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My other half (OH) and I have been talking about her playing with others for ages now. Long story short, a guy quite senior to her at work expressed an interest fleetingly last year, this progressed to lots of eye contact at xmas party and dancing where he told her how much he fancied her and he had his hands on her arse. Lots of smiles and small talk since then (they work in different parts of the company, so not every day she sees him). Out tonight for a meal and takes as a company team thing, he is there. I Helped her dress and get ready tonight. She has just text to say he is giving her lots of smiles and eye contact. Xmas party started like this too. Difference this time is I'm sure he is driving, she is anyway, so less holy water. However, I told her that I trust her if she wants more and to have fun, even put a condom in her purse as she left, which she liked We are wary of her working with him and problems this may cause, so are careful, but who knows? This could be the inching towards a next step? Really pretty tame compared to a lot of stories on here I know, but we all start somewhere right?
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I asked her if she is liking the smiles and eye contact again.
She says yes.
Asked if she wants more.
She says maybe.
Then says a kiss would be nice.
Told her just now that it is her call and she needs to make the judgement if its right or not, as I am not there.
Waiting to hear back.
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I know that where she is, is not the best for mobile network coverage and also that they are as a group chatting and eating, so not expecting millions of messages from her.
Like I say, very tame in comparimister, but this is very real and very happening right now.
I am aprehensive, nervous and excited for the possibilities. Maybe nothing tonight, but feels like more tiny steps.
Last message I sent was that I loved her, keep me upto date, and that I am very turned on.
She replied with that she loves me too.
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Over an hour since I heard last.
Still sure nothing much is happening other than food and chit chat.
She has started wearing open crotch knickers the past 4-5 weeks, not all the time, but does where them to work some days. She has always gone commando from time to time in all the years ive known her, so this doesnt mean anything other than she has a bit of a naughty side, which i adore.
She asked which knickers she should wear tonight, if any, so i asked her to wear some naughty ones, which she gladly put on for me to see as she got ready.
I feel so 'on edge' even though its all tame and probably boring to everyone else.
Anyone have any thoughts or comments whilst I await any further messages from my wonderful lady?
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bursting
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Well, looks like nothing more than smiles and eye contact. Which is nice, and keeps the possibility going. Obviously not the right occasion, too many sober colleagues around this time Just heard from her, on her way back. Looking forward to her laying back and telling me how fit he looked as I lick her wet pussy (I love doing that, do it a lot for her as she tells me about her flirting). Fingers crossed for further fun!
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JUANITO
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Sounds as though it may have been the beginning of wonderful things to come...you reminded me of my early starts when my wife went on a sort of 'date' with a guy at work who had been coming on to her (at my insistance!)...in contrast she went out to dinner with him, and later to his apartment...the whole evening while I waited in anticipation I had an enormous hard one and had to masturbate several times...I had never been so turned on as imagining my wife and that guy at his place! Later when she got home and told me all the juicy details of her 'date' I was so excited and worked up that I thoroughly licked her recently fucked pussy while she told me about her sexual adventure. Hope your next night of expectations turns out as good for you! The cuckold experience is just awesome!!! Wouldn't trade that feeling for anything!
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Peter C
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Not tame or boring, but a distinctly promising start. It took me 2 years of gentle persuasion, roleplay and encouragement before my wife felt comfortable enough to fuck a guy who'd chatted her up and, from what I've read here, that's not uncommon. But she did it and has done it more since, so be prepared for a slow journey and I'm sure your wife will succumb to temptation eventually. Enjoy! Peter C
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starflyer
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This sounds very erotic and arousing, she's taking it slowly at her own pace, thats good, i'm sure it will happen for you soon, listening to her telling you what happened is a real boost
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johnny108
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You are definately on the right track! Keep going! Encourage her to go farther, but, you must do so without pressuring her- let her know she can do more, at her own speed.
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bursting
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Thank you guys for your replies and thoughts. Nice to know that my writings have been read and taken for what they are.
We have spoken quite a lot about it all the past few days, big concerns regarding them working together, he has family, our relationship and her work future if she was to push further. We both have very similar thoughts and concerns regarding all areas, which is good, as it means we are on the same page (or very near it).
Spoke about her desire for another cock, which she has. Perhaps better to go further with another guy, unknown in essence, rather than a guy at work and risk all the areas we spoke about.
She agrees with this, but is unsure about randomly meeting a random guy perhaps from online. I can understand this.
We have agreed that we will keep fantasising about other guys during sex, especially this one guy (we did last night during rough love making, very hot!). She has insisted though, that although she does have the same reservations as me regarding sex or similar with the guy at work, she does really fancy him and does lust for him too, so would like to continue flirting.
I have agreed, as I do get aroused by this.
Today, she has gone to work with plenty of cleavage on show, along with red marks on her neck and chest from our sex last night, and is wearing crotchless knickers again, along with her 5 inch heels.
Very sexy looking, love it! Feel so lucky.
