Dead Cock at 47 - Anyone have same problem?

I'm 47, have a sexy wife that can go all night and my dick is dead. I mean dead. It's gotten smaller over the last few years and hard-ons are very rare. I suppose I maybe normal, then again some guys I know are not like this?

yep, thing obession with this thought doesn't help

thst sound just like me

47 sounds kind of young to lose that much - you might want to talk to your doc about it.

This isn't a medical information forum.

so does your wife tease and humiliate you?.......good thing for a cuckold to be like this.

Where are you located ?

Perhaps you need some variety. As you get older, you get jaded by the same old things. Push the envelope.
In my 50s and still squirting at least once a day out of my little penis.

Same here. While I wank myself daily, at least once, and fairly frequently twice or thrice per day, my penis, which in my youth was quite respectable (causing one girlfriend to refer to me as "big"), now is like one inch long flaccid. I also had the experience of starting a new relationship with a woman at 35, and having great, no-problem sex with her for two years. Then at 42 started another relationship, and discovered that all of a sudden, I had an E.D. problem. Which then simply got worse and worse over the following decade. I don't have the luxury now of starting something with a woman other than my wife to know if the excitement of a new woman would help. Unfortunately, my wife cut me off completely sexually 1.5 years ago, due to the fact that I could never satisfy her. I'm glad I'm not the only one.

Correction to "txperv": Yes, this IS a medical information forum!

I'm 53 and I have noticed my erections become less frequent, not as firm and quick to subside. I can still get hard enough for penetrative sex, so my wife doesn't consider it a problem, but it is something that does play on my mind alittle.

I am about to embark on an affair, so it will be interesting to see if my penis is up to it.
Peter C

Older age has a way I guess of fucking us up.Our bodies just seem to go downhill slowly. I work out and keep in good shape, yet this smaller non hard dick sucks. It's worse when the wife is still hot and younger and has a big flower wanting lots of action. The variety comment above was the best I read ... it does help.

Ok who knows the post ED solution or medication?

There are excercises you can do to strengthen your erection, they are known as kegels, you know when your urinating and you try to stop, the muscle that you tighten to do that is the same muscle that holds the red in the penis when its erect, if you practice flexing this for 5-10 minutes a day it might help improve your condition, google "kegel's" as I'm sure there are people who will explain it much better than me

I turned into a limp dick also in my mid 40s. Now my wife masturbates while I kiss her ass. And I don't ask questions when she goes out on her own.

Are you getting any relaxing/noctrinal) erections? If not, you should go to a doc and get your redwork done and a PSA test/prostate physical exam asap.

Have him run your testosterone and free testosterone, growth hormone, T3, T4 hormones and PSA (Prostate marker) to ensure you do not have an endocrine disorder or prostate issue. If all check out normal, have your tried Viagara and confirm you are able to get an erection .. if yes, then it's not a physical block but probably a mental and/or hormonal issue.

You can try taking synthetic GH (at reamisterable and responsible dosing, not like bodybuilders) and Test. Try it for like 8 weeks and see if you get any improvement. If you do, then you know it's probably hormonal.

To get an erection try this....get on all fours and get your wife behind you, she grabs your balls and ballsack and pulls back as far as she can whilst you try and masturbate your cock.....it works for me when wife lets me out of my cage. Let me know if it works for you.
Or go see your doc, i prefer cialis to viagra, it lasts longer, not affected by food or holy water either, I also have a penis pump, i can pump my clitty cock up to 8" with this, and you can just keep slipping it on and pumping up....best of luck

I don't know...I'm 52 and still going strong. I've always been rather "well endowed" - not comic book big - but enough for the hookers to coo:
"Oooh, you got a big one". And once I was bangin' my friend's trashy sister when she goes:
"I fucked niggaz and everythin', but you got the biggest dick I ever seen!"

Anyways, I always get the babes to dress for me; garter belt, stockings and high heels minimum. I dress for them, too - always have on my trusty cockring. And a little Viag doesn't hurt, especially after a few bottles of wine. My current love-doll likes a real womb knocker -deep and hard- so I always make like the boyscouts; "be prepared".

To sum it up, I guess I'm still as big as ever, and on the plus side, I can last all night, which I never could when I was younger. So maybe you need to work on "setting the stage" a little more instead of just pulling it out and expectin' to be Long Dong Silver.

Remember it has nothin' to do with ur pecker; it's all in the mind.

Who have this problem?