Think wife cheated last night

Thanks for the update , and good luck for the talk, please keep posting even though there is not much feedback, it is often the case but I'd say you have a good few silent followers

Thanks for the encouraging words. I know must people and lurkers are seeking jack off material but its nice to see a few people out of the 1000s that viewed the thread chime in. If the opportunity presents itself tonight and moment is right I will talk to my wife. I am nervous as fuck. Will keep thosr interested posted.

I'm curious why the female poster concluded I'm being cheated on? What was it specifically.
Ronald Curry

Sounds like you need to talk with her sooner than later. Things between you seem to be souring and she appears to be carrying on behind your back. Not good.

Sharing your wife can be very hot! Being cuckolded is also enjoyed by a lot of couples. But both of those scenarios involve open and honest communication between you. Even the dominate wife that cuckolds her man is honest with him about the things she's doing -- oftentimes she wants to rub it in his face, not hide it from him.

But as a neutral party with no predispositions and no agenda, I can tell you that the story you've told here has me more than 90% convinced she's cheating on you. And to make it worse, she seems to be getting openly hostile toward you and you're becoming resentful. All bad signs for your marriage.

For whatever it's worth, I would say forget swinging, sharing, swapping, cuckolding, or any extracurricular sexual activities for now. Talk to your wife. Express your feelings for her. Make her feel supremely supported to speak honestly with you about the things she's been doing. Maybe you both decide that letting her fuck other men is best for both of you. But together you need to create a scenario where it's done above board. Regardless, your top priority needs to be your marriage. Because from my (admittedly limited) vantage point, it's in jeopardy right now.

-love2watchher

RC:

All I can say is...... I wish you the best. I hope you resolve things with your wife.

Right now, you're between a rock and a hard place with how to be open with your feelings and her actions.
The day I can figure out a womans mind.....I'll be the smartest man on earth!

Good luck!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

well things have definetely become sour. I will say that. Sunday we didn't speak all day long. Yesterday was a day we generally spend together. And we did. She said she had something to do in the morning and went off while I went off on an errand. She came to meet me at a breakfast restarurant and we spent the rest of the day together. Only time we were seperated was when I went for a massage. Came back home and started making dinner. Our dialouge the entire day seemed uncomfortable. There was no affection all day long. We rented a movie "American Reunion" which is another sequal in the american pie movies. The movie opened with an uncomfortable scene of a man and woman in a sexual rut. Similar situation with kids. The woman decides to go for a bath before they have sex. Since she's off he decides to get off on internet porn. A few slapstick escapades later he ends up in the bathroom and catches his wife masturbating with the shower head. The movie continued with lots of sexual situations including lots of infidelity. Again we just remained distant. Not good. During the movie someone posed a question "How often do you do it?" I yelled not enough and glanced over to my wife. She had no response. After the movie I asked her to come into the bedroom. She was holding the baby and said that of I move her shell wake up. I went off into the room frustrated. 20 minutes later she came in. Now it may have been holy water talking but then again 3 beers in a 2 hour period will not get me takes. But I was nervous and frustrated. I aked her if she still loved me and she said of course. Next I asked are you cheating on me. She avoided the question. I asked again. The body language told me yes while her words were no. She started making excuses of how she's just tired. I told her I won't be mad but that I just have to know since our sex life isn't the same. She denied it. It was late and the timing couldn't have been worse. Plus I was nervous and not in the right mind set. Things are really bad right now. This morning she again
Ronald Curry

This morning she again continues to be distant. I really wsh it didn't have to be this awkward and I must say it hurts. Reality can be very harsh and this is a time of great uncertainty. I cannot let this slide and will talk to my wife on a more supportive tone tonight. Although I doubt ill get the truth out of her, who knows maybe with the most carefully selected words we can spark things up like never before. I got to get back to real life. If anything new pops up Ill keep u posted.
Ronald Curry

Well you are on this website for a reamister...obviously you must have the cuck fetish. So here is how I see it...you have a cuck fetish. Your wife is fucking another guy. The 2 peices of the puzzle are there. Just be strong enough to tell her that you find it very arousing that she may be cheating and if she is then you two can use it as a chance to explore and enhance your sexuality together. Let me give you an example. My wife is kind of a slut...always has been. She is very sexually satisfied by hung guys that fuck her real real rough. But here I am, small cock, submissive sexually but we fell in love. So we had a choice either both of us be miserable with sex or use my small cock and submissiveness and her hunger for big cocks and dominant men to our advantage and enhanc our sex life. She is free to fuck as she wishes and usually tells me and teases me when she is fucking guys..except a guy right now she is fucking behind my back (but it turns me on)...women love to have a few secrets.

