happier with fucking/not fucking?

i will say though while my wife is pretty casual with her kitty shes fucked guys just because she says its impossible for her to have guy friends guys get bold around her just a thing i guess. im not premitted to fuck anyone but her she will not allow it gets extremely jelus. we talked about it i enjoy watching her fuck and be intimate with other guys she loves to have sex were a good match. i figure were about average cuck hotwife coulpe. im married to a very frisky woman

Browning, that sounds very similar to me and mrs two - except I am caged. Her sex drive is much higher than mine, so she keeps me caged and gets her cock elsewhere if she can. When she can't, or when she needs to feel close to me, she unlocks me...

mr two

I am still allowed inside Anne but when I am inside her I increasingly feel guilty, like it's something I shouldn't be doing. It feel so good but part of me wishes she would see her boyfriend more often and just cut me off. I don't know how I could ever cope with that but her using me to cum and knowing someday I might be denied being inside her forever sometimes feels worse.

I wish she would cut me off and just make me deal with it: cry it out, get used to the idea, whatever. She likes sex too much to give it up although we have planned for her to ask her boyfriend what I should get and if he said I was to be cut off we are both pretty sure she would do it because it would be so much of a turn on.

There is NO need for a cuckold hubby to ever fuck. The wife’s sex life should not be part of the marriage. Once a hubby becomes a cuckold, he should never again be able to fuck. NEVER! His days of fucking must end when the cuckolding starts. No turning back. There are few things hotter that the wife, the wife’s lover, and the cuckold hubby all knowing that for the rest of hubby’s married life, he will NEVER again know what it feels like to fuck. It’s also pretty darn cool when some family members and/or friends know that hubby no longer fucks. It’s fun to imagine that as hubby grows too old to fuck, he looks back and reminisces with his spouse about the many years that he missed fucking while Real Men were fulfilling his husbandly duties between his spouse’s legs.

I guess that when a wife locks the cookie jar on hubby, she performs a de facto penectomy on him. Same with chastity devices. A man who's wife isn't giving him any, and/or a man with his penis locked in a CB; is essentially a "dickless dude"! He enjoys his enpowerd chastity. She enjoys the knowledge that hubby's prick is equally as irrelevant to him or anyone else as it is to her.

Judging by the popularity of CB devices, it seems that more cuckolds and their wives would opt for penis removal rather than castration. The total intensity of impotence and offense that a real cunt wife can inflict on a cockless cuck would be off the charts!

Maybe a lot of hubbies happier with not fucking would appreciate the performance pressures that a penectomy might resolve in their marriage.


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MUCH HAPPIER NOT FUCKING EVER AGAIN !!

This is a really interesting thread to read. It's apparent that there are many flavors of cuckolding, whether fantasy or real. I love the fantasy, and I love when my wife denies me orgasm. I love when she pretends to be with other men and makes me use toys on her. I especially enjoy being tied to the bed or chair while she gives herself orgasms in front of me. But I'm glad it's just fantasy. My wife is such a sexy woman. She loves sex and is really good at turning me on and keeping me turned on. I love eventually getting to cum in her and wouldn't trade it for anything. We just finished up our summer sex holiday where the kids go away and we stay home for 2 weeks and just have sex. I'll bet she gave me 30 orgasms easily during just that time, and that's with all the denial factored in. She must have cum At least that mant times or more. She was horny and wet, and kept me horny and aching the whole 2 weeks. I can't imagine having missed that amount of delicious pleasure, and I feel really bad for any man who genuinely wishes they could get more sex. I still like to tease them in spite though and I'll keep writing captions to that effect.

my husband is dominant over me and has always said he prefers jacking off to me with other men rather than fucking me himself and powering me to fuck other guys.

This thread doesn't exactly fit the "basic" cuckold folder, does it? To me, denial is certainly "advanced cuckoldry". It took me almost a year to realize that I wanted my girlfriend to cut me off. That was a year into her having regular sex with my former housemate. He was clearly much better in bed than I was. My girlfriend wouldn't admit that she felt that he was better overall, but eventually surrendered that she liked his cock better than mine, that he fucked her better and that she would prefer to have sex with him should she have to choose.

