Am I a cuckold?

I have been married for 38 years and as far as I know my wife has not fooled around (unfortunately). Back when we were dating in the early 70s she went to Europe with her girlfriends and fucked a soldier (on the first day they met) and had an affair with him the whole time she was there. Since we were in a committed relationship but not married can I technically call myself a cuckold?
miles

I would say that she cucked you at the time, but you're not a cuckold.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

since you say 'unfortunately' about her not cheating on you....I would say you are more a wannabe cuck

and about the affair she had....yes she cuckolded you, but I guess one time 40 years ago don't make you a cuckol today?

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A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

cuckold is a man who is cheated on by his wife with his permission and knowledge prior to the act in a totally stable mindset

Well at least I've been cucked. 40 years later and it still gives me a boner.
miles

hehe

YES! you are a cuckold. a cuckold is a husband (or a boyfriend) whose wife (or girlfriend) has fucked another man. simple as that.

No, not cuckold - cheated on

If a husband or boyfriend is cheated on, isn't he a cuckold or at least been cucked? I was only 20 at the time and I reacted badly (didn't talk to her, moody, etc) and I really screwed up. It's surprising that she stayed with me for acting like such an asshole. But now when I ask her to talk about the affair she clams ups. I did manage to get the story out of her a long time ago.

It seems she went to a house in Germany that a friend of ours in the army was living in with some other guys. Well one of these other guys fucked her the day they met. My girlfriend and her friend Cathy and the two soldiers drove to Paris. They got there late and couldn't find a hotel and slept in the car. It turns out he fucked her in the car with the other couple in the front. I don't know how many times he screwed her during the next two months. She said it was too may times to keep track of.
miles

Well, I am definitely a cuckold. My wife has had sex with 4 other men whilst we've been married (3 of them considerably younger than us) and I fully approve.

I would say she cuckolded you, though your reaction afterwards - understandable though it was - has pretty much ruined your chances of her repeating the experience. I thought I'd done the same after my wife slept with a young customer from the shop she worked in. Although I'd encouraged her to accept a date with him, after he fucked her 3 times in an evening, I let the "cuckold angst" and insecurity get the better of me and asked her to stop.

I regretted this later and it was to be 9 years before I could persuade her to go with another man again. That said, we're older and wiser now and she's had 3 difference cocks since without any problems out of me.
Peter C

Well Peter, if your wife has fucked other guys after your initial reaction maybe there's hope my wife will be mounted again.
miles

Your wife cheated on you - in traditional terms you are a cuckold.

Snapped a picture in the office.
miles