At the movie your wife asked "How often do you do it?" meaning masturbate. Just tell her you used to rarely do it but recently you keep having fantasies of her with other guys and you masturbate quite a bit...use that to open the dialog of what is going on...but she will NEVER open up to you if it feels threatening. Remember women love and need stability with their husbands.

Try another route with her. Get her flowers, be sweet, make a nice evening. Let it turn sexual and when she is ina more aroused state tell her the thought of her with other guys causes you to jerk off a lot...then take it slow

Hope that helps

On my side, I would recommend to focus on her, and put aside your permisteral needs and sexual expectations.
You must show that the current situation is difficult and awkward for the two of you, and you really want her to be happy and more relaxed, and you will do anything to help, including supporting and facilitating a sexual relation with another man (or men).
Try to get her to talk, say what she might have on her chest, even if it is not always nice to hear, as it will help to have a better understanding of what she's been going through, and build a stronger relationship. Do not put conditions on your support, at least for now, this is not the time. Listen, look at her, cry if you need to, be natural, gentle...
Good luck, take care, I'll be crossing my fingers for you

I have to jot this down because this is a journal. Its 545 east time. My wife works till 930...she is not at her job. I called and asked if she was there. Nope. I am on my way home right now. If she is not at home, then my world will change. This is not fantasy. This is real life events.
Ronald Curry

Ronald why are you going to extremes....take this slowly. You can make this work for youboth and also make your relationship stronger. If you approach this wrong, by accusing, getting jealous..angry etc you will push her away. So what if she is having sex with another guy. Your on a cuck site so you must have some sort of a draw to it. Best thing to do tonight is not react...even if she is not home. Talk to her tomorrow like I said above and like everyone has told you. Just listen to us and do not let emotions cloud your judgement

Keep us posted but also relax. I know it is real world events..so are mine..its all in how you handle it

I don't know if no news is good news, hope you managed to deal as good as possible with the tricky situation you had on your hands. Keep cool, try to keep some perspective, and understand your wife's point of view as well!

Ronald we all are nervous. Hope all is ok

hey guys had to chime in and update. That drive home was gut wrenching agony yet filled with angst and excitement at the same time. Don't mean to dissapoint, but when I got home her car was parked and she took the night off. Her lady, who myself and others can't stand because she is the most obnoxious bitch was there along with our young nephew who came to play with our mister. My wife didn't tell me all day that shell be taking the night off. The routine at home was just normal. For some reamister I just felt like taking off. I left at 7 and said ill be back and got together with some friends. By 12 she started calling me and bitching me out. Putting me down and wondering where the fuck I was. I told her I was coming home and sje jusy continued with her telling me off bout how could I accuse her and then do something like this. I just been in a fog and down so I told her I'm sorry and that ill be home. She was already relaxing and this morning had nothing to say. I suspect well have some dialoge tonight and well see what happens then.
Ronald Curry

hey guys had to chime in and update. That drive home was gut wrenching agony yet filled with angst and excitement at the same time. Don't mean to dissapoint, but when I got home her car was parked and she took the night off. Her lady, who myself and others can't stand because she is the most obnoxious bitch was there along with our young nephew who came to play with our mister. My wife didn't tell me all day that shell be taking the night off. The routine at home was just normal. For some reamister I just felt like taking off. I left at 7 and said ill be back and got together with some friends. By 12 she started calling me and bitching me out. Putting me down and wondering where the fuck I was. I told her I was coming home and sje jusy continued with her telling me off bout how could I accuse her and then do something like this. I just been in a fog and down so I told her I'm sorry and that ill be home. She was already relaxing and this morning had nothing to say. I suspect well have some dialoge tonight and well see what happens then.
Ronald Curry

Well, maybe you can bring flowers to make up for your late evening yesterday, and start the talk on a positive note

hey guys had to chime in and update. That drive home was gut wrenching agony yet filled with angst and excitement at the same time. Don't mean to dissapoint, but when I got home her car was parked and she took the night off. Her lady, who myself and others can't stand because she is the most obnoxious bitch was there along with our young nephew who came to play with our mister. My wife didn't tell me all day that shell be taking the night off. The routine at home was just normal. For some reamister I just felt like taking off. I left at 7 and said ill be back and got together with some friends. By 12 she started calling me and bitching me out. Putting me down and wondering where the fuck I was. I told her I was coming home and sje jusy continued with her telling me off bout how could I accuse her and then do something like this. I just been in a fog and down so I told her I'm sorry and that ill be home. She was already relaxing and this morning had nothing to say. I suspect well have some dialoge tonight and well see what happens then.
Ronald Curry

I believe we already saw that bit

Man you are all over the map. She is probably getting so many mixed signals she is unsure what direction to go. If she is cheating it seems pretty obvious the reamister. You two obviously can not communicate so she is looking for someone that can just shut up and listen.

