Advice for newbies and wannabes

I know a lot of guys want to have their wife or girlfriend to cuckold them. I honestly think the chances of that happening depends on the type of girl your wife or girlfriend is. My wife had fucked a lot of guys in college and really didn't get attached to any of them she just liked sex. She is also a more dominant woman. Some how I got her to stay with me and marry me. I was the 20th guy she had fucked. I had no interest in her having sex with other guys at that time. About 5 years after we were married, I was having fantasies of her fucking other guys. It was tough for me to bring it up to her. I basically had her tell me about some of the guys she fucked in college. Then I asked her if she missed going out with different guys. Of course at first she was saying she didn't miss it, but them she admitted that she kind of did miss it. You have to convince your wife that you are totally ok with her fucking other guys. The first thing women usually think is that you are fucking around on her and you are just trying to get her to fuck someone else so you wont feel guilty. Then, women think that you don't love them anymore since you are trying to get her to fuck someone else. It just takes a lot of discussion and reassurance to get your wife or girlfriend to get into it.

In my case, my wife and I had a threesome with one of her female friends. At the time she said she wanted too, but after she was really jealous. I told her if it would make her feel better she could have sex with a guy. I figured she would fuck one guy and I would get to watch and that would be it. Well, I was wrong. Once she fucked another guy and saw I was ok with it, she realized how much she missed fucking random guys like she did in college. She is still really jealous of me and don’t like me talking to other girls at all. I think she is afraid I would mess around on her, but the only reamister I did in the first place was because I thought she wanted too have a threesome with a woman.

She has told me now that she thinks her fetish is fucking new and different men. She says she gets excited when she fucks a new cock. She has told me that she has no plans to quit fucking other guys. So, I am truly a cuck now. My wife is getting new cock at least once every few weeks now. She also goes back and fucks guys she has fucked before if she liked them and if they had a nice size cock and could fuck her for more than 10 minutes. I am lucky if I last a few minutes with her. She has now fucked 50 guys, so she has fuck 30 guys since we were married and her numbers are increasing fast.

So, I guess you need to be prepared either way. Your wife may fuck one guy and feel really guilty and never fuck anyone else, or, she might be like my wife and get addicted to new cock. No matter what, you will have to live with the consequences because you talked her into trying it. So, if your wife tries it and doesn't like it, then you should respect her decision. On the other hand, if your wife or girlfriend finds out that she loves to fuck new cocks, you also have to respect her decision and deal with it. It has been tough sometimes knowing that she is spending time with other guys and they are fucking the hell out of her. Even if I am a little jealous at times, I am always hard when she tells me she fucked someone.

The other possibility is you could loose your wife or girlfriend to another man. That almost happened to me. My wife left me for one of the guys she was fucking. Of course he was 10 years younger than me and his cock was 2 inches longer and he could fuck her for 30 minutes and get her off during sex, so, basically he was way better than me in the sex department. The only way I was able to when her back was the fact that I was stable, had a good job, and could take care of her financially. Although by the time I got her back her pussy was basically ruined since that guy had fucked her non-stop for weeks. She has tightened up a little since she stopped fucking him, but just when I think she is getting tight, she goes and fucks another 8 or 9 inch guy. She has told me that she does prefer bigger cocks, I am 6 ½ inches and she said she likes cocks in the 7 ½ to 8-inch range, but she has also fucked guys smaller than me. She will usually fuck any guy once, and if he is big enough and could fuck well, she will continue to fuck him but still look for new cock.

If you have any questions just ask. Not sure if my experiences has helped anyone, but at least my situation is one of many that can occur.

Thanks for posting. Great insight.

Hi ckld2007,

i am a cuckold wannabe and i am envious of you. do you have a desire to suck the cock of the man that fucks your wife? that is something that has evolved in me as i have grown from just wanting to watch someone fuck my wife to being involved.

To like2wacher66: If you have though about sucking another man, and you convince your wife to go through with cuckolding you, you will probably find yourself sucking the guy. I had never even though nor fantasized about it, but I had a strong irresistible urge to see my wife take another man's cock, and I wanted to be up and close to watch his cock sliding in and out of her...as I was very close while I layed under her in a 69 position and he took her doggy style, it just felt natural to lick the underside of his cock with my tongue as he was fucking her. If he had decided to stick it in my mouth at that moment, I was so dam hot I probably would have sucked him no problem, even though I have never felt any homosexual tendencies. There's just something so erotic about seeing another man's cock enter your wife's pussy that you just can't help wanting to be a part of that act. It absolutely blows the mind!! Hope you get to experience it!

I was so dam hot I probably would have sucked him no problem, even though I have never felt any homosexual tendencies

Yeah....sure

Why is it that every time a man give some advise here (like ckld2007 did in a good way), others starts pushing for the man to suck cock...??

To let your woman have the freedom to fuck others and come home and tell it all, is very erotic for some of us...cuck = homo is really not true...it's something else....the 'cucky angst' and the pleasure of gettign her back....for me at least....
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

To like2wacher66: No, I have never wanted to suck the cock that is fucking my wife or any other cock for that matter. I guess every guy is different though. I just prefer to watch, which only happens on rare occasions, or hear about it from my wife. My wife actually prefers to fuck guys one on one without me there. She always tells me about when she fucks a guy. She also takes pics for me sometimes and emails them to me. I have ate creampies from my wife's pussy several times, but the way I see that is once the guy cums in my wife's pussy his cum belongs to her. So, if I eat her out after she has had sex, then I am just eating pussy even though there is a creampie inside. Most of the guys she fucks wears condoms though, but she has 3 or 4 she likes to fuck without condoms.

To norwegian: Thanks for the compliment. I am just telling about my situation and hope it helps some people out. I know all situations are different, but I just write about my experiences. In general, my wife and I have a normal relationship with the exception that she likes to have sex with other guys and I like her to have sex with other guys.

If anyone else has any questions just post them.

Good stuff! Thanks for the post!

Alan,

Does you wife still have you cucked? My wife does. I see her every 3 weeks or so. She likes me to eat her out a lot and she does have sex with me. I think she does it to keep me hooked on her pussy, well, it works. She is also fucking way more guys now that she has moved out. She averages 2 or 3 guys a week. Some of them are guys she fucked before and some of them are new guys. She prefers guys that are a little bigger than me, in the 7 1/2 inch range, but she really likes guys that are thicker than me even if they are only 6 inches long. Every time she fucks she likes to call me and give me the details. She said she likes to give me something to think about while I am masturbating looking at pics of her pussy. She seems to enjoy it. She has told me where I have a cuckold fetish, she has a fucking new cock fetish so we work. She said she just loves to fuck random guys. So far from my count, she has fucked 39 new guys since we were married but that number just seems to increase by the week. A lot of them she fucks several times.

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Alan,

Yeah, you should write about it. I guess my wife and my situation is slightly different than yours. My wife doesn't have a boyfriend, she has guys she likes to fuck. She is really dominant, although she has been with some dominant guys, she would never be submissive for very long. She fucks several different guys per week. I am actually the only guy she dated and stayed with, even though she currently don't live with me. She does want me to move back in with her when I can find a job where she is, but she has already told me she will continue to fuck other guys. She told me she just seems to need other cock, but she wouldn't really want to date anyone else, just fuck them. That's what I wanted, so now that I got her to start fucking other guys, she doesn't want to stop.