Advice Needed: Helping a wife cuck her husband...

I have never posted on this site before, though I've read it for years. I have a long standing relationship with a married woman. I met her when her fiance' was overseas for a year. He returned and I stepped out of the picture and they got married and now she says the sex is lousy and he won't put out for her... So she comes back to me. I told her she has got to cuck him. I don't like a cheating affair. I want her to get his OK she can fuck around. I want to avoid all the drama and BS that might come if she has to 'cheat.'
I am hoping you people here can give me some good generic advice on doing so. I am told that this husband of hers basically has very low to no sexdrive. She has a high one. He was the one who wanted to get married, not her. He has also told her in the past that 'if she cheats, it's over.' Yet he won't take care of her needs. Seems to me he is really a cuck waiting to be found. He exercises no oversight or control over her and indeed, often lets her make the decisions and in truth, she seems to wear the pants in their relationship. She has told him recently that his 'one responsibility in life' is to fuck her, yet he refuses. I have told her to just call his bluff and tell him that since he is not taking care of her needs (they had no sex since October!) that she is going to find it somewhere else and yet stay married to him. I am thinking it is hard to cuck a sexless permister. It's not like she can tease him and get him all excited. Your thoughts appreciated. Thanks in advance.

An ex GF of mine ran into the same problem after marrying her second husband. She literally had to attack the guy to get him to fuck her. She claimed in twenty years of marriage, she fucked him an average of twice a year, and even so she still managed to have two kids with him. Eventually, they broke up, and she immediately had me start doing her on a regular basis. We had more sex in 2 weeks than they did in those 20 years. I encouraged her to start having all the men she could get her hands on to make up for all those years of being ignored, and she turned into the hottie she deserved to be. She's had lots of men of all kinds, and with my coaching has turned into a bit of a size queen. I'm very proud of her new promiscuous ways.

The problem was he was gay and in the closet, and was using her as a prop to appear straight. He came out about 3 years after they split up, and she now despises him for being so dishonest with her and depriving her of all the sex she was entitled to for so long during her prime. Your girlfriend might have a guy with the same issues. I had no problem starting up with her again, except that I was married, so there was no way for anything long term or permanent with my ex. You need to ask your lady friend why she isn't just dumping the guy and moving on. If she just wants a FWB, and it isn't for you, encourage her to find another more suitable man to fill her needs if she won't split up with her hubby or make him a knowing cuckold. Remember, there is tremendous potential for "drama and BS" in a cuckold relationship, too. Not every guy is turned on by it or wants their wife fucking around, with or without permission.

It was a very difficult split for my ex, as she's one of those women who doesn't like to break her vows or have more than one steady man at a time. She came to me since we had a long history and we still get along well, and we had sex for the first time in about 22 years. Once she started with me, it was an easy jump to new partners. She is still legally married to the guy, even though she split with him almost 15 years ago, but now has a live-in boyfriend she fucks several times a week.

Chris, I hope this gives you and your lady some insight. I know things might be very different for her than they were for my ex.
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life starting 02-26-2017, 2633 days as of 05-13-2024

Thanks, that he might be gay had never crossed my mind. I think I'll tell her to snoop into his porn viewing habits to see if we can get a clue.

Want some advice? Don't believe a woman who was fucking around on her fiance. Granted you don't seem to have much to lose in this situation but you never know. What if she tells you he's agreed to the arrangement when he hasn't and he finds out and flips out? Just sayin...I'd double check all her cuckolds brownie if I were you. Pretty noble (and smart) of you to try and put things out in the open though. Honorable too. I'm all for horny wives getting fucked but interfering in someone's family without their knowledge is heinous in my opinion. Good luck.

Well, she had the conversation with him. She confronted him about the issue and told him straight that she is going to start looking elsewhere for sex. He blew up and ranted. He said "I don't want you screwing anything that walks past." Then he wanted to discuss 'why is sex so important?' and actually said at one point, "I don't like to fuck." He threw around the 'divorce' word of course, if she did not remain faithful. After discussion with me today we decided she is going to 'call his bluff' on the divorce thing. She says she really does not believe he wants one. So, she has at least planted the seed. We agreed her next move will be to sit him down and have another conversation, and this time, tell him she is going to go find dick elsewhere because he has left her no choice, but wants to stay married if he will allow this.

Chris96: Make sure you let us know what happens with your friend. I'm really curious about how the husband will resolve the issues. He needs to understand that she has the right to all the sex she wants, even if it isn't from him. I gave my wife explicit permission to have sex outside our marriage if she ever thought she needed more cocks or larger ones or what ever, and she didn't need to OK it with me or have any restrictions, and things have been fine.
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life starting 02-26-2017, 2633 days as of 05-13-2024

Hmm .... some friendly advice you won't take. Until they resolve their issue, stay out of it. Being called as a witness in divorce court is not foreplay.

Point well taken fantmstr. that's why i told her she's gotta cuck him for us to have an ongoing sexual relationship. she's trying, bless her heart. she's not a cuckoldress by heart, this is new to her. she told me she confonted him again yesterday and 'it didn't go well.' Now he's 'thinking about separating.' It is his loss if he walks away from her. It's not like she's deceiving him or cheating; she's telling him what she needs and trying to find an outlet that keeps them together.

Chris96
Can you give us any updates on how she's progressed with cuckolding her husband?
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life starting 02-26-2017, 2633 days as of 05-13-2024

Why do not try this. Make a close friend of yours in contact with her husband and chek if he has some inclination to be cuck. Then slowly slowly you ( secretly according with tha wife ) make him to push her to cheat. if he is on some chat y can help...none could sospect......

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