happier with fucking/not fucking?

which is the better set up - fucking for the bull only or cuck also getting fuck action. As a cuck I'm torn.
B.Kellard

I have found that it depends on the bull. sorry, hope this helps cuz I have been on both sides...

I'm only alowed to fuck her AFTER her bull is finished and thats not untill I've sucked every drop of his cum from her. At her one gang bang, she did permit me to let my cock feel how loose she was from her BBC lovers, but she would not let me cum in her till every last stud was finished.

That's how we play....
Cuck who loves a creampie.

I have not had my little cock anywhere my wifes pussy for over a year. She despises my cock, is dissapointed in it and in me as a man. I never get to fuck her.


Heres a little back ground that has come out after a few hours of me pleading for the pleasure of fucking her last week. J told me she misses the way we used to be (a straight couple). A few years back while in Iraq she fell in love with a soldier who was more of a man than I in many ways, size, masculine, macho and so on. I loved the feeling of her being in love with another and asked her not to stop. Me being a "bisexual cross dresser " at the time she agreed I would be her "girlfriend" from then on. I embraced my new role, we still had great sex but as I became more in touch with my femme side. I became more submissive, more femme, and started going out dressed in female underthings (which I am in 24/7 now) and craved her to expose me for being a faggot sissy, and started sucking more cock and sometimes just as much or more than she was. This along with her getting more and more real men to take care of her needs whom are all larger than I in the equipment department and stamina areas as well as more masculine. back a while ago during one of our talks she stated that she thinks I am GAY and shouldn't hide my true self and embrace being Gay and she said she would be fine with me being gay too, so I thought I could be honest and truely tell her that I love men, cocks, and being treated like a sissy slut by her lovers, my lovers and herself because I truely feel that is who I am. Well while talking after trying to get into her lovely pussy She revealed that I have no chance of ever being a man in her life again, even if I am the only one around who could fuck her (if my little cock would get hard enough as I am on horemones at her direction) the thought of my cock in her or touching her pussy, me kissing her deeply, or me caressing her body is totally revolting to her. She says this is what I wanted and now I have it and have ruined our relationship as far as sex goes. She is currently telling me she doesnt know how long she can live this way and if a real man is everything she wants and makes her an offer she may not be able to refuse him. This is the wierd part when she says I am disgusting, a sissy faggot, and she may leave me for a real man my little cock drips massive amounts of pre cum from my CB2K and my heart races and I feel more love and passion for her instantly. I love her more and more even if she never loves me the way she used to and gives it all to a real man. I will always be waiting on my knees, dressed as a propper sissy with a hungry tounge to clean her and her lovers.....
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

Its really wires call. She has needs, to fuck and to cum. Of course her preference is to be fucked by a big cock lover. But that can't be arranged too often, so she is happy to get fucked by me as well. She just likes to get fucked. This is not a game for her.

My wife enjoys fucking. She likes to be fucked by whoever is there and not that much into offense, she just wants fucked.

Here is my opinion and what I have found. If you don't let a cuck have the pussy, he will get used to not having it and it won't be a big deal anymore not to have it. If the cuck is allowed to get it once in a while, it will always be fresh in his mind how good it feels to fuck a nice wet pussy and to cum inside of it. Thus when he is denied, he is constantly reminded of what he is missing. Just a thought.

When I was single and in my early to mid twenties I felt sorry for the denied hubby and was always surprised by married women that denied their husband access to their pussy. I was very confident that I would never deny my Man sex. I no longer feel that way. But then I couldn't have known that I would end up marrying a spouse that is much less than a Real Man. I can't speak for many situations where hubby is cut-off, but in the Cuckold Lifestyle, cutting-off the cuckold is a natural progression. From the very beginning of our marriage my spouse got me interested in cuckolding. Of course 21 years ago, we had no idea what the word cuckold meant. It all started innocently enough. He was still a virgin at 29 and asked me if I minded if we waited a while for sex because he was nervous and scared. I most certainly was no virgin at 26, having had my cherry popped in tenth grade and staying very sexually active ever since. At his age, I was surprised that he was a virgin but thought that it was kind of cool to be married to this guy, then to postpone sex, and keep him a virgin for a few months into our marriage. I thought that it would be rather unique. Little did I know back then that he would remain a virgin. So, no sex on our honeymoon and no consummated marriage. Then he started asking me to tell him about all of the men that I have had sex with. I happily obliged. It became terribly obvious that my stories really made him excited and he would want to masturbate. He always asked me to describe their cocks in great detail. So many of his questions and his interest involved the guy's cock. My awkward initial reaction was that my husband was a homosexual. At the time it seemed to all add up... he never had sex with a woman, still a virgin, was scared to have sex with me... it all made sense to me. So I thought to myself, what the hell, let's experiment because it may be interesting.

