn't want the emotional part of a relationship, she wants the lustful, new guy part. This is all about her feeling like "she still has it". She wants a man to pursue her and know that he wants her

MrsBlackBlowUpDoll, I agree this is about more than her just doing it for me, and I told her that. The excitement of this for me comes from her wantig this and her letting her naughty side out. She was raised very proper and for 14 yrs of our marriage was very straight laced. It is very hot to see her letting herself enjoy this and be naughty.

I can't wait to feel the things that you speak of. I am a very successful businessman and truly crave the total loss of control that this will bring. I don't want the pressure of being in control, I want her to take control and make our marriage what makes her happy!

I am giving her total control over what man she chooses. Trust is the key to this. I jus told her to do whatever makes her happy. She had me post ads on several different sites and has already received many emails and has corresponded and narrowed the pool considerably. She is currently texting with 2 of the guys

luv 2 c those legs spread ........... 4 her bf

blizzard, I see you have already been checking out her pics. Like I said, she is a gorgeous woman !

Nice looking wife - we would apprecaite a bigger pic

Total Fox!
Win some...
Lose some...
Few are rained out

Not sure how big this one is, but here you go!

Here is another of her

i found only one pic of her, maybe u give me a view on her goodies ??

She has been texting with two different guys the last few days. I see her texting and grinning, and I can tell that the guys are flirting by the look on her face. She is in such a good mood, it's amazing how happy she is. And she has been sooooo horny! I came home from work today and she met me at the door with a hot kiss, then slid down and took my cock in her mouth right there in the kitchen. It was amazing, she was sucking me as she looked me in the eyes.

If this is how she is going to be, I can't wait to see where this goes!

Sounds like it's going to be a fun and exciting adventure for both of you.

She has a very sexy body and I'm sure ALL of her lovers are going to enjoy filling her with their cum for you to enjoy later.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

cuckold4one, she says she only wants one exclusive boyfriend, but I am secretly hoping that once she tries this she will want more lovers. The idea of her having multiple lovers is the ultimate fantasy to me!

Last night she took a long soak in the tub and had me bring her several glasses of wine as she talked on the phone with Joseph. Joseph is a 40 yr old white single guy.... She says he is 6'2 about 230, and she grins as she says he is "well hung".

After her phone chat, we were laying in bed and she asked me if I was sure I could handle this. I assured her that it was my idea and that I was excited. She told me that she wanted to make sure because Joseph wants to meet her for lunch on Thursday!!

Very exciting just to read this, and I am very excited for you/your wife. I hope everything goes well, and you are soon a cuckold. Good luck to you both!

She looked so hot leaving for work this morning. Her outfit wasn't overtly sexy, but it definitely complimented her cleavage and nice ass!! She told me she would text me and let me know if she wanted me to go with her to lunch with him.

Right before she left, she took my hand and placed it in her panties..... She was soaking wet! She grinned and said " I think I like having a boyfriend"

oklacuck, that's a fantastic update!

It looks like she may enjoy this first guy...

I think you are absolutely on the right track, staying steady when she asks if you're really okay with this.

Also, she may enjoy the new relationship energy so much that she wantsbit again, either looking for her second boyfriend before the first one is history, or soon after that one runs its course.

Have you discussed with her if she'll still want to have sex with you after she has a boyfriend? Some women are fine with that, and others are just wired in a way that doesn't work that way. Just wondering.

Good luck!!

xoxoxo

Christine

bpop, we actually sorta talked about that last night. She mentioned that she was worried about juggling keeping two men sexually happy. I told her that this was all about her being happy, and I wanted her to do what ever she wanted. She said that right now she thinks she wants to enjoy the attention of both of us..... Of course I was giving her a massage as we talked lol.

She just called! I am headed to pick her up and meet him for lunch at a cafe. I am so nervous!!

Well, that went well!! We met him at the diner, and he walked over to us in the parking lot and gave her a huge hug, then confidently slid in for a nice quick kiss. It left her stunned for a second, but then she grinned at me. He led her in to the cafe and we were seated in a booth. She sat by me and we ordered and talked about jobs, kids, etc. as we were talking, you could see them checking each other out and making eye contact..... The sexual tension was electric! He began to compliment her and pretty much ignore me.

After a few minutes, he took out his phone and texted something. She immediately got a text and read it. When she did, she blushed and then excused herself to the bathroom. After she left, he leaned over the table and told me that I needed to be sure that we were ok with all of this because he was planning on moving quickly. I assured him that I was good with anything she wanted to do.

About that time she came back from the restroom and he stood up and she slid in on his side of the booth! She looked over at me and smiled. Joseph sat back down and placed his arm around her and whispered something to her. She reached in to her purse and reached over to hand me something. I took it and it was her panties!!! As I put them in my pocket, I noticed that there was a wet spot on them!!

The rest of lunch was spent with them flirting as I sat across from them. I couldn't tell because of the table, but I am prett sure that both of them had their hands on the other permisters leg.

As we walked back to our car, he told her that he would love for her to come over tonight. She said she would have to think about it. He opened the door to our car for her, and then we turned and kissed him passionately. OMG!! That is the first real sign that she is going to do this.... She made the conscious decision to kiss him!

We didn't talk alot on the drive back to her work. She told me that She hoped I was still ok with everything. I took her hand and placed it on my hard cock. We laughed and said "I will take that as a yes!" Then she said "well if you keep being a good husband, maybe we can keep making that cock hard by doing more things like this"

It is amazing to see the change in her...she has such a glow. She texted me after work to tell me she was going to get a manicure and pedicure and get her nails done. She said she wanted to look good for Joseph....I know right now she is saying that to tease me, but it made me soooo hard to hear that.

I am at home now, ironing so that she has no excuse to not go see him this evening. Is this what it feels like to be a cuck?

Well, I was out washing her car last night and got a text from her. It was a forwarded text from him asking her if she wanted to come over to his house for a take!

I texted back and asked her what she was going to do. She didn't answer

hey oklacuck

I'm glad things are working out so well for you!

I won't pretend to have permisteral experience on this stuff - I don't. Just trying to help. MrsBlackBlowupDoll kindly gave completely different advice, and, of course, you should consider both (and more) and make decisions for yourself. It seems you are doing this, and I salute you.

I also thank you for sharing your experiences with us! We all look forward to hearing and seeing more!