Ronald Curry
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I was wondering for those who are in a solid, loving relationship that are involved in this lifestyle, go about dismissing a bull's services. Perhaps the bull is a lousy fuck, or the wife is just not into him, or he is just flat out mean to the cuck. I was just wanting to hear some scenerios when a bull might be attached and how to get rid of them.
Has anyone had a situation where the bull decided to not keep things private and try and publicly humiliate the cuck or even the slut wife?
Has a bull gotten out of line with the wife and began hurting her to the point where the cuck needed to rise up and protect his woman?
How about a trust situation where for example, condoms were to be used and the bull ignored this condition or a similar one?
Any other bad scenerios that one might need to consider before getting into the lifestlye? Ronald Curry
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jlovesbbc
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as we all know, there are as many scenarios as there are bulls and cucks. regardless of all that, here is what you need to know before you get into this. 1. you and your wife need to be and remain on the same page at all times. no matter how many times that page changes you need to be together on it. 2 there are always people who will not meet/fit your needs 3 don't think that this is a everyday/week thing. that is something best left for the internet.
ok permisterally my husband and i have been doing this since 1990. there have been times when we were partying like rock stars just as there has been times when we went a year without. the reamister why we are together still and going strong is because out of all the things to consider we took these three very basic things and held them up high. if this doesn't answer your questions, i at least hope it helps your journey into this. have fun and play safe! you're killing me smalls
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jlovesbbc
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oh one more thing, yes we have had to "fire" a bull you're killing me smalls
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JUANITO
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I once left my wife alone with her bull in a hotel room while I went out for cigarrettes and more *****...bad idea, since we had just met the guy for the first time that night. My wife and him had been hitting it off pretty good and I just thought he might feel somewhat intimidated by my presence, so I made the excuse to go out for a while so they could better get 'acquainted'. I felt he wanted to fuck her, but didn't feel right with me being present. I stayed gone about 40 minutes. Upon my return, while he went to the bathroom, she confided in me in a low voice that she had become afraid of him. She said that as he was fucking her with him on top, he would put his hands around her throat as if to strangle her and pumped his cock into her very fast and furiously...it almost felt like she was being powerd to submit to sex...she said he didn't squeeze her neck real hard, but just the idea of it and she being helpless under him made her scared. For that reamister she could not really enjoy herself, as she was a nervous wreck. She said she would have been ok with it, if I had been there to protect her if it became necessary. When I asked him about it, he said it was just his kinky way of making love, as his fantasy was to forcibly take an *** woman in a very rough manner. He said he would never really hurt her, but after that night we didn't really trust him, so we never agreed to meet with him again. It has always been very hard to find a bull that is 100 percent compatible, and we have had many disappointments since we got into the lifestyle. That incident was just one of them!
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subchard
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We have been very lucky (mostly) with our choice of bulls, but every now and then we have played with one that just didn't seem a good fit. One or two have said they were into "stuff" that we liked and then freaked out; one scared my wife a little bit, and one even asked for money afterwards (as part of his fantasy or so he said!).
With these guys my wife usually just takes the passive aggressive way out; she doesn't return calls or e-mails, or makes obvious excuses not to meet again. After a couple of these rejections, the guy usually gets the hint and moves on.
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Ronald Curry
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Thanks for your contributions. I was seeking some specific instances of when a bulls services weren't needed as well as instances that may lead to a bulls termination.
How about instances where the wife is in to the bull and the husband wishes for the arrangement to end. And maybe the wife doesn't want to part with the good fucking she is receiving. Ronald Curry
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QueenB and He
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Most of our bull have been fine but there has been the odd occasion where she didn't want to meet them again because they were not attentive enough. Bulls need to realise that it's not enough to offer sex, a woman needs kindness, care and attention.
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