Confused

I've been married for 15 years Iam 43 she is 55 I've notice changes lately I've been doing all the cleaning washing clothes etc for a few years now we only have sex a few times a year and Iam gone working alot about a year ago she was getting ready for work her phone was flashing I check her voice mail there wasa guy saying that hecould meet her that weekend same motel I check iwas going to be gone to be out of town myself then a month ago she asked me since Iam gone all the time if it's allright if she finds someone to go do things with. What is happing here

Right after that I was working and she texted me to tell me she was going gambling and would be back later that nite I replied back with who and she said a friend I ended up working all nite she texted me around 3 am to let me know she was home

If you're okay with her "possibly" see another guy, just let it play out, see where it goes. If you actually "like" the idea she possibly seeing another guy, covertly bring up the subject of Swinging, 3-somes, Cuckolding etc.

She said no to that she dosnt want me watching right now and she likes to go out when Iam off working

When I got home last nite she was texting someone when she finally came to bed a few hours later she asked me if I was going to be late wed nite I said maybe why she said I need to go get a motel room and not come home I told her thatwould be ok I would so she text some more and got a big smile then kissed me on the forehead then said sweet dreams

Sorry I had to go out of town for work and I still havnt went home yet when I called my wife we'd morning I could hear a mans voice in the back ground I asked if he stayed all nite and the answer was oh yes I asked what happened I'll text you later she needed to get ready to go to work. I couldn't think straight she waited a hour or so finally text me and said he was great in bed I asked what happen her reply was thay fuck on and off all night she said his cock was amazing I asked if it was bigger oh ya over 9 and really thick my heart just fell out of my chest she then asked me when I would be back my reply probally not till Saturday nite she said great because he coming back and there making plans to do something Friday nite

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We're sorry.... what are you confused about?
Dawn

Sounds like she's just a used up hag going on menopause.