Every time he masturbated, I made sure that he only had gay magazines, gay videos, or my detailed description of a guy that had fucked me. I shocked myself when I realized that I really enjoyed the power that I was having over him. I was actually enjoying his transformation from a seemingly straight man into a wimpy sissy faggot homo. He was actually becoming attracted to Men and the sight of a naked Man really turned him on. I found myself getting very excited by the thought of my spouse being a homosexual when we found ourselves carrying on conversations about Men like a couple of girlfriends. I then started to experiment with ruined orgasms. I guess it was a natural progression into my power over him. He started to find pleasure in the ruined orgasms to the point that he looked forward to ruining his own orgasms when he had the chance... even if I wasn't there. Go figure! We both enjoyed it and after just 4 years of marriage, he had 3 subscriptions to gay publications, was an active member in 2 local gay groups, attended virtually all of the local gay pride marches and rallies, had a gay best buddy, and he only had gay friends. To this day I am not quite sure if I turned him into a homosexual or if I just brought out his natural homosexuality. But, it doesn't matter. We're happily married and that's what's important.

It was right about that time that we agreed that he had no business thinking that he would ever get the chance to have sex with me or any other female. We agreed that my sex life would never be part of our marriage. He readily and happily agreed and thanked me. He admitted that he would be absolutely mortified if he ever had to have intercourse with a woman. My sister knows about our lifestyle. She once asked him (he was about 41 at the time) what he considered to be the most frightening thing to him. He thought for about 2 seconds and he blurted out confidently, "The absolutely most scariest thing to me is the thought of seeing a woman's repulsive puss and being powerd to have intercourse with it, scares the hell out of me and makes me sweat!" My sister looked at me and I nodded in confirmation. She and I had one hell of a good laugh.

So I can tell all of you with absolute certainty that my spouse clearly prefers masturbation to actually having sex with a female. However, I now question if he could even be considered in the survey poll considering he has never had sex with a female to actually be able to make a valid comparimister between intercourse and masturbation... well whatever, if he ever had experienced intercourse I am VERY confident that he still would prefer masturbation (probably even more so). Furthermore, I have had correspondence with a number of cuckolding wives over the years and I would have to conclude that most (all?) true cuckolds really do not want to have intercourse with their wives. They seem to all know their place as the beta male and recognize that an Alpha Male is needed to fill the Man-of-the-House role in his marriage. Many also seem to share the need to suck the Masterful Cock of the Real Man. It is always incredibly cool to hear a husband admit to his wife that he wishes to willingly and totally gives up sexual intercourse with her so that she can exclusive spread her legs for Real Men while the cuckold no longer gets any pussy, no sex... his new sex life is nothing but the love he gets from the palm of his hand (if he's lucky). PRICELESS!!!!!

It's just easier, psychologically and physically, not being allowed access at all.
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I am a cuck wannabe, but if it would become real I would like to fuck her after her boyfriend; I believe that allowing the cuck to fuck a fresh crempie increases the feeling of jealousy and shame; most likely, I'l ejaculate too quick, so again more offense

I’ve visited many cuckold web sites, have read many stories, and have spoken to real cuckolds and their wives. I’m forming a strong opinion that many (if not most) cuckold hubbies are at least strongly bisexual or even homosexual like my spouse. I don’t know about what others think, but I’m quite confident that male homosexuals have NO desire to fuck a woman’s pussy. My gay spouse is actually repulsed at the sight and thought of a vagina. His ONLY interest in a pussy is to retrieve a Real Man’s sperm from it with his tongue after it’s filled. I truly believe that there are many hubbies that enjoy the offense and are relieved to have a Real Man step into their marriage and take over the husbandly responsibilities in the master bedroom. They prefer to make love to the penis of the Real Man that fucks his wife rather than fucking her himself. I believe that the ideal cuckold marriage is one where the hubby is totally cut-off from sex with his spouse. For the rest of his married life, he should never experience penetrative sex or oral sex. He needs to understand that sex with a female is a privilege reserved only for Real Men and not for bi or homo hubbies. My conclusion is that most cuckold hubbies are much happier with NOT FUCKING !!!