By posting on here, I feel a release, a sharing. Which is something I think I want to keep going. If anyone has any more thoughts, I'd love to hear them please, and any tips or experience is welcome.
Will post any more as and when if there is any interest?
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TedtheBellhop
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Keep sharing! Good stuff so far.
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bursting
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Thank you Ted.
Heard from her this morning, she and him bumped into each other, exchanged small talk whilst he kept staring down her top, and lots of smiles.
She is wearing open crotch knickers again today, and her big heels, wish I worked with her, I'd be so distracted!!!
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An update from this morning.
Again, nothing really I guess compared to many stories on here, but at least I know this is real, and its still quite a deal to me (and us).
As stated previously, this guy at her work is a lot more senior to her and works in a seperate part of the site so any meetings etc are random and/or fleeting.
I hear this morning that there is a very strong chance that in a few weeks time, that she may be working quite close with him, for an undetermined time. At least a few months it is thought, and she will probably speak to him and/or go to his office a few times a day.
I am excited and nervous at this development.
Any more thoughts on this from you guys?
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TedtheBellhop
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Sounds exciting! How's the anticipation?
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polako
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Keep us posted!!! Great story ;)
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bursting
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Anticipation is a bit manic actually. Keep telling myself to calm down. Few weeks yet, and besides, we both have our concerns regarding playing that close to home (or work). Suppose its a matter of seeing really. Part of me can see how much she likes this guy, and how much she wants him too. Where as the other part of me sees how sensible she can be and her shyness elsewhere. I'm thinking time will tell. Just need to go with it, that's what I'm telling myself, as long as we both keep talking and be honest, we should both be able to get something from it. Here's hoping!!!
Thanks for the views and the comments, really means a lot.
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johnny108
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The "manic" feeling is normal. I've felt it, too. An almost painfull need to speed things up, then short bursts of realization that makes you want to slow down and enjoy the moment, or even stop the action. Go with it- this is the ultimate in "going with the flow"- because it relies on so many other people. it is almost like a "zen" meditation at ground zero from a nuclear bomb! It will definately help you and your woman grow closer, and stronger. No one is emotionally stronger, or more secure than someone in this life- otherwise- this life would ******* them! Keep talking to your girl- let her develop her relationship, even if it is "close to home"- but help her to realize that it is an outside relationship- and that you and her are the "center". You have to keep your relationship with her strong. That means staying involved- being her best friend, pictures, everything. Have fun!!
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Thank you johnny. I am going away for a few days tomorrow with work. We spoke last night about her flirting this week. As yet, she has not seen the guy at work, but that can always change. I asked her if she is going to masturbate whilst I'm away. She asked if she was allowed, if I wanted her to. I said that if she wishes to touch herself, she must text me or ring me and ask for permission (we do this sometimes, switching roles, we find it fun). But she can only play if I say so. But I did say that I would allow her to be played with, and if someone else was to touch her, she would be permitted to cum, which she liked I added that I didn't mind if she did want to cum, and therefore went with someone else, but on the condition that she uses what I put in her purse the other week. She said "of course". I doubt she will do anything, but the thought is there at least, and she got very excited and turned on at me 'giving her permission' as it were. We'll see I guess, but a bit of fun all the same.
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cuckjay
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How much older is the guy Bursting?
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bursting
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I think he is about 15 years older. Why? Do you have any thought on this?
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This week has been fairly quiet, she's been very busy at work, no 'interaction' to speak of really. Rang her this morning and she mentions that she is feeling flirty today, and is wearing some of her crotchless knickers that I bought her, and is wearing a lower cut top for work too. I wish I was at home to see her.
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brisbanecuck
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Great situation with lots of potential. I'm sure it'll all go well for all three of you...
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bursting
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Glad you think so brisban.
Anyone any thoughts on progressing?
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Still away with work.
Rang her tonight. The guy came to her office today, for a form he could have printed off in hiss office. Smiled a lot and chatted, she says he was looking at her cleavage a lot all the time.
She liked it.
He brought it back for her, again, he could have sent it back via computer. Similar as earlier, chatting, smiles and looking at her£
Again, she liked it.
Tried encouraging her a bit, but that's all she reports from today.
Is anyone still interested in my situation? Or am I just typing to get it off my chest?
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Peter C
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Of course we're interested! I following your thread with interest - I love these real-life situations. Peter C
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bursting
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Thanks Peter.
Means a lot to know that I'm not alone and/or just typing to air my thoughts.
Really love the feedback and thoughts/suggestions.
Should I try and move the game on?
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She has been shopping today, she tells me on the phone.
She's been looking for some 'sexy black heels' as she put it. I said that I look forward to seeing these, as I love her in high heels.
She says that these are for work only really. She hasn't bought heels 'just for work' before, certainly not 'sexy black' ones.
Lucky work colleagues is all I know!
