She finally did it...Updated!

While out of town last week visiting friends Stacy was with her first "other guy". It didn't happen the way I pictured the first time happening, and now have mixed feelings due to how it happened and her not being as open about the details.

Stacy and me have been together for a little over two years and have talked with her multiple times over the last few months about my fantasies of her with other men,I kinda think I pushed the topic a little too much at times. She was a little shocked at first and it was also a little embarrassing for me to finally openly talk about my fantasies with her. But since she never freaked out about the idea or said that will never happen I had hope of it happening at some point.

Last week she went out of town to visit a few of her collage girlfriends who live about 6 hours from us. She left in morning and tried to call her a few times in the early evening to make sure she got in ok since I didn't get a call from her yet. She called me back a couple hours later and said they were out at dinner and that they were heading to have a few takes and meet up with some other friends at a bar and she would call me tomorrow. The next day I didn't hear from her and decided to call her in the evening and ended up leaving a message since she didn't answer. I figured she was just busy spending time with her friends since she hasn't seen them in a while. The next day I still didn't get a call from her and tried calling her multiple times.she finally picked up at about 8pm and said she was just busy and was also getting ready to go out again that night and didn't have long to talk since she was getting picked up shortly. I joked a little with her and then said since she was out of town it would of been the perfect time for her to be with another guy. She gave a long pause and said, sometimes I'm not sure about you and don't think you really want that. I reassured her how much it turned me on and that I did really want it. I got another pause from her and then she told me it already happened,she told me she spend the night with one of the guys that came to meet them at the bar. My cock instantly got hard when she told me this and started to rub it through my jeans. I started to ask all the details but she was being very short about them. She did tell me that when they were at the bar he was flirting with her and she told him she had a BF and he backed off. She then told him about how I wanted her to be with another man and he picked right back up with flirting and was a lot more touching about it. Stacy the told me that she had spent the last two nights with him and reminded me again she needed to get ready since she was getting picked up again. I then asked if it was her friends picking her up or him, she said he was and she needed to go.

Over the next few days she never called and never picked up her phone when I called her. She was suppose to return yesterday afternoon, but didn't get home until almost midnight. The first thing she did when she got home was take a shower and all I could think about was her telling me all the details about what happened. When she came out of the shower she wasn't in her normal relaxing apparel, usually she wears panties and a small t-shirt but she was wearing long pajama pants and shirt. I tried to talk with her about her weekend and get some of the details and she said it was really late and she needed to be up for work in 5 hours. I tried pushing again for some details and she got upset and told me if to either let her relax or for me to leave. I ended up relaxing on the couch and jerking off multiple times thinking about her with him. This morning she was still very short about things and left for work early, I asked why she was leaving so soon and she told me she was going to work out before work, but i feel it was so she didn't have to talk with me about what happened.

Stacy will be home later today and hopefully she will be a little more open about what happened. I really wanted to be able to watch the first time and be a part of it, but also know since she was with him alone I'm sure she didn't hold back and did a lot more for him. The other thing I have always been worried about was friends knowing I was into this, the main reamister we talked about doing this with someone outside our circle of friends. The thing that keeps popping into my mind today is that her friends had to know what was going on, she went to visit and stay with them, and ended up spending the nights at his place. I will update later on after me and her have talked.

good luck my friend take it steady let her tell you in her own time dont push to hard and tell her how much you adore her
my wife even after 4 years of seeing other men doesn't always tell me everything but when she does wow!!

Perhaps, even if your friends knew what was happening they may just adopt the attitude that what you don't know won't hurt you. They don't necessarily have to know that you are aware and that you are OK with her getting laid outside the relationship.
The couple of times mutual friends have learned of my wife's sexual activities she has asked them to not discuss it with me and they have abided by her wishes. One was a girl, the other a guy, who double dates with us on occasion. The guy even took advantage of the situation and propositioned my wife. She ended up fucking him and even now he doesn't think that I know he too has fucked her. Of course he has kept his girl friend from knowing. One weekend my wife and I even stayed at his house and during the night she acted like she was sneaking into his bedroom quietly while I slept in the next room. She gave him a blow job and came back to my bed to tell me what she had just done! It was very, very erotic!! He thinks she's cuckolding me without my knowledge and he's protecting her 'secret' while at the same time getting some pussy himself. It has worked out OK.

UPDATE...Was finally able to talk with Stacy in some detail about what happened and where we're at after this.

Stacy admitted she wasn't to sure about my intentions and felt as if I was either testing her faithfulness or was going to want to be with other woman sexually after she did it. She was at the point she was willing to take the risk and move on if I did. After she saw that I was very much into this still and seen how turned on I was by it after it happened she opened up a little more. She said it was still a little hard to give all the details since she didn't want to hurt me, which I can understand since most men don't want to hear how some other guy was better in bed than them.

She told me how he was a lot thicker than me and made her orgasm multiple times when they had sex, she also admitted to having sex with him multiple times each night. I was extremely turned on by what she was telling me and also shot a load in my pants when she told me how they fucked bareback the first time.She said she was so turned on by the time they got to his place that he fucked her right when they walked through the door against the wall. After hearing all this I started to kiss her and tell her how happy I was she had a good time and hopes she wants to try it again. During our make out session I slowly move down and started to lick her clit and asked her to tell me more about what he did with her. she opened her legs a little more and continued to lick her to orgasm. I never tried to have sex with her but let her see I was stroking myself while this was going on. Afterwards I told her how hot that was and that the only thing that would of been hotter is to of done that after they were together, which she replied that would be hot.

A little later on Stacy asked how I felt about her going and seeing him again later this months, I told her I was ok with it but would also be open to the idea of him coming to visit her as well. She is going to talk to him about it and told her I was ok with him staying here or I could stay at a hotel if that would make things easier for them. She told me she would let me know later this week since she already had plans to talk to him.

Thanks for the update! she needs to keep communications open with ypu and consider how you want to receive your happiness in this (be there to watch, take video, etc.)

Very hot!

Hang in there Seattle...I gotta believe most couples who get into this lifestyle don't start out in what the male partner would consider the ideal way. Your trust in each other will have to evolve regarding this situation. Keep your guard up though, this sounds like it could have the makings of a bad ending for you. Best of luck.

v8cobra99
She has been texting/talking with him a lot this week and they also have plans to get together again this weekend. Last night Stacy was trying on a few new things she did pick up for her weekend when I got home.

she looks soooooooo hot in her new lingerie ....

Wow Seattle! Stacy is hot and very sexy! Lucky guy!

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU........!!!!!!!

She is on a roll
Win some...
Lose some...
Few are rained out

Yummy, love it

Mmm love it, sexy
Suppose she have a pair of cfm pumps for that outfit also

Very sexy.... would love to see that sweet pussy of hers.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

these are the ones she picked up for that outfit.

Very hot story and even hotter woman!

Enjoy the ride.
Ronald Curry

she is super smoking hot. Can't wait to get an update

Stacy spent the weekend with him again, and the only time she got a hold of me was to send a single text saying "Is it bad i think about this when i'm with you, but when i'm with him I'm not thinking of you" and sent this pic with it.

Ugh, you know sometimes I hate being right.

I did a search on the 1st image of "his girl" and found it on over a dozen different websites.
I'm calling "fake" on this. At least the photos aren't genuine, anyway....can't say about the story.

Sounds hot! Hope to hear and see more!

I believe you are right.... Its fake