What Goes Around

My significant other and I have been together for ten years.

For the first four years of our relationship, I encouraged (pressured?) her to take a lover. Eventually, she did. Although she didn't really enjoy it at first, eventually she grew to enjoy it. Of course, it helped when she finally found a bull who she liked. In time she came to appreciate that cuckolding enhanced, rather than threatened, our relationship.

After a few more years, she grew to love her dates. She loved when I helped her pick out her lingerie, and she loved when I would be her second lover of the night. For the last year, she averaged one or two men a week, in addition to me, and never needed encouragement.

Tonight, she confirmed what I had been suspecting for a couple of months -- she has become emotionally involved with one of the men. She told me that she still loves me, but that she loves him too. Althought, I'm not sure whether she still loves me or not, I told her I'm okay with that.

But he has no idea I exist. He thinks that she's just a single woman and that they are exclusive. And despite her feelings, she has not stopped having sex with other men because she enjoys the variety. She wants to be honest with him and wants him to be okay with her relaxing around. She even hopes that he'll enjoy cream pie. But either way, I suspect our days are numbered.
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Sorry to hear that. Hope things work out and the two of you can keep your good thing going.

There's a fine line between love and lust.

Best wishes.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

This is the one area that can mess it all up. If you read my novel this happens to us too, real deal, it sucks!

Derrin Hart

One bad experience I had was when one of my wife's young lovers fell inlove with her and began trying to convince her to leave me and move in with him. Lucky for me she was still very much into me and dumped him, even though she loved having sex with him. We learned from that experience that the best sexual partners for her are happily married men who have no intention of leaving their wives, but are just looking for a piece of ass. We have pretty much stuck to that formula, although I can see how the emotional thing can happen to a relationship if you don't take those precautions.
Men can separate sex and emotions more easily than a woman...the femenine sex is more likely to become emotionally involved with a sex partner, so you have to constantly remind her that it is to be just a purely physical experience, and she must treat it like such...the more slutty she becomes the easier it is to keep her from becoming emotionally involved with the bulls.

Any update Paul?