slowly getting there

Slowly getting my lovely wife to control whats happening in our life. For a long time she has been the one who controls when and how we have sex. Her pleasure always coming first, but she always wants me to cum too. However, she has started to really turn me on, by telling me to cum with in a certain time, or thrust etc; then having me lick her clean, and obviouslyto climax. Whereas she would have done this once or twice in the past, then become very coy and embarrassed, she has started to tease me afterwards. ive been really enjoying the new turn in our passion and look forward to it continuing.
however, today hshe has cut up my credit and debit cards and moved our savings into her own account. Ive been out of work for a while and looking after the house, kids etc, and dropping as many himnts as possible that she should continue as the main wage earner, and im sure its sunk in. I love it, playing wifey. She knows that i would like her to fuck me for her own pleasure and leave me frustrated. Ive begged her to leave me un-fulfilled after sex, and that id be very happy at that.
So things are happining, but very slowly.
Sorry to ramble on a bit.