Hopefully on our way...

This is my first post. I've been interested in cuckolding since my first girlfriend in high school, but nothing ever came of it. Now I've found the love of my life, and I think I may yet convince her to go out and get fucked.

Some background on her: She had one other boyfriend before me. I'm 6.5" uncut, and she considers me to have a "huge dick" (her words). She swears that she could never be with anyone else and that I'm the only man for her; also, she claims introducing another partner into sex will never happen. However, during sex, we've fantasized about group sex (mostly ffm, occasionally mmf and once or twice gangbang). While fucking, she is fairly dirty. She is submissive and loves dirty talk, especially when it's degrading to her. edit: I forgot to mention, I am 23 and she is 24.

Why I hold out hope: The last time we had sex was after I had been reading posts on here for several days. I decided to surprise her. When we started our foreplay, I asked her what her boyfriend would think of how dirty she is with me (in other words, I pretended to be a man she cheats with). She started talking about how her boyfriend would think she was a dirty slut, etc. Then it got even more interesting, as I told her I had a bigger cock than her boyfriend's and asked her if she wanted it. She practically begged. Once I was fucking her, I told her that I wanted her to tease men and get them hard when she goes to clubs for "girls' nights." She said that she already does. Then I told her I wanted her to feel their cocks and do whatever she wants with them. She came hard and then wanted to be on top (which I love). Also, for the first time, when she was on top, she told me what to do, telling me she was the boss and I had to do what she said.

Granted, a lot of this happened in the heat of the moment and should be taken with a grain of salt, but she's definitely doing and saying things she has never said in the three years we've been dating. I'm really hoping we're heading towards cuckolding, because I have never been anything but confident of her love for me, and I trust her to seek physical fulfillment while still being my girl.

Thoughts?

This all sounds very promising, but don't rush things or use this scenario every time you make love. With my wife, it started with me pretending a realistic-looking dildo I was using on her was a real guy, a pop star I knew she fancied or a stranger she'd met in a club. This planted the seed, just as you have done. The hard bit will be convincing your girlfriend that you are serious about allowing her to sample new cocks. She may think that you can't possibly love her if you're willing to let her be fucked by other men or your fetish may just be too weird for her to contemplate outside of the bedroom.

Take it slow as I did with my wife. It took a good 2 years of role-play, talking, persuasion and encouragement before my wife finally gave in to temptation and went out on a date with a customer from the shop she worked in. I unearthed her penchant for younger men and by chance this guy was 23. It was probably a case of the right guy at the right time, but the day after her 35th birthday he took her for takes after work, then back to his flat where he quickly stripped her naked and fucked her 3 times.
Peter C

Thanks. I will definitely keep in mind not to rush things. I was planning to go back to this fantasy pretty often, as it's one that did it for both of us, but I'll try to be patient, though it's hard (no pun intended). We'll see what happens and I'll definitely update if there's anything to add.

Definately go with what Peter says about taking it slow. Maybe only every couple times you two have sex. Let her bring it up next time. It is very possible to over-persue this. I should know...I have, and still do at times. Although I have been able to dial it back a lot easier, I understand how hard it is to not bring it up often.

I think you have her going in the right direction, maybe go out and get a dildo for her, one that is bigger than you. Introduce it into your love making, (as one other member on the forum suggested to me "TedtheBellhop"), blindfold her and make a story about her BF fucking her with his bigger cock. I think you get the picture.

Good luck.

I'd tend to agree with Allen and Peter.

I'm in a similar situation if you care to read my thread:

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/6_68420_1.html

A couple of realistic Black dildos will help her enjoy the feeling of being degraded and used for sex like a white slut should!