Why not just marry the Right Woman for the job?

I see a lot of posts from men who wish their wives would cuckold them. But Studies show that a large portion of woman fool around but keep it a secret. Those who are caught usually end up divorced from their narrow-minded husbands. Has anyone tried to seek an adulterous divorcee as a spouse. Since they already have a leaning toward cheating why not marry one and give them carte blanche.
It seems it would be better to marry a known cheater than to try to train a wife to cheat if she isn't inclined.
just a thought

Valid point.

Yes. But it also just seems easier, if you are not yet attached, to simply be up front about your fetish and lifestyle interests. Date and marry a woman interested in and/or open to cuckolding you and it seems to me you increase your chances of having the experience by several orders of magnitude.
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thanks for breaking a 4 year silence

The woman who is the love of my life I met six months after she was divorced from her husband of 21 years for cheating on him. This excited me very much when she told me on the night we met, hoping since she cheated maybe just maybe she could cuckold me. I kept it to myself and started dating her. After a few weeks we were fantasizing and I told her of my cuckold desires and while using a large dildo on her confessing to her how hot it would be for her to bring "dates" home. She found it to be a huge turn on and came with me describing how excited and hot it would make me. We talked about it for 6 months with both of us very turned on, me to be a cuckold, her to have sexual freedom and not worry about me getting angry or jealous because of it.

We moved in and on the 4th night of living together, she said she wanted to go to a bar by herself. I was very excited but told her she should only do it if she wanted to. She called me and text me through out the evening. Finally at 2am she text and told me she was having breakfast with a stranger and she would come home and tell me all about it. About 2:30am she text me and told me "don't wait up. thank you. I love you" I came in about 12 seconds! She came home about 8:30am still takes and not in the mood to talk. I was so disappointed.

About 4 days later she called me at work. Told me as she was unpacking a box, she found some things that belonged to ex lover of hers, and would I mind if she called him to get these things to him. I told no I would not mind and to call him. She then told me thank you and that she knew I would be ok with her calling him, then asked me what time I got off work, I told her about 7pm she said wait to come home until 7:30pm. She had told me all about him, that he was very well endowed and she loved fucking him. When I got home she was wearing one of my shirts and her hair was wet. She gave me a very passionate kiss, took my hand and led me to the bedroom when she did something she had always refused, she sat on my face. As I ate her she told me all about her fucking her exboyfriend in our bed.

Now for the bad part. She felt tremendous guilt and because of me being excited about being a cuckold and not getting mad or angry she quit talking to me. This is what i could not handle. We broke up, she married the exboyfriend. She also still calls me since she says I am the only man who understands her and I am her best friend. Even when she cheated on her now husband she called me and confessed. I asked her why she called me upset she told me because I love you not my husband, and I feel like I cheated on you not him.

I met an adulterous woman, fell in love with her knowing she would cheat on me. She did! My luck is she did not want to be a cuckoldress.

jessicatr99:

It's not always easy to find a woman predisposed to cheat, though, unless you know someone getting a divorce...and why. Most people keep that sort of info quiet. Besides, as cuckdesire points out, she may be cheating for reamisters other than cuckolding.

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I've met an adulterous women half a year ago. She broke up with her lover (after giving him a farewellfuck in the first week we were together) We started a relation. She broke up a week before Christmass. I told her everything abut my cuckoldfeelings. But she disposed me anyway. So it's no garantee.

To me it's like going out with a modest or shy woman: don't expect that she will want to go to a nude beach for example.

I had posted something related to this about 1 1/2 years ago titled False Expectations:

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/7_56218_1.html


have a nice weekend everyone,

tracy

I've asked myself this question many times...I suspect, it's tough to bring this topic up at first...Especially if you are interested in this permister - don't want to scare them off...At any rate, I'm on wife #2...If there is a Wife #3 She will know all about this before I take that plunge again.

hmmmmmmmmm....

cuckolding is a sexual game, and I think that chosing a wife on thet basis that she used to fuck others while married before is kind of a too weak basis for a marriage

a marriage is soo much more

of course, if two women loved you, and you loved them both back....you could probably give such experience some weight in the final decission

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A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Norwegian is correct in stating:

"cuckolding is a sexual game, and I think that chosing a wife on thet basis that she used to fuck others while married before is kind of a too weak basis for a marriage."


What I am saying however, that bringing out to the forefront the parts and elements of your needs is important. What a relationship is of course is a big negotiation, and I just happen to think things ought to be open and on the table in the beginning.