I just wanted to give up the competition. My performance had gone down the drain ever since I watched him fuck her the first time (twice) and I felt that I was taking more than I deserved. Then again, I so much loved the feeling of my dick floating in her stretched cum-filled pussy and feared the idea of having to give that up. Many times, I promised myself beforehand that I would just let them have sex but each time she came back to me with I couldn't restrain myself. I couldn't do it, not without her help. And that meant I needed to ask her, I had to ask her to not allow me in her afterwards. That felt that this was the strangest, most bizarre thing to ask and I couldn't get myself to raise the question.

Not until that point when it was just unavoidable. I was quite nervous when I did, and asked if she wanted to have sex with him only for some time. She said yes, even before asking why. We talked about it and to my surprise she said that she had wanted to ask me too, but was reluctant for she didn't want to disappoint me.

Anyhow, that's how we progressed into denial. It was amazing, especially to still have sex but without actual penetration.

I encouraged and let my wife fuck anyone she wanted, but I made it clear I wanted to fuck her afterwards and hear all the details while doing so. We had three rules I laid down when I married her: 1. we never say 'no' to each other, if either wants sex, we do it; 2. if we fuck someone else, we tell; and 3. we never fight in front of our youngren; we always take it private. I wanted the same freedom to fuck other women, but once she got the hang of things, she fucked alot more men than i did women. But then she started breaking our rules. Eventually she got to the point where she said we would have no more sex 'because it gives you too much power.' I promptly divorced her and put her out. Now, my question is, does this mean I was not cucked? That I'm not a cuck just because I DO have a high sex drive and I DO expect to fuck my slutty wife as often as I can? Who says cucks can't have sex with others, that only the woman gets to? She used to talk about humiliating me by dating other men in view of our friends and her family and how she was going to 'fuck this town'. That talk would make me hard as a rock and we'd fuck for hours. But I guess by some people's definitions I'm not a cuck?

Did she also start fighting in front of the youngren? lol

Fucking is an unnatural chore for a cuck. The art of fucking is best left to a true professional … a REAL MAN !!! A cuckold hubby just doesn’t really know what to do with a pussy so it’s best for him to just stay away.

Since puberty I have been very submissive when I am around women, especially if I am attracted and lusting for her. I always see myself worshipping them, especially kneeling down and kissing their asses. As I got older, I had plenty of dates (because outside the bedroom I am an attractive and successful man). Some dates resulted in intimacy which was always a disaster. My penis would not get hard. I would leak precum like crazy because my lust levels were high. I wanted to be strong and masculine and receive the great pleasure of fucking. But, I always ended up on my knees licking their pussies and assholes.

The couple of relationships I had that included fucking, my partner cheated on me regularly. I kept denying to myself that it was happening. Then, while she was gone, I would sniff her panties and jack off to images of her fucking other men. I was becoming a submissive cuckold in my mind. Neither woman could cum from fucking me. I always had to lick them to orgasm.

In between each relationship, I spent several years living alone. That was all jackoff time except for the few “lucky” dates that resulted in intimacy. Same erection problems. The woman would give me one or two chances and then move on to other men. It seems they wanted more than just licking.

I met my wife about 15 years ago. She is very beautiful and very oversexed. She’d gone through a hard breakup and was hurting emotionally. This was my lucky break. As we dated, she confided in me that she loves fucking well hung black men and was married to one a few years before. I confided in her my sexual problems and admitted to having a small penis. I was so clueless about what it takes to fuck properly that even then I hadn’t truly known how tiny my penis was.

She found my need to worship a woman interesting. She was especially interested in my desire to worship her asshole. I told her if we went back to her place I would spend the entire night worshipping her asshole, which is exactly what I did. When I took my pants off, she giggled and said I had the smallest penis and testicles she had ever seen. It stayed as small as a button all night long, except for leaking precum.

A year later we were married. She made it clear she would never fuck me. She became addicted to my worshipping her asshole. She said she could never fuck a man with such a tiny penis and with her ass scent all over my face she was turned off to sex with me. I indulged her in every way and agreed (in fact insisted) that she fuck other men. She agreed and we were married.

Here we are 15 years later and I have never had sex with her except to worship her and especially keep her asshole clean. I’ve tried a few times to fuck her but she was very strong willed about it and refused me. She simply has no arousal at all when she is with me. She has much as said she views me like our neutered dog. Love but no lust. On the other hand, she puts her well used panties under my pillow (I relax in a separate room). If I beg her, she will almost always indulge my need to clean her asshole.