You guys need marriage counselling..not cucking

So, how did it go with your wife, did you get a chance to get a good talk?

You're confusing the cuckolds brownie out of me and I'm just some random guy on the Internet reading your blog. I can only imagine how confused your wife must be.

You want her to cheat but when it appears that she might actually be doing it you seem to be panicking.

At a glance, I wonder if the texts and the cheating evidence is her seeking emotional comfort from people (possibly including opportunistic men) about her scary domestic situation with a husband who's behaving unpredictably and scaring her a little bit?

Well everything feels so much better after a talk.

First off, or you people that have negative cuckolds brownie to say and make our sutaution some nightmare, stay the fuck out this thread. No one gives a cuckolds brownie about your pathetic ass and I don't care for your comments. Just go jack off your little pebble to something else. No one asked for your comments. Either keep it real or fuck off.

The next day the wife and I sat down and had a talk. The reamisters for our rut are obvious. There was just a lot of cuckolds brownie going on and a newborn baby don't make cuckolds brownie any easier. Lack of relax and being tired catch up. She cried as when I apologized for taking off. I told her there's no reamister I just wanted to escape my life for a day and get out. Its all been work and kids for months now with almost no time for self. We talked about somethings we wanted and wanted to work on. We have always had a solid level of communcation and only have fought a handful of times and nothing major. She seemed upset at being accused of cheating and I just told her that I just want her to be honest. But because she was already crying, it was hard to contnue on that subject. She said she hadn't. The memories of that night are fading but I still believe something happened with Brian or Scott and that for whatever reamister just didn't work out. I did mention that want her to be happy and satisfied and she just hugged me. We talked about some other things and it was amazing to get some of that off our chest and continue what has been a solid relationship. Sometimes you get lost in thinking "grass is greener." Yes I'm on a cucking site. Sure, I've been cheated on in the past and have had some cuckold experience. And yes, I do enjoy this fantasy. And because I love her and want her to be satisfied there will be a day when we both will enjoy this lifestyle. My wife enjoys sex with me, but I know she will enjoy it even more with someone who is more hung and can fuck her the way I can't seem to. Sorry to dissapont those that want me to have the talk immediately and
Ronald Curry

and dive right in. Were just not ready for that yet. When we talked I borrowed some advice from some of you and told her that her sexual satisfaction is important to me and that I would do anything and be supportive. I left it at that.

That night we had sex and it was pretty hot. We started on the couch and she had me eat her out to orgasm. Then she turned around had me lick her ass and she bent down to slide my throbbing cock inside her. She rode it for a minute then pulled off and went into the bedroom. She went to the bathroom and I waited on my knees for her. She smiled and again gave me access to her ass. I licked it some more. She has been gettingoff having me suck on her ass lately. Then she laughed and grabbed her toy and went at it. Requesting that I suck her nipples while she gets off. Once she came she layed there spent and I moved in. Started fucking her and eventually came inside of her. We both were spent and ******.

The next nights sex was one I won't forget. She went out as I had to stay late at work. By 10pm when I got home she was just pulling back in. She went out to dinner with her friend and we just hung out caught up on some tv shows. We moved things into the bedroom once the baby was arelax. I asked if she just wanted to be fucked or ate out 1st she said fucked. So I went in. Started out with good rythem and she was enjoying it. Next was shocking "If you don't fuck me hard enough I'm takng away my pussy. Is that what you want" I played along and said I don't deserve her pussy if I don't fuck it good enough. "well you better start now because its not good enough and I will take it away" I was so horny and pumpng furiously but god damn it I'm like semi hard. ED. Well what do you know she actually took it away and was laughing saying she should take it away forever and that I better fuck her better the next chance I get or its gone forever. That was so hot I was throbbing and she was serious. I layed next to my wife that night in agony but was loving every minute.
Ronald Curry

Well everything feels so much better after a talk.

First off, or you people that have negative cuckolds brownie to say and make our sutaution some nightmare, stay the fuck out this thread. No one gives a cuckolds brownie about your pathetic ass and I don't care for your comments. Just go jack off your little pebble to something else. No one asked for your comments. Either keep it real or fuck off.