Simple answer for me - If she is fucking another man I don't need sex with her just a nice hand job and it has to be my hand...

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/Here is how i feel as a cuckoldress, my husband is so inadequate that its hard for me to feel him and I am tired of faking it..so he has to use his hand

hubby

ABSOLUTELY NO FUCKING FOR GAY HUBBY !!!!! He (she) only gets to suck a Real Man’s cock.

Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

My in general thought is that is that each cuck, wife, boyfriend, lover Bull, should be on the same page and find what works for them.

My permisteral thought is that if i/we want to be good lil cucks we should never ever burden our wife and her Real Man with what we want. If we get lucky and get offered her heavenly pussy then enjoy but if He and her decide your wife is His and only his then be a good lil cuck and obey Him and her.
Its me Tony. So if you think you are the man from Shannons past. I miss what we had! I hope your still seeing her and not missing a thing!

100% with the ladies on this one! Hubby's behavior is unworthy of any sex. Regardless of their love for each other; he insults his wife by abrogating sexual duties for his own gratification over hers. She should completely deny all her sexual aspects from him by showing nothing at all -- even panties! EVER!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

MUCH HAPPIER NEVER FUCKING!

Love it anytime i'm honored enough to penetrate my wife....Unfortunately, for her, she gets nothing out of it as I usually last 5 seconds...she is so bored by it, that she usually just watches tv until I finish...She does complain that it makes her sloppy, so lately she just jacks me off, so as not to make a mess on or in her...It usually takes 10 seconds and that works for her as well...again, as she watches tv. She did promise to masterbate for me soon - she'll probably want to masterbate to some BBC porn though...Which, again, is awesome for me. And usually I get sloppy (very wet) seconds on this...I usually come immediately after entering her, so, again, a bonus for her.

Fucking? It will be 10 years for me this December. At this point, she won't even touch or stroke it. But you know, I've never been more satisfied. I get all my orgasms now while straddling my inflatable latex male lover and it is the most exquisite sensation I've ever know.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Well, it has been over 4 years now since I had any pussy and with me being rather sexually inexperienced anyway I would rather it be this way. There is absolutely no pressure to perform when there is no pussy to be gotten. I made my own little homemade toy to fuck and I like it that way.

I really have to disagree with the implication that cuckold automatically = gay.. or closeted gay.. or bisexual.. or whatever. I have zero interest in males during my day to day encounters. Quite to the contrary I love to flirt with women and would absolutely have some girls on the side if I thought I could get away with it. It's a hot fantasy that being pussy whipped can ruin a man's heterosexuality and "turn" him gay, but that is just not reality. A real gay man would have zero interest in submitting to a woman in the first place, he would be too busy sucking the abundant gay cocks which are around in every community despite what middle class America likes to believe. The gay men I know find pussy abhorrent, and would NOT seek any kind of femdom relationship OR be turned on by it AT ALL.

I'm not against cucks being powerd to do gay acts, but let's not get stupid about it. This whole "turn you gay" thing sounds like religion-induced paranoia, and fear based mongering that inside every submissive man is a prancing Ricky Martin just waiting to jump out. I'm sorry, but no.

I completely agree with you, CuckToAScientist. I think this is something many cucks include as part of their disempowerment and/or emasculation and/or offense and/or loss of status fantasies, but it is definitely not an automatic, logical, or necessary extension of being a cuckold. I think a trip through the archives of this site should make that clear to even the most fearful.

However, I'm not sure I can agree with all of this...


I used to think as you did. The gay guys I knew had no sexual interest in females. I (and they) assumed (and assured ourselves) that hetero/homo was a binary switch, likely hardwired at birth. Such an outlook was in keeping with our world views, our politics, our ideology, the way we lived our lives, etc. Thing is, it turned out to be way too cut and dry. Sexuality is a complicated thing. I know people who thought they were gay who eventually came out as straight. As confused and defiant kids they had identified with the gay community and then used it to define themselves for years before coming to grips with their 'true' nature. (As they describe it.) I also know people who always knew they were gay or straight, remain convinced of it, and live happy and productive lives with partners of their choosing.

And I know myself.

