My latest idea....I may get lambasted over this....

I put up a Craigslist ad asking for guys to seduce my wife.

Here's the deal...my wife has said she is not REALLY interested in this, but is willing to sort of indulge my fantasies. The ONE sliver of hope that she's given me is that she has said if she were to be in a situation with the right guy, it MIGHT happen.

Now, she wouldn't want me involved, so that would suck, but I'll take whatever hope I can get.

I've asked her what kind of guy she'd like, and she's given me a description.

So I posted an ad on CL describing my situation, and asking for the kind of guy she wants to reply to me. My plan is, I'll find a guy, vet him CAREFULLY. Meet him beforehand. Make sure I'm not getting some lunatic, or whatever. Get to know the guy, etc. Then, when I am sure I can trust him, I coach him up on how to seduce my wife. I tell him what buttons to push, how to flirt with her, etc.

Then one night, I take my wife out to a bar and ask her to play a game like "let's go in separately and see who get hit on the most" or something like that.

But in reality, the guy would also be there, and approach her, and see how it goes.

Ok, so am I crazy? I have put the ad up, written back to a few guys, but that's it.

I have seen ads to this effect on Craigslist from time to time. Permisterally I think most guys find it to much trouble and time especially when theres no guarantee of getting any married pussy.
But good luck with it and I'd like to be kept posted on any developments.

I met a guy through AFF for my wife. We worked out a plan for him to seduce my wife. It worked. My only caution to you is this: If you are looking to do this because you want to see her fucked, be aware seduction is more than watching her get fucked. If he truly seduces her, then she will have feelings for him.

If she agrees to meet someone at a hotel for a stranger fuck, there are no feelings, just sex. If he seduces her without your "knowledge", then the seduction itself involves feelings.

Just my two cents from someone who has been there.

I met a guy through AFF for my wife. We worked out a plan for him to seduce my wife. It worked. My only caution to you is this: If you are looking to do this because you want to see her fucked, be aware seduction is more than watching her get fucked. If he truly seduces her, then she will have feelings for him.

If she agrees to meet someone at a hotel for a stranger fuck, there are no feelings, just sex. If he seduces her without your "knowledge", then the seduction itself involves feelings.

Just my two cents from someone who has been there.

Sorry, it posted twice and I had to edit.

Herfeet, that's a good point. I guess I'd have to make sure that the guy I get can be trusted and has no strings. The age difference she wants is pretty significany (she's 45, wants early 20s), so that would help.

so no one thinks this is ridiculous? I've already had one guy balk at the time and effort necessary. Too bad, as he was her perfect physical type.

Love the idea of this, but it's pretty dodgy using those sites. Too many fakes and overaggressive people. Would love to find someone here in central Ohio, but not very optimistic anymore.

Cheese, that's a good point. I am in the Tampa Bay area if anyone here is interested.

I tried various sites over the course of many years. Choosing a friend just didn't seem comfortable for us. She was very into the idea of getting fucked by a stranger sometimes, and then against it at other times. She sex talked on the phone a few times with guys while I licked and fucked her. She had a 3 month email exchange with a guy that included pics, but they never met. After many years of trying to set something up, I decided having her seduced would be the best idea. I finally found a guy that was right. He seduced her by meeting her at her place of work. She even came home and told me about him. I encouraged the romance. She told him her husband knew and it was okay. She never suspected we set it up. They got together several times. They even made a video for me. However, she developed feelings for him. The guy was married and she knew that. She didn't know he was an AFF member and was fucking several other women. Her feelings for him ultimately made the relationship end. I never got to watch them, but I do have the video. Seeing my wife getting fucked is a huge turn-on, but seeing love in her eyes for him is horrible. Kind of a Catch-22 situation. I wish you luck.

Yes indeed! Love in the eyes is so bittersweet 😞