Need advice! Wife has given me a possible opening

Here's my background....

Wife and I are 45, typical suburban couple with kids, etc. Wife is attractive....BEAUTIFUL face, nice enhanced rack, a little thick (5-7 and 160, but losing it...normal weight is around 140-145). She is told that she looks a lot like Brooke Shields, and also Barbie Benton when she was younger.

I am the only guy she's ever fucked, so that's strike one in this deal. Right now, we are basically at a point where she pretty much denies me sex, but let's me jerk off while she talks to me about fucking other guys. This is all at my request...she pretty much plays along because she knows it gets me off.

She has admitted she likes the denial and offense aspect of this...it lets her "get her mean side out" (she is normally very very nice).

She has always said very implicitly that she'd NEVER fuck another guy, even though she knows I would like that to happen.

Then today, we were talking about it, and I asked her what her fantasy is...she said a younger guy, like 19-20...who is in really good shape/muscular. I asked her if she'd consider fucking a guy like that, and she said yeah, if the situation was right.

Whoa! I hope she was sincere...

I asked her if she'd go looking for it, and she said no, just "if the situation happened with the right kind of guy (late teens/early 20, in-shape/muscular), I might do it."

SO....here's the advice part...we'll likely never just randomly be in such a situation. I would KILL to see this happen...so how I can create a situation where this "randomly" happens? Any ideas?

fitness studio?

That's an easy one! Take her to a hotel/motel for a cpl of days and while you two are at the pool pick out a stud for her. When your wife is not looking and the guy is out of site, approach him and ask him if he would like to "party" w/ you and your wife. Tell him your wife has allways wanted two men and there will be alot of beer too.
Have him show up at your room at 9:00pm after your wife has had some takes.
Make sure though that he is interested if not, approach another guy.Prior to 9:00, get her warmed up and have her dressed for the occasion and do not tell her about your guest untill he arrives.
She will let him fuck her!!
You have to MAKE the perfect situation and this is it!
I was the guy who a japanese cpl chose so i know how this works! I fucked her untill she told her husband that she was too sore to go anymore, by that time i had shot my load into her twice!
marc-br549

A number of possibilties come to mind:

Contact a young stud on a dating site and arrange a meet with your wife present. Pretend he is a friend, work collegue or whatever. And leave them times together so he can seduce her.

Equally join a gym with her and tease her about all the fit young men - encouarge her to flirt.

brainbox, your reply is good. I've thought about something like that.

She has a certain type that she said she likes....

Younger (19-23)
White
Clean cut (no tatts, piercing, thugs/ghetto)
Fit/in-shape/muscular

Like a younger version of Channing Tatum, maybe.

So I have thought about placing a Craigslist ad asking for guys like that. The thing is...there is no guarantee here. I could find the right "type" for her, and she might not go for it anyway. I couldn't tell her that I was pre-arranging this...that would ******* it. I'd have to set up a "chance enounter" at a bar or something, and hope she went for it.

So...is it possible to find a guy that is willing to play along with something like this, even with no guarantee of his getting laid?

yeah, that wouldn't work. We live near two well-known ones, and the topic has come up....no chance at that. In fact, it would likely hurt my chances.

My suggestion would be to take her to a bar with a younger crowd. Don't do any dancing with her so the younger guys in the bar will approach her. Let her dance with these guys and when she's finished, tell her how sexy she looks with them out on the dance floor. If a slow dance comes up, don't you dare ask her to dance. Let a young stud grind up against her and get her hot. If he looks at you while dancing, give him the thumbs up. Leave your ego and jealousy at home. It sounds like you might get the fantasy I've been dreaming of.