Megan Smith
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If I am to believe many of the posts on this site, it appears that many women stop having sex with their husbands once they start getting their pussies filled elsewhere. I find that a husband can provide a different type of sex that I really value.
My husband makes my cock available for my pleasure whenever I want it. (We stopped referring to it as his cock when we got married.) When I have sex with my husband, we are both totally focused on my pleasure. Our sessions almost always include plenty of pussy licking. I have instructed him on how I like it, so he has become very good at it. Sometimes we fuck, sometimes not, it depends on my mood. Occasionally, I am even in the mood to suck it. If he doesn't come while we are together, he takes care of it later. (I wouldn't want my cock to lack attention.) He really enjoys it when I want to fuck, and I am fine with that as long as he doesn't get the impression that is why we are doing it.
When I am with a boyfriend, I like to focus on his pleasure. Of course, I am happy if I guy likes to lick pussy, but I don't expect it. I would never criticize a boyfriend's form even though few men are as s*******ed at it as my husband. Fortunately, most men like to fuck. However, if they would rather come in my mouth then that is what we do. Some guys get a kick out of spewing it on my face. When I was single, I would have felt cheated if a boyfriend didn't give me an orgasm on a date. As a married women, I know I will get one when I get home if that is what I want.
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I_A_S_P
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Megan Smith
Good thread! I've found that once a woman finds a lover that she feels is confident, knows what he is doing and knows how to fulfill her needs and desires, things change. She loves her husband with all of her heart and hubby loves her just as much. Even so, the marriage often evolves into a loving but platonic relationship. Many women feel comfortable being sexually exclusive with one man. When she finally hooks up with a man who rings her bell, the sexual dynamics of the marriage often greatly change.
As you stated in the second paragraph, hubby becomes more like a living dildo. She uses him for her permisteral pleasure and satisfaction. She has total control of hubby's sexuality and runs things her way.
When she is with a boyfriend, she feels free to let loose and express herself -- often with wild, intense sexual abandon! Five long, good, lasting licks of pussy are usually plenty to get me hard and her wet for penetration. Let hubby deal with the marathon pussy lapping sessions. I don't advise any man to spew his load in his lover's face. It may play in a porn film, but most women don't feature that very often. Her boyfriend should be able to satisfy her in the tryst, so I doubt that hubby has to supply very many post-date orgasms for wifey. It is good that the wife knows a loving husband awaits at home when she returns from her date!
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..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!
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cuckold_2
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My thoughts, although you sound like the perfect "Cuckoldress" don't let yourself go.. still get dressed up and look good..Previous experiences with me is it started this way however the "wife" let herself go and I lost all interest... in other words - who cared anymore-
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tinycock
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Coming a bit late to this thread, but what the heck, why not chip in?
In my/our case, it is very much like Megan describes. I think she has the perfect take on it. I love how she and her cuck refer to it his penis as "her" cock after they married. Perfect!
My woman actually started training me before she even cuckolded me. I told her I liked dominant women, and she latched onto it. We always focused on her pleasure, not mine. Our sex life was always more about me licking her or using dildos on her, and less about intercourse. She even said, in the heat of the pre-orgasmic moment, that the dido felt "so much better" than my dick. This really put me in my place. Also, she sometimes told me AFTER i had an orgasm, how much she enjoyed the dildo more, or how she couldn't orgasm on my small, thin dick. To hear this when you are horny is one thing, to hear it afterward is quite another-- more shocking, more painful, more powerful in putting you in your place as her inferior.
By the time she had sex with another man, we had already progressed to me only having ocassional intercourse. And then she decided to stop having penetrative sex with me altogether, first with the idea that it would be until she found a lover, but after she met someone and had sex with him, she decided to continue it anyway. I was perfectly happy with this arrangement. After that, it was about 5 years before we had "sex" again. We were intimate, we made love, but it was always me licking her or using and hands and dildos on her. Very often she enjoyed just going to relax after she had an orgasm or two, and leaving me "hanging". Other times, she just gave me a handjob and for me, that was just fantastic. I was always so grateful and happy.
I'd love to hear from more real couples (not just fantasists) on this!
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