Forum, your advise has always helped. How about now?

She was talking about times that she and her friend hung out and she knew that her friend liked her, but she didn't like her that way. Even relaxing in the same bed a couple times but no action. I somehow told her that I didn't believe her. She said it was true, then she mentioned that she did make out with a guy the same night that her friend did. I was shocked, in a good way. She was giggling and saying oh my god, that she can't believe she told me this. I of course asked for details. but I had to drag it out of her. I asked her where she was, and she told me in a club. they left the club with this guy who was a friend of her friend. She told me how she found out at one time that the guy and her girl friend used to date. She liked the guy, but knew she would never see him again as she was visiting a new town. her girl friend started driving and she was in the back seat of the car with the guy and started making out with him. then I ask her when did her friend make out with the guy. she covered her eyes, and told me how her friend looked back, pulled the car over to the side of the road and came to the back seat. I then asked "and what happened next". She said that her friend started rubbing on the guys chest and when he turned around, her friend started making out with him. Then I said, "OK, so what did you do while they were making out" again she covered her face and said "during that time she would suck on the guys neck and rub his chest." closing her eyes again, she then told me that this went on back and forth until the sun came up. I basically had to drag this story out of her, asking questions to get the details. when she opened her eyes to see my face, she said she was ashamed to tell me. I told her not to be that I loved the story. She said she was relieved to finally tell me even though it happened before we were together. we kept talking about it and she said how now times are different since we are married. i explained that it is not different in any way, that we can still do things like that. she kept saying no. i told her to imagine if that night, that her two friends were married and that she was just enjoying their company. She agreed. She agreed and seriously, no longer than 5 seconds later, she mentioned how our mutual friend from out of town said that he wanted to have some takes with her. I just said cool, we should hang out and agreed to go next week. She has always shown some sexual tension with this friend. Just wondering how I should proceed. Should I try to get with her friend to see if he wants to seduce my wife or should I just ask my wife if she wants to try and seduce him? Or should I just see where this ball rolls next week?

Yes, definitely let her take the lead. If you go behind her back with it, she would probably be p*ssed off, and rightly so, I think.

Just make sure that she has your encouragement to go as far as she wants.. Or let her know your limits, if you aren't okay with whatever might happen.

It sounds like there may be an expectation that the three of you may spend some time together. If that's the case, I suggest making sure you give them some time together alone, even if it's just for bathroom breaks or beer runs to the store.

xoxoxo

Christine (a sissy m)

thanks for the advise. I know this is counter productive, but I want to be with her in any activity that she does so letting her go out with him alone is hard for me. I can probably go out for beers or quick breaks as stated, but I wouldn't want to be out for too long. My wife comes and swells quickly, at least with me. Once she is done, its hard to get her started again, and I would hate for that to happen if I am there with a hard on.

As for letting her take the lead, I agree. She is sending me hints constantly and asking her will just make it weird. Talking to him will definitely piss her off, and I don't know the guy well enough to know how to bring it up either.

Push to hard, and she will back down. You know your wife better than any of us here.

An aside, one thing I have found effective, is to write her short and loving notes about your fantasies. Leaving them on her pillow. She can read, and respond if she wants. Make sure the notes are loving and don't contain demands. Write them as love notes.

Thanks Juanito,
I'm beginning to see that this may be the only way, though I'm not too much into the cuckold fantasy but more into the hot wife fantasy as she is a really hot wife. I really want to be with her if and when she experiences another lover.

Thanks FantMstr,
I'll try the notes things. I've recently gave her access to my journal and I know she recently read one of my notes that drove her wild in bed last night. I'll try the love notes. Any suggestions on what you've written in the past?

need more advise. She went out tonight, she gave me a lame story, i'm about 99% it was to see a guy. I'm mad and excited. I'm mad because she didn't tell me and excited because she is enjoying herself. I don't know what to do, help!