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Hi.

I think that there is a thin line between peoples fantasy and what they will actually do. She doesn't mind doing all the things you listed for you because she feels a connection with you like no one else. She wants to make you happy, but she wants you to be happy with just her, and her with just you. Virgins are tricky people, they like to fantasize but most will never act them out fully. After 10 years of marriage I'm not surprised that she will do almost anything to turn you on (as long as it is just the 2 of you), but she is in the monogomy mindset and it will take a while to get her to open up. Few ideas.

Be patient with her, you don't want her to do this before she is ready.

Try and introduce cuckolding porn into your forplay sessions, after you watch it together and u tell her what makes you hot it may help a little.

Instead of trying to get her to just jump right into the sack with another man, go out with her and have her mingle and flirt while you watch from a distance. This way it is like baby stepping into the idea. If she likes the attention she may open up more.

You didn't say anything about your dick size so I don't know if you are small, but if so then ask her about what she thinks a bigger one would feel like. Could get her thinking dirty about others more.

Introduce dildos and other toys into your sex life, you can roleplay and watch while she fucks herself with "another cock" than yours. You could even act out a "clean-up" from the imaginary creampie. This will help her to think of other cocks and see what it is like to have you submit and worship her.

Last, have her take control of you for a weekend and let her do whatever she wants with you. You can be like her slave and her your Mistress. You may be surprised at what things she would like for you to do.

Hope this helps.

I think SLAVEBOY6969 has given you excellent advise. My wife is not really open to the idea of crossing racial lines, (has to do with her upbringing I think) but she has taken on a white guy on several occassions. I used dildos, porn movieswhich included MFM 3-some wife sharing movies and wife gang-bang movies while I'm in bed with her, as well as role playing pretending with the dildo being a real lover for her. I would ask her to do herself and show me exactly how she would like her stud to fuck her so I can give him instructions when we get the real guy. These tactics did cause her to loosen up considerably. Also I've taken her to strip clubs where most of the audience are of course horny guys. She flirts with the guys while I watch and loves the attention she gets there. One night she even picked a handsome young guy up who really turned her on at a strip club and we ended up in a MFM 3-some with him after we left the club. We both fucked her silly that night and after that night each time either of us brought up that night's MFM activities we would both get so hot we just couldn't wait to jump in bed and fuck each other silly.
Patience is the name of the game, and if she's intimidated by black guys, maybe you can just start her out with a simple MFM 3-some which you yourself can arrange for in advance. You can run an ad in Adult Friend Finder's web site and see if she's receptive to this idea. Or try taking her to a strip club and give her some freedom to flirt at will. You can assure her that if she doesn't like the experience you don't have to ever participate in anything like that again. Give her constant reassurances of how much you love her, and how badly you want for this thing to happen as you feel it will bring you both even closer together.
If at first you don't succeed....try and try again.....and good luck!