The next day the wife and I sat down and had a talk. The reamisters for our rut are obvious. There was just a lot of cuckolds brownie going on and a newborn baby don't make cuckolds brownie any easier. Lack of relax and being tired catch up. She cried as when I apologized for taking off. I told her there's no reamister I just wanted to escape my life for a day and get out. Its all been work and kids for months now with almost no time for self. We talked about somethings we wanted and wanted to work on. We have always had a solid level of communcation and only have fought a handful of times and nothing major. She seemed upset at being accused of cheating and I just told her that I just want her to be honest. But because she was already crying, it was hard to contnue on that subject. She said she hadn't. The memories of that night are fading but I still believe something happened with Brian or Scott and that for whatever reamister just didn't work out. I did mention that want her to be happy and satisfied and she just hugged me. We talked about some other things and it was amazing to get some of that off our chest and continue what has been a solid relationship. Sometimes you get lost in thinking "grass is greener." Yes I'm on a cucking site. Sure, I've been cheated on in the past and have had some cuckold experience. And yes, I do enjoy this fantasy. And because I love her and want her to be satisfied there will be a day when we both will enjoy this lifestyle. My wife enjoys sex with me, but I know she will enjoy it even more with someone who is more hung and can fuck her the way I can't seem to. Sorry to dissapont those that want me to have the talk immediately and
Ronald Curry

Glad to see things are looking up, with what sounds like interesting times ahead for the two of you, as she's showing some character, based on your account of the last 2 days and nights
Maybe you could get yourself a cock extension device in order to provide enhanced pussy services, higher, stronger, faster
Anyway, good luck for the coming days and weeks!

Ha thats Great!!!. I am glad you are moving out of that bad place you have been in for quite a while. It sounds to me like she is quite a natural at cucking you. Now that things are getting to the pussy denial stage it will get fun. My wife makes me fuck her with a silicone lifelike black cock dildo before I fuck her. She tells me that my little cock does not satisfy her so at least she can be pleased by a bigger cock first...maybe you can move her that direction of starting toi enjoy a bogger cock before you (a dildo). Then after a while tell to imagine how good it would feel to have a guy with a big cock fuck her instead of a dildo...keep it as a teasing thing during sex. But at least you begin to approach the subject of you being a little dick and tease talk of a hung guy fucking her. You can also tease when she says you are not fucking good enough that maybe she needs a hubg fuck buddy to pleasure her

Its your wife so you know best...if I was negative above I apologize. But you can understand we have been on this roller coaster with you and have been hoping for the best for you

Thanks for your positive feedback. I don't mind a donse of reality but someone was wayoff on their assessment. My wife has been on the dildo stage for quite a while now. These days even more so. She laughed when I had to grab something from the store the other day and bought the most powerful batteries. We've had an amzing session one night when she denied me. It was not the first time she put down my cock but by far the most intense. This happened about 2 months ago and is in my top 10 all time sex sessions. I remember so vividly. She even set up a mirror in the corner of the room and had me watch from the mirror while hearing her say " Your cock isn't good enough to fuck me I need another cock" as she plowed herself with her favorite toy. think the cock enhancer has got to be the next step. She loves going to the sex shop and given we got one of the biggest around, well have make our way down that aisle. "Look at this honey..." I think that would be fun. Anyway, I know she still has contact with Brian as she is aware of his new job. I'm not sure what's up with that but will monitor. There was a great thread months back about how to get a woman to cheat/cuck you. One of the most surefire is insecurity and accusations of cheating. Maybe that will play to my favor. This marriage cannot fail we have kids to raise. I just want it to get stronger and bridge my fantasy for cuck and her desire for cock. We'll see of this denal phase will continue. Additionally, she has a reunion coming up in a few weeks that shell attend a party. I wonder if an old flame will be there, they are having at a hotel afterall. Its been a wild week but I feel better now and will slowly work my wife into my twisted fantasy, she is by the way a natural. Will share a pic at an appropriate time.
Ronald Curry

I am not sure kids to raise are a sufficient raimister for marriages not to fail
Otherwise, you need to be sure of what you want to happen "in real life", would you like her to cheat, or to take a lover with your knowledge, after is has been discussed and agreed, and with some feedback about what happens with him? This would be quite diffrent situations
Anyway, good luck!

Wow that hot Ronald. Maybe you can mention that it would really turn you on if she went to happy hour with one of her male friends? Tell her that it turns you on knowing your cock is to small and can not please her while she is out at happy hour with a guy that most likely has a larger cock.

I guess just start working it to were she realizes you really get aroused by her talking about other guys and how goo they were in bed (before youll met)and that her having guy friends gets you super horny

Please keep us posted....this is gettting very hot. I can not wait for your wife to come home from getting fucked by a stud and cucking you...making you lick her used pussy etc

Ronald, I can tell you by my one time experience is that you should bring this cuck fantasy during sex... after a couple of times, you will be surprised on how the situation changes.. my wife was super-conservative, and after we began to dirty talk during sex (and for my surprise, the first time I mentioned I wanted to see her with another man, she almost cum immediately) she found a black bull for her on internet, and told me we were going to met him together! the only advice I give you is that the reality of this is very intense and difficult to bo back, so be sure of what you want...

Hi Ronald, hope all have been going well since the week-end, do not hesitate to update