How to convice her to tell?

Hey people, been following this site for a while now, and I need your advise.

Recently I met a girl online who I also met in real life, she lives in another country.
I know she cheated on me online and probably in real life, also we broke up a short while ago.
Just now she accidently told me the fact that she slept with one else in the short time after our break up (And I think that probably cheated before)
She knows it turn me on to hear about it, or her with other men and although she wants to come to my country again in couple of months (and most likely have sex with me again...)
she if refusing the have any kind of long distance sexual encounters with me. such as phone sex or cyber sex (both she did many times and came hard)
So my question is, how do I convince her to tell me about her sexual encounters? I tried asking nicely, tired shouting, tried threats, tired bribe… she just says she doesn’t want to, so she wont, no matter what I want.
She got quite the nerve to act like that… I really am starting to hate her. And yet, before I burn my bridge with her, is there a way for me to convince her to arouse me sexually and tell me?
Your advise is appreciated, and if you want more details, just ask.

In short, no. You told her that it turns you on right? The only chance you may have is if she is not convinced that you are "into" it and thinks you are just trying to get the goods on her for other reamisters, like to hold it against her. Maybe try again to tell her your desires and "convince" her that you have no ulterior motives. If she still holds out...firebomb that ladyfuckin' bridge.

Why she should?

She is obviously not your woman (in her mind), and consider you as just as a 'guy she knows'

You are not together? You hate her?

All your efforts are in vain. Sorry
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

geecrizz
I could approach this the medical way, close to the date she will arrive I would like to know, regardless of sexual arousal or not, with how many men she had sex and if she used protection, and probably will ask her to do STD test.
After I get that important information (that I want to know regardless if I am going to relax with her again) I might use it to get more information, but that is yet to be seen.

norwegian
The thing is, she is really manipulative woman and can say or do allot of things to serve her purpose.
She right now wants me to be her close friend while she is in her country, and doesn't want to cyber because it doesn't arouse her anymore, or so she says. simple enough and she admitted before that she just prefer regular sex over it, that what makes me strongly believe that she been having sex while we were still together, and not only after we broke up.
Btw I broke up with her when she was really mean and denying me of any sexual release for a very long time. I don’t enjoy that aspect of being a cuck, or to be sissy or anything like that. I just sometimes enjoy a little offense and love to "re conquer" a woman after she been with someone else.
Anyway on to the topic - when she comes to my country again and meet me she hinted she will want to have sex again. This is typical of her to only get what she wants, when she wants, and disregard other people needs or feelings.
so to summarize its a love hate kind of thing. When she was here and a few weeks after and before, when it was her interest to be nice to me, I felt like the king of the world, and loved her dearly. But she keeps disappointing me in ways that makes me hate her. But I enjoy talking to her some times and cant pass on the opportunity to be with this goddess while she comes around again.
I forgot to mention one more detail guys, she had the nerve, telling me way back, that if I have sex with another woman before she comes again she will not want to have sex with me ever again… lol

gizmo123
Norwegian,

From a woman's perspective.... It is very difficult for someone to accept advice from anyone when they are fawning over a lost love. That is what is happening wih you.

I know you won't take my advice but I'm going to give it to you anyway.... Give it up. Let her go. Find someone... in the same country for lords sake!!! You know they say that it takes half the time that a relationship has lasted to get over your lost love.

Your friend is, as you have stated.... is a user. She's using you. We women can do that... we are good at it (of course.... you men are too!!!) ... we're all human.... My husband and I agree.... the best thing you can do for yourself is find a local girl. Sex is so much more fun in permister than over the phone and I'm sure there has to be someone in your area who you could have a real relationship with who loves to role play.

Good luck because your current relationship will go nowhere except continue distressing you.
Dawn

Dawn_d6969
Wow Dawn, thank you for a great advice, really.
I understand what you are saying and frankly I would prefer that kind of relationship, and I am looking for a new girlfriend near my area, but beside a few flirting no luck for now.
Maybe (probably) I am just being desperate here, and if I get a new girl by the time she is supposed to come here I will forget about her completely. But until I have anyone else, I am not going to pass on the opportunity to hook up with her again.