Question to my fellow cucks

I have been interested for a long time in the cuckold lifestyle however it hasnt been until recently that during sex between my wife and I that ive noticed her enjoying her 'toy'. We really dont have sex often (maybe 2-3 times a month) and we have role played her toy being another man before. Maybe its just me but it seems like she is into it more lately. during it she tells me that she loves me watching. Then after she gets off, she wants me to jump in. Last night she even told me how wet she was with his cum. This could all just be part of the role playing but the past couple times we have had sex has started with her toy. What are your thoughts? Thanks in advance.

my wife does similar things when we role play and we use a dildo. she likes to take the dildo and use it on herself while i watch. she will tell me how good "his" cock feels and how much bigger he is. i ask her if she will let him come inside her pussy. she always says yes i want your come in my pussy. after my wife comes she lets me lick heer pussy to get his come out. its great fun.

imasub:

Talk to her more about this idea. Maybe sugest a visit to a local swing club that permits single men? Even if you don't play on your first trip, it will help set the tone and open her mind to the thought of taking another cock in real life.

Best wishes!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

I second what cuckold4one says. Let us know how it goes.

you could simply ask if she ever thought of having se4x with another man while you are role playing.

All very good suggestions that I will definitely try out. There was one time we almost did go to a swingers club to just watch but we never got the nerve to go. At least I know she is open to the idea of going to one. I will try bringing up the idea again.

It seems to me the key question is whether your wife is fantasizing that the dildo is another man or not when she uses it. It is not necessarily obvious that this is so. I think you need to ask her about it - sincerely and in an after the fact conversation, not the heat of the encounter - she knows you're into cucking, so she is liable to say yes if she wants to turn you on. You need to discuss it in an honest, "what do you think about; I want to know what turns YOU on" way.

If she is fantasizing about another man, than the question I would ask is whether it is a specific other man (former boyfriends are popular) or not. (Make sure she is comfortable enough to be straight with you on this.) It is useful to know this even if the other man/men she is fantasizing about are not achievable as lovers in real life. For one thing, if she is fantasizing about a real permister that is a significant step closer to being open to cucking you than if it is just a vague, completely imagined dream lover (especially if it is someone from her real life and not a celebrity of some kind). Also, it gives you some useful insight into what her "type" is in lovers. (You do not know this. It is not likely that her type when it comes to this kind of lover is anything like what she saw in you as husband material.)

If she is not fantasizing about another man when she uses the dildo, or only about a very abstracted fairy tale of a man, you have longer to go to get her to cucking you (if you can). In that case I suggest two tracks: Encourage her to roleplay that it is another man when she uses the dildo (everytime if you can) to the point where it is your standard sex life. Tell her it is a way to include you, or whatever you need to, but try to focus her on the idea of cuckolding as she gets herself off. For the second track, engage her in conversation about what her fantasy lover is like and what she thinks would be hot in a lover. Push the conversation to people she knows - are they hot in that way?; is there something about them that is hot? The goal is to identify one or two real people she can use in the roleplay talk/fantasizing.

It is still a big step from fantasizing about fucking someone other than you to her actually doing it. But this is like suicides planning the act, if you'll pardon the analogy. The more concrete and frequent the imagining, the more open she will grow to the actualization - even if the actualization doesn't closely follow the initial fantasy script. (i.e. It is not really with the guy/guys she has been fantasizing about, but with another guy she also finds hot.)

For what it's worth, that's the kind of approach my experience as a cuckold suggests. Good luck in your adventure!
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When my wife and I first started fantasizing with a life-like dildo I nicknamed the dildo by an ex-boyfriend's name whom she had told me had a big cock and used to satisfy her throroughly. It evolved from there to her trying the real thing with a guy at work. Try it.

If you get another larger life-like black dildo, she can play with both at the same time.

A woman can easily handle two dicks at the same time and enjoy them.

She may already be cheating. If she seems more open and better in bed; that is a clue. My wife was sucking my cock and I asked her "when did you get so good?" She told me "practice", smiled and kept going. Trust me, she was not practicing on me!
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Hi everyone,
Sorry for the time away. Figured id update where things are. Basically we are at the point where she spent today looking through swinger clubs and through permisteral ads for single men. We were chatting while i was at work and she said i could watch him fuck her and then she can suck me off. she asked if it was turning me on and i said yes. Now im not sure if she is serious or just messing around. Anyways, thats where we are at. hopefully she finds something she likes

We are creating an account on a swingers site right now. Looking for fun for her.

imasub2000 - Good luck to you. My story is posted above in this same forum, check it out maybe you can get some ideas. My wife and I have accounts on swinglifestyle and on ashleymadimister. Aprils second fuck in the hotel was a guy from AM, just so you know.

I think you need to be really honest with her and I don't agree with the other posters. I remember telling April in the middle of me fucking her with a Big dildo, she was hot and creamy all over it and we were acting like it was someone else and I looked at her and told her " I really wish this was a real guy fucking you right now" she got extremely turned on and we fucked and played all night talking about it. The only other step I ttok was the next morning over coffee and breakfast I just told her I wasn;t joking last night... She gave me that funny look and asked really? I think we talked for hours about the fantasy and my likes and dislikes and my extremes. That is when she knew I wanted more than just the fantasy and we fucked all day that day, it was a great door opener from fantasy to possible reality. Read my posts above in this forum and you will see where we are today.

