She wants a big one

After years of effort I think my wife is finally on the path to becoming a hotwife and taking another man's cock.

The last couple time's we've had sex she's brought up wanting a big dick to fuck her. She's even gone so far as to specifically request a 12 incher.

I know the last lover she had before me had a bigger dick than I do but she's always maintained that it didn't matter. Now just recently she's asking for more.

Whats the best way to go about finding a swordsman for her? She's a VERY private permister so it won't be somebody we know and she'll probably want to travel away from home for the encounter.

Pornking. Good luck in your endeavors. I wish you the best.

I offer my experience for what it's worth. My wife and I were on the same path but when I actually started looking for her, I think it became too real for her and she withdrew her request and it set us back about a year. It was in March 2011 and just now is she even remotely getting near where she was in March last year. I guess I'm saying don't push it. Or maybe study your wife more. I certainly thought I knew her after 14 years of marriage last year but have learned more about her in the last year than i ever knew before. I realized I was pushing it from my standpoint and not really from hers. Only when I was able to shift my approach to be her-centric did we start heading in the right direction. My gal is very private too and comes from a strict Catholic upbringing. Only in the last week or so has she gone back to talking about other cock in bed. I don't approach the topic outside of the bedroom at this point and probably won't until she is clearly ready to move on to the next level. For now I'm going to enjoy the fun we have together in our dirty talk and role playing with her toys.

I'd love to hear how it works out for you. Hopefully you'll be on soon telling us that you're waiting for her to get home from a date! Again best of luck.
fender

Thanks for the tips. I'm VERY her-centric, I'll probably be just a bystander at first although she claims she wants to suck me off while she's getting banged.

She talks about fucking another man just about every time we have sex now and has asked to go to a swingers club for her birthday . That last request came outside of the bedroom which really surprised me.

Recently I've realized her pussy gets much wetter when we talk about another man fucking her. For years she's said she wanted to fool around with another woman and we've had a couple mild experiences in that regard that have been hot but she gets way hotter thinking about another dude...

The request to go to a swingers club seems like the solid proof you need to know she is serious. When i started looking i found adult friend finder generated some good serious candidates. I paid for a one month gold membership. A piece of advice someone gave me was to only respond to gold or silver members. It helps weed out the non serious ones. Make sure you are clear in what you/she want. And btw im not affiliated with AFF in any way. I was a member for one month. Ill sign up again once my wife decides she wants to move forward again.
fender

The ADULT FRIEND FINDERS tip is a good one. After a lot of trial and error trying to find satisfactory bulls I ran an ad in AFF with a sexy pix of my wife and in depth description of what turns us on...we had a ton of replies...I then let her take her time sifting through them and she chose 3 finalists from their photos...we decided to meet those 3 on separate occasions in a neutral no obligation manner and then went from there...the guy she finally chose was terrific...non pushy, super clean, very good looking, about 7 1/2 inches, considerably younger than my milf and very grateful to do the honors and bring the lady to amazing orgasms...all while I cheered them on and got to suck on her toes! One of those nights to remember forever! She loved the male attention and really got her pipes cleaned out totally drained of all cum that night!!! After that all-nighter, she slept about 15 hours and she has thanked me about a million times for turning her on to that guy.

Local craigs list if you have one; works quickly.

How exactly would your phrase something on Craigslist to bring out the really interested parties? Seems like it'd be a good way to find all the cranks and pranksters.

If we do it we don't do local. Make a short vacation out of it, go 2 or 3 hours away...

I tried craigslist last march and they shut it down after a few hours. I must not have been sly enough to get past their rules on adult postings. But in that few hours I got 9 responses. Of those, two or three seemed serious. if you go with craigslist be ready to get lots of crap and make sure you read their policies so you don't get booted like I did.

Please keep us updated on your progress. Best of luck.
fender

Ashley Madimister. My wife was getting 200 views a day and 20 messages. It's a lot of work to filter through them all but you'll get what you need.