Getting Started and need some advice

My wife and I are interested in the lifestyle and she was stood up once but I think that blew the wind out of her sails. She is self conscious about her body as kids and life has taken there toll a bit. Is AFF the best resource and is there a community like this for hot wives that she can communicate with?

For starters tell her they that stood her up was the jerk. It had nothing to do with her. Always tell her how sexy she is. I got my consrvative wife to do thrteesomes. You can too. What state are ya in?
rambler

First, Patience. There are plenty of sites, including AFF, but be patient and let her select what she wants. There are plenty of guys out there looking for a milf/cougar type, and any wear and tear is easily overshowed by a sexy outfit, some makeup, styled hair and a good pair of heels!

Encourage her to flirt with other guys while you are not around. Don't push her too hard, just try to get her used to the idea of other men finding her desirable. In time, her confidence will spike, and before you know it you'll have a full-fledged slut for a wife. She has already agreed to a threesome, and seems into the whole thing, PATIENCE is paramount in situations like this.

AFF is full of no-shows. have you tried any nearby military bases, or dating sites for military? Usually they follow up pretty good (we tend to be shy about face pics on the camera, though).

johnny108

Thank you everyone for your replies. The first was a AFF hookup where my wife would meet the bull at a local bar and have takes. He apologized for no showing, something came up. It was enough though for her to loose steam. She still desires a large member as that's what her lady parts are built for. Has no problem at all taking a 9" dildo balls deep and it takes her places I cannot.

I'm not really sure where I play into all this as I love the idea and really get off on it but I no desire in being humiliated. I simple want to enjoy seeing her be fulfilled.

Does anyone know of a community like cuckoldplace for hotwives?

Cheers,