Advice?

Im wondering, my GF has just somewhat cuckolded me. She has a guy she fucks on the side and I was wondering if and when the bull will assert his dominance over me. Thats what I want but dont know how to voice that. Any suggestions? I am already submissive so I guess that works in my favor.

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Text your girlfriend. Or get his number from her and text him directly. If your feeling scared, jerk off thinking about what you want, but before you finish, text the appropriate permister. Write it out before hand and get the wording right and then in a moment of courage or stupidity push send. I can't tell you which it would be and I'm not judging either way.

That's if your just afraid, but are sure that's what you want.

If your not sure, you have to make up your mind.

If you can't make up your mind, do nothing until you do.

I know it's boring advice, but you asked and that's the best I got.

Umm... WOAH!! *waving hands back and forth* Before anything else, you HAVE to tell you're girl. Let her be in control with the knowledge that that would turn you on. If it's right, I'm sure she'll help you out with that...
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From what you say you are already a cuckold. You just want to submit in permister. I agree with those above that yu need to tell you girlfriend and I know this is hard. Writing it up as a text or email is a reamisterable idea because it only takes that one moment of arousal-induced courage to hit send. Another idea would be to wait until the two of you are together in bed and get her talking about what it is like with this guy - ask a question or two. And then when she describes it just out with "I'd love to see that" and see where she takes it. Finally, there is always the old standby of getting a porno movie with a scene like the one you describe in it - where the girl is with one guy while another watches submissively, or better submits to him in front of her - and watch it together. (There are cuckolding videos out there; search the net.) When the two of you are watching the porno together and getting hot you'll find it much easier to say "I'd love to try that sometime," or something to that effect.

However you screw up the courage to pop it out to her, be ready for the fact that it may not lead to living your fantasy immediately - or maybe even ever. It will lead to conversation with her about your fantasies and desires that will deepen your relationship with her, which will increase the odds that she is willing to play out this fantasy. But until you share it with her and listen to her take on it and what gets her hot or doesn't you can't know if it is something she'll be into or have the courage to try if she is.

And here is the important point: She isn't going to dump you because you confessed something permisteral and perverted to her. Strong relationships are those in which partners are willing to be vulnerable with each other. If she isn't and she recoils to the point of breaking it off, (very unlikely) then this is not a relationship that was ever going to work anyway because she has intimacy problems.

Good luck!
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