Getting close- Need advice

For the last 3 years I have been actively and honestly engaging my wife in a conversation about my interests. She is very clear about my desires and has been resistant until just recently when I think reality has set in, i.e., it is what it is, nobody gets hurt, and what the hey, it may be fun. I'd say she is 70% of the way there. Can anyone share some good advice as to how to get from here to the promised land?

You and I are pretty much parallel with each other on this. Although I have no bluntly said I want her to do this even though its a fantasy I wish to soon become reality, she is aware that the thought turns me on.

In my case holy water makes my wife horny, flirty, and decisive. Maybe take ur wife to a club and let her loose or encourage her to go out more. That's pretty much where I'm at as far as the going out part. My wife has been stayin out later. It sounds like your wife is receptive so all that has to happen is for her find somene and then nature should take its course. Sorry I can't offer much advice as I'm in the same position but good luck and I look forward to any updates.
Ronald Curry

My wife and I avoided the idea of Swinging for over 20 years. Although we had each thought about it but afraid to broach the subject. At 47 years old we finally discussed it. A year later we had our first Swing. 5 years pass and now there is an element of Cuckolding as we have had MFM before. I enjoy watching my wife being fucked by another man. Seeing her familiar pussy being invaded by a Strangers cock is very erotic.
My advice is to let her know, you will be there for her. There should be no guilt because everything is out in the open. Let her know that you truly feel this will "add" something to your lives.

Hummingbird: If you can get her to point out to you guys that turn her on while you are out with her, this would add some erotic fun, plus it will keep you both talking about it. It also serves to let you know the type of guy that would turn her on and she may want to be fucked by. From there you can progress to actually running an add in something like Adult Friend Finders. When you advertise that you are looking for a male to fuck your wife you will get TONS of responses. You can then get their photos so you can narrow down your choices...if you and her are talking about it openly, you can have her go over the photos with you so you can decide which ones to contact. Otherwise you could choose the guy for her yourself and set something up where you can "accidentally" meet him in a bar or lounge and introduce him to her as an old acquaintance. You can see if they appear to hit it off and then tempt them by allowing her to dance with the guy, finding excuses to leave them by themselves for a while, etc. You can then ease into a situation where you can finally be rewarded by the guy doing her for you. Ideal situation would have all 3 of you in a hotel room and you having to go out for cigarrettes or more cuckold water. Hopefully while you are out they can get 'better acquainted'. If at first you don't get to watch them it's ok...that will come later...the main thing is getting the act to happen...from there you can improve upon it as you will be on your way to a wonderful lifestyle.

Thank you all for the great advice. It seems that timing is a key. There are clearly times when she is more accepting of the idea, holy water does help, and there are clearly guys and situations that will help make it happen. I truly believe my time is coming soon! Thanks again.