SheDatesHeWaits:
This thread starts off with another wannabee projecting HIS version of "real cuckolding" onto everyone else. Not only are you making assumptions that everyone has your tastes and desires... it's just plain rude. There are many variations of cuckolding. None are more "real" than others.
Your wife does NOT have to be cheating on you without your knowledge in order for it to be cuckolding... and the cuck does not have to be her "bitch". That sort of stupidity never ends on these boards. The OP also has his definitions completely out of whack, with his interpretation that cuckolding is really "swinging" if your wife has sex with others because you want it. However, the very definition of cuckolding is a wife having sex with someone other than her husband. It doesn't matter whose idea it was. Swinging is the practice of couples swapping partners. The whole thread starts off with GIGO... Garbage In, Garbage Out.
In my view a cuckolding relationship is a "TRUE" cuckolding relationship when the cuckold puts his wifes sexual needs ahead of his own, with elements of sexual humiliat1on.. full stop.
there could be many variations of this.
some cucks, simply, get off on watching their wives have sex with other men.
Some cucks enjoy it more when they are being denied (ie chastity). this shows that the wifes pleasure takes precedence over the cuck's pleasure.
in some extreme cases, cucks like to be feminized and sissified and even become gay..
but the essence is that the cuckold puts his wifes needs ahead of his own.
So in a big way the wife is in control of the relationship.
The humiliat1on of the cuckold is of vital importance also and this also has varying degrees.
if the man (cuck) engages in sexual relations with other women at the same time.. it becomes an "open relationship" or "swinging".. because in this scenario the man and the woman are both equal (sexually)
so essentially if you are married and you find out your wife is cheating on you, but you dont do anything about it..instead you go out and fuck other women...you are not a "cuckold" .. in order to become a cuckold you have to accept the new status quo and disregard your own sexual needs.
if on the other hand, you are the one who convinces your wife to have sex with other men for your own pleasure you become a "STAG" which is basically the man being in control of the relationship. He is basically his wifes pimp.
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aside from all that badboy_20055 has really brought to light some very interesting insights.
but the funny thing is if the wannabe cuck follows his teachings to the letter and the wife cuckolds him, in essence she has done so with the blessing of her husband. Her husband knowingly drove her to cheat on him. Which begs the question, who is really in comtrol here? The wife just gone and did EXACTLY what her hubby wants.