She has three different black male lovers. One of them has come over to our home frequently for many years now. He is well built and has a ten inch cock with heavy hanging balls. His cock is very thick. I’ve watched them fuck many times. I could never do what he does. The proof of my inadequacy now matched my submissive attitude I carried all these years. It was as if “lady nature” knew I would be a sexual failure and put this submissive “beta” male attitude in me.

I am not always present when he comes over. But, once a month he is here while I am here. I worship his cock and suck it hard. She absolutely goes nuts with lust when I do this. They both get super charged and fuck like crazy afterwards. The impact on me is touching my tiny penis after touching and sucking his. The difference in size is amazing. When she sees him nude she gets lusty. When she sees me nude she has no reaction.

I know for a fact my inadequacy. Now, I do not even try to have sex with her. I sniff her panties or worship her asshole. I listen or watch them have sex from time to time. It all adds up to an enjoyable jack off time for me (in private in my bedroom). She prefers to think of me being neutered and not jacking off. She knows I do it but if she can’t see or hear it she is happy.

I am happy. I’ve lived alone for many years and I know I cannot provide a woman what she needs in bed. Having her asshole and a steady supply of panties to sniff is great. When I am allowed to listen or watch her have sex is very arousing too. I have no jealousy any more. Just envy. All our friends and neighbors know about her lovers. They all think I am impotent, except for a few select girlfriends who know how tiny my penis is.

I lust for women but cannot fulfill that lust. I am where I am supposed to be.

As the hubby, I am much happier and better off with not fucking. My wife eagerly agrees. Some males were just not meant to have intercourse with women and I happen to be one of those males. I'm a darn good spouse in many aspects of marriage but just not in the bedroom.

I'm much happier fucking it, and regularly too. Like most women, my wife prefers men who act like men.

Research on female sexuality reveals that the vast majority of women instinctively gravitate toward dominant, confident men. That's why all of the books, websites and other materials that deal with meeting, attracting or picking up women focus on boosting a man's confidence and demeanor, enabling him to project an image that better appeals to the opposite sex.

The vast majority of women are not attracted to feminine men. Put the Marlboro Man at one of a bar, and a sissy at the other end of the bar, and the Marlboro Man is going home with the pussy 100% of the time. The sissy stays until closing, then goes home alone.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

A former cuckold here, my wife and I have not had "regular" sex in several months. I would say its closer to a year actually. I have encouraged my wife to cuckold me with someone new for what seems forever. She won't seek it out, it just kinda has to happen.

She does know that denying me sex is a turn on for me, she gets into enough to call my dick a "cocktail weenie". I get to eat her out, use toys on her, and even bought her one of these...

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She named it after the guy she cuckolded me with. After I eat her out, make her cum, she just rolls over and goes to sl ee p. Sometimes I get to eat her ass and jack off, but most of the time I just jack off as she falls to sl eep. My latest push is for her to let me fuck her, but make me wear a condom. At first she was confused, "I thought it turned you on, me denying you?" I told her yes, "but with a condom, I am still not touching you, my cocktail weenie is not worthy to touch your pussy"...then she understood. So, we shall see where that goes.

When I ask her, do you miss sex? She just responds with a "meh", and smiles. Or she says "just a little bit, but thats what the toys are for". As for me, I do miss it, but the fee ling of being so close, tasting her, making her cum...

For now, and probably for the near future, its no f u cking for me.


Oh, and as for the toy in the link above, she cums really hard on that thing. It might have replaced me.

Two condoms would be even better, even less sensation as far as you're concerned. Do you find it suitably humbling when you consider that a sex toy could very well have replaced you when it comes to your wife getting sexual satisfaction?

Two would be better, ultimately its up to her. Most likely nothing but me making her cum and her using the toys. Maybe for the Thanksgiving or Christmas...

I do in fact find it humbling to have for the most part been replaced by a toy. I wish it were a real man,but as always its her satisfaction that matters. I still get to cum as much as I want, I just have to do it myself.

For those cuck hubbies that are truly happier with not fucking your wife, what is it that caused you to loose desire to penetrate your wife's pussy? Do you experience more sexual pleasure with playing with yourself and jerking-off then having intercourse with your spouse? Especially want to hear from the cuck hubbies like me that no longer have any desire to engage in intercourse with any female.


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Cuck should never be allowed to fuck his wife at all. He should not even be allowed to see her naked.