Still working on it.

Ok so I figure this is the place to be. It has not happened yet. So
far its just been pillow talk during sex. Getting her to take that step
is tough but, I share this fantasy with every time we get it on. Which is
not often lately due to our schedules. I want to watch my 42c, buxem, cute wife fuck other men. More, I want to watch the cum run out of her cunt. Under the right circumstaces I think she would
do it. I am just not sure what those circumstances would be. Its far more
absract what turns a womans key toward this as opposed to us men.

By the way, why is it such a turn on for us to watch our wifes being fucked
by another guy? Is it that its forbidden fruit, ect. What?

part is love, part is appreciation...i think. we love our wife/girlfriend and want to see her satisfied. also we appreciate a beautiful woman enjoying a large cock. some weirdos are in it to be humiliated i think and get off on that but that's not what most guys are into.

you might want to talk to your wife about it that way also...you love her and want to see her satisfied and that she is a beautiful woman that deserves a hung stud to enjoy, as well as yourself.

By the way, why is it such a turn on for us to watch our wifes being fucked
by another guy? Is it that its forbidden fruit, ect. What?


Hi jeff t - it took me a long time to talk my wife into fucking another guy, but once she realised I was serious, she couldn't wait! She has only done it once (though he fucked 3 times) and that was 6 years ago, but I still got extremely aroused thinking about it.

I wouldn't have dreamed of asking my first wife to cuckold me, but for some reamister it felt okay with my current wife. I guess our relationship is that much stronger and trusting. I enjoyed using dildos and vibrators on my wife's pussy and would get extra hard imagining it was a real cock I was watching sliding in and out of her. This extended to pillow talk, fantasising about her being "naughty" with other guys. I also encouraged her to tell me in bed if she had been chatted up on girly nights out.

The way I got my message across in the end was to explain that it wouldn't be the thought of her having sex with someone else that would upset me - quite the opposite - but the lies and deceit if she did it behind my back.

She gradually got much more open about getting chatted up and what sort of guys she fancied. After a few months and a couple of false starts, my 35 year-old wife dated and slept with a 23 year-old lad and she came home a very satisfied lady and told me all about it.
Peter C

# Posted: 8 May 2006 07:08:01
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By the way, why is it such a turn on for us to watch our wifes being fucked
by another guy? Is it that its forbidden fruit, ect. What?


Hi jeff t - it took me a long time to talk my wife into fucking another guy, but once she realised I was serious, she couldn't wait! She has only done it once (though he fucked 3 times) and that was 6 years ago, but I still got extremely aroused thinking about it.

I wouldn't have dreamed of asking my first wife to cuckold me, but for some reamister it felt okay with my current wife. I guess our relationship is that much stronger and trusting. I enjoyed using dildos and vibrators on my wife's pussy and would get extra hard imagining it was a real cock I was watching sliding in and out of her. This extended to pillow talk, fantasising about her being "naughty" with other guys. I also encouraged her to tell me in bed if she had been chatted up on girly nights out.

The way I got my message across in the end was to explain that it wouldn't be the thought of her having sex with someone else that would upset me - quite the opposite - but the lies and deceit if she did it behind my back.

She gradually got much more open about getting chatted up and what sort of guys she fancied. After a few months and a couple of false starts, my 35 year-old wife dated and slept with a 23 year-old lad and she came home a very satisfied lady and told me all about it.


You hit the nail on the head, almost exactly how it happened for us

Thanks gents, some good ideas here. I have tried alot of them but,
I think its also a self image thing with her. I will just have to keep working on it.