I_A_S_P, I am reading your quote every day and agreeing with what you are saying. I don't always get the message the first time or clearly express what I mean. My response saying that I was not worried was because I didn't see your point. What I meant to say was that this guy is not my issue, I am the issue. I know I have to win her back. I'm trying really hard, and I can see it that she doesn't trust me. Thanks again, and check your PM please.
I_A_S_P:
Oh! I only WISH it was that easy! You must WIN her back. It takes time. OK, suppose that some how and some way you can actually keep your mouth shut and NEVER mention ONE word about any aspect of this incident again. She will quickly notice that your actions show sincerity. Were you to continue apologizing via actions instead of words, she will know that you love her and care about her and her feelings. When she begins to warm to your changes and attention, be very sincere and speak soft and tender words to her. Tell her lovingly how valuable she is to you and how you appreciate her love for you. Now look in her eyes as she really, really wants to believe you. You will then understand just how deeply you have hurt her. Try as she might, she will be unable to hide the pain because her eyes betray her feelings. Everything starts from today on. ONE WORD about this current situation will derail any progress you make with her in future. You have your work cut out for you. Mum is the word!