I believed I was straight. I wasn't panicked into it. Or brainwashed. Or anything else. I knew gay people. It would have been cool with everyone (relatively) if I was gay. It would have been OK by me. (Indeed at one point in my life it would have simplified things if I had been.) I just wasn't. I had no interest. I found cock, and naked men generally, 'abhorrent', to use your word. I was very, very interested in pussy and women generally.


So I thought I was straight. So did my wife. And our friends and families - gay and straight. I identified straight. I dreamed straight. I fantasized straight. I lusted after members of the opposite sex. I fucked straight. But I was turned on by presentation. Then by offense. Then by emasculation. Then by the idea of 'powerd gay' acts. It was the offense of those fantasies - introduced by my wife as much as me - that turned me on. It was so repulsive to me to think about being with a man.

But you know what? Today, after years of 'conditioning' of various kinds, I engage exclusively in gay sex. I dream exclusively of gay sex. I fantasize exclusively of gay sex. The only 'straight' porn I indulge in is this site.

So what? Maybe I was 'repressed' in a psychological closet? Was never really 'straight'? I won't bother arguing since sexuality is an infamous semantic thicket. But I know from my own life experience that sexuality is not as hard-wired or as simple as we all like to believe. At least not for everybody.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Interesting points, MrsBlackBlowupDoll. You bring up a lot of permisteral life experience that show maybe it is more possible than I thought that homosexuality could be "brought out" of someone. Food for though.

Getting back to the main point here, i would like to chip in that i, for one, am much happier NOT fucking.
I think it is quite fitting that cuckolds do not get sex. apart from pleasing their woman orally, and fucking their own hand. That is how it is with us.

My wife has repeatedly said that she does NOT want sex with me, because it is just too disappointing-- small, limpish dick, cannot pound her hard like she likes it, and sine we started talking about (and later doing) cuckolding, i cum within seconds. It just got worse and worse for her, so she cut me off. First it was meant to be until she had sex with someone else. She did that, but still didn't want to have sex with me, so she made it one full year. At the end of that year, we talked about it, and since she made it clear that she didn't miss the sex with me AT ALL (her words), we agreed to stop it permanently. I am happy too. There is no pressure for me to perform, when i know i can't, and try to be a real man, which i know i am not. I am SO much happier just licking her pussy and fingering her, and she has better orgasms this way. And i am happy to let her have sex with real men who CAN give her orgasms with their cocks (i NEVER did, even once!). She loves to feel a hard, thick cock in side her, and when she gets the chance, she does. I look forward to many more years of no sex!

Depends on who you ask.

I believe the majority of willing cuckolds are happier NOT fucking. There is a galaxy of reamisters that married men desire that other men service their wives. Probably the number one reamister is laziness. It is much easier jerking off to fantasies of "real" men performing for her rather than hubby actually trying to raise a sweat to make wifey feel good by himself! Most cucks here prefer wanking to sex.

I also believe that the majority of cuckolding wives are happier NOT fucking their hubbies. She may love her husband with all of her heart. If she is powerd to augment her life with a lover other than hubby, her attentions are then divided. Hubby may be a peach of a man, but her heart and desires will be toward her lover. She could be just as uncomfortable being seen naked by her husband as she might be by a stranger. Women can be very pleased when they feel themselves as an "exclusive" pleasure to a man!

A clown like myself doesn't really cotton to the idea of returning a lady home from a date to an idiot man accosting her for a cream pie, dirty panties or detailed account from the tryst. A cuckold might be smart to just STFU, let her clean herself from the date and enjoy the warm afterglow of the night without any static from him. I'm much happier with her hubby NOT dirtying MY lover.

I'm guessing that the majority of concerned parties are happier when the cuckold is NOT fucking.


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..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

For me, the fact that my wife refuses me entrance to her beautiful body is a massive part of my presentation to her as her cuckold. to know that she freely gives to other men what she cruely denies to me !
She touches and teases me, flirts and seduces......but then totally forbids me even a BJ !!!
I LOVE IT !

mine has a hyper sex drive plain and simple i know she likes big dicks and alot of it me being average isnt enough shes always going to want more than one always has im fine with it hell i get off thinking about the different lovers she takes.... but if she went to denying me wed have some serious problems. she never denys me or rarely does but she fucks ALOT MORE THAN I DO. i was going through my face book and shes fucked over a dozen on my freinds list