Once again, Good luck!
I want to watch my wife get absolutely used and creampied by a huge cock

Hi everyone, I thought it was time for me to update and see what you guys think. So since the last time ive posted, she has started talking to this guy a lot. At first he seemed a little aggressive. Not in a bad way but sex was all he was talking about and that in a way was a little too much. I guess she wanted to more or less ease into it. However, they have continued to communicate and it seems to be on a daily basis for the most part. They even talk via email at work. He sent pics, g-rated and x-rated. she has sent G rated but not x yet however, he asked last night and she seriously considered taking some (im VERY surprised). ANyways, so last night he really had her going. she told me how wet she was talking to him. When we went to bed, she had me using her dildo on her for a while. Eventually she turned over doggie and wanted me to have my turn....well while we were doing that she called out his name a couple times. I was so turned on. she said it was awesome sex. Today she told me he wants to meet us next week just for some takes and maybe some teasing. Right now im pretty involved however I have let things progress between the two without interference. It seems she is into this guy but I guess thats to be seen. Anyways, so thats where things stand.

wow you are a lucky guy sounds like your soon be the cuck you wont to be , keep us updated on this as its getting hotter
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definitely will keep you all up to date. She is telling me now about their conversations...wow. She just told me that he asked if they could play alone too. She said she didnt know but that I would probably be turned on if she came home full of cum. He is fixed so that could really happen. Really hard right now...

I just found out we are going to meet on Wed night, just to get acquainted and mess around a little to see how things go. She already said no sex at first...she just wants to see how things go. She did ask me if I was sure I wanted to do this and I replied by asking if she did. She said yes. So it sounds like shes into this guy.

I think it's time for an update. Please!!!

Update

Ok, so that first night fell through as he ended up in the hospital. Now on the upside, she still has been contacting him...A LOT. they have been talking about things even other than sex. she just told me that we are getting a hotel room. Im so excited. she even was dirty talking me at work...as if i was her bitch and if i wanted to watch her f another man. she even told me she wanted to watch me clean her up afterwards. Seem like im getting really close now....

So heres where we are. She has been talking to a number of guys. She said she might have found the one. He just had his 26th birthday (she is 38). She asked if she could find a sitter for the kids, if we could meet him for takes on Friday. I said sure. She then threw me off by asking me "Wouldnt it be hot if i went out and came home full of his cum?" I said it would be very hot! She did say she couldnt do that since he isnt fixed nor is she. The first guy she was talking to is fixed so who knows...

Anyhow, she has been so turned on lately and talks every night to these guys while im here watching tv.

good luck

she showed me a pic of the 26 yr old. The guy is somewhat built and she seems to really like him. I pretty sure we are meeting him tomorrow night. Its funny but she switched sitters from one who can watch the kids for the evening to one that can watch the kids overnight.... i know originally she wasnt planning on doing anything the first night but im starting to think otherwise. Shes been texting him a lot and smiling a lot doing so...i havent a clue what they are talking about (well i have an idea but no specifics).

Make sure you are with her and make sure you get to know him to, because first and foremost you have to make sure she is safe. It is like this with anyone you don't know. No matter what your fantasies - or actions - if you both want this and you both care for each other, your first responsibility is to make absolutely sure that whoever you and she meets is sane and clean and trustworthy.

In this regard, you must forget the sub part of your being. You'll have plenty of time for that too, I am very sure. After you get to know him.

That being said, the most dangerous men will be the ones who pass the test. You'll find out just how sub you are, and she just may discover how much fun sex is with someone other than you.

You'll never find that out with an asshole, because hopefully, you will be a Man when you meet an asshole, and end it at the beginning.

But you will find it with someone who she starts to like for more than just sex. That will probably be someone you both like at first, and who she will like for a long time.

It can be really fun. And really scary. Often at the same time.

Good luck.

Thanks for the info! we have talked about wanting more than just the sex. we want it to be with someone we can trust. I definitely dont want to put her in any kind of danger or anything like that, so i will be there for sure. We have also talked about it as more of a supplement to our love life not a replacement.

she was texting with the 26 yr old and i believe we are meeting with him tonight. Im a little nervous but then again im always nervous meeting new people...lol

On our way to meet hI'm now.

sooo, im home...not sure if anyone is reading this...haven't heard anything back....

anyways, she got fucked in the back of the car while i was in the front seat. He came all over her breasts. they cleaned up but when we got home, i had my turn. gave her oral and finally finished. omg...it was so hot. they are definitely going to go at it again..next time she is bringing home. I guess my only grip is that i found out she met him once before...though we discussed it all and all is well.

and they fucked that last time?

Cant wait to hear more

Sounds like you are having a great time!!
Any chance for a few pics?
You could always tell the wife "it pays to advertise"- we would LOVE to see her sweet ass spreading for her stud!!