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Peter C
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bursting: Should I try and move the game on? No. Let your wife set the pace here, which she seems to be doing anyway. The guy at the office seems a bit slow and tentative, but it looks to me as if she is seducing him bit by bit with the low-cut tops and high heels. I'm sure all the other guys at work are loving what she wears and I bet they all fancy her. I like the fact that she is carrying condoms that you gave her. I find that particularly horny. I bought my wife a pack of 3 when she first dated a new guy and was shocked when she used them all in the first evening. I'd like her to carry them now, but she's worried one of the kids will spot them in her handbag! Peter C
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Thank you Peter, for your thoughts.
I think you are right. There are a few guys that she says 'look' at her quite a lot, and of these, she says that she really fancies 3 of them.
Our sex talk and fantasy stuff revolves around her fucking them all, the main guy being the one I've been on about though, as she wants him more.
I love her being looked at, love it so much. Makes me hard just typing this about it.
She's a sexy young little thing, and the thought of her on her knees infront of an older, much more senior guy turns us both on.
Any tips on boosting her 'flirting and teasing' of these guys at work?
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Bursting
Great situation you are in. I agree with the advises herein that you should not push too hard. Let her set her own schedule. You seemss to enjoy every bit of it, and I guess that is part of it all
I used to be married to a hotwife. We married very young, and it all developed over time. It's more than 30 years ago when we started it all, and later it just became a natural part of our relation: she fucked guys she fancied - and told me all later
Now, I am about to marry a stunner of a woman. In the beginning of our relation, she was a bit shocked over my fantacies. She has become more and more relaxed about it all, and now it is a common thing to chat about during sex. She sometimes tease me about it outside bed as well: which most often ends up in very hot sex
My fantsay has become hers, and during all these talking: the frames are set well. She knows exactly what criteria I would accept. Nobody that may spread roumers about this (i.e. one she trust 100% or a complete stranger). No feelings - just pure sex. Total openness about it all. No staying with lovers for hours and hours - or days: just fuck and come back to me. More she being alone with them, but also (maybe - and if she would fancy this more) in same flat/room
Now she gets really wet when we talk about it all. Last week, I asked her while having sex, to promise me that she very soon would fuck sombody and take this all a step further. She was sitting on me: she whipered: oh yes my love...I asked her again: she more loudly repeaated YES. Again (I was so close to coming, and she moved faster and faster) I asked: she started to cum and screamed: Oh babe - yes - yes - yes. We both came very hard...
Any woman will have the idea that the man wants her to do such things in order to give him the 'right/freedom' to fuk other girls. She is now convinced that in our case, this is not what I want (and this is a giant step forward).
I am travelling a lot, and have given her the freedom of having lovers while I am out of town. She asked me a couple of days ago how I would react if she sent me and sms while I was alone: would I be able to concentrate at all on my work. I was thinking about this for a while: and honsetly - I probably could not (I would probably ask a lot of detailed questions and would have visited any toilet for rapid mastrubation whereever and whenever possible). I told her this, and further: that she is still allowed to fuck as she wants, but that she maybe better tell me when we are together again in bed. 'So please my love - keepp it a secret for me for some days'. She really was turned on about this too...
We have several commoon fantasies:
1) we are on holiday: she meets this young guy that lives in the same hotel: she go to him as often as she wants for a couple of hours - then return to me and pleasure me by telling all details 2) we have a visitor - we sit talk and take. He makes a pass on her. She is in some sexy cloths. They dance...he kiss her...start feeling her up...then they are off to our bedroom. The storry re[peats itself many times before he leave. We spend the rest of the night fucking like rabits 3) she gets together with a younger lover she have home while I travel 4) there is an older business man that call her every time he visit our city. And he use her as his regular slut
I have asked her which one is her favourit: the holiday one she say, and have added some scenarios where the guy also comes to our room, and I will be on the veranda while they fuck
Now, when she is shopping: the cloths she buy is more and more sexy: see-true, shorter, more open, higher heels. Just so sexy. I never asked her if it's a part of her plan (and maybe she don't know as it could be subconiouness) as I don't want to push too hard.
I liked the part with the condoms. I will bring that up with her next time we are in bed fantacising about it all. "babe, I want to buy you some condoms just to make the whole thing more real. It would really be a turn on if you always carried such wherever you go. Just so I know that just that part would not be an excuse. And maybe it would make you feel more slutty everytime you see them there/or just by knowing that you carry such" (we never use - actually: when we met we used it some times before we trusted eachother. As far as I know, this has been her rutine with men before me too. So, the last 4 years: she has not used. It could be a new experience for her. I definetly will give her this. And I will buy her XXL just to give her a hint
Anyway: she is getting along here - and I start to get this uneasy feeling too now - because, we are over the point of no return - that is: I could never stop this now (it would make me feel like an idiot - and I am affraid it would lower me in her eyes)
About the 15 years senior of the guy your wife is fancying: that's now age difference. That just sexy
Sorry for so long text...hope you all take the time to read
. A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women
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