Help with my GF.

hello there. here is the situation. Some time ago before I met my GF she used to mess about with this guy. Several years later We started talking about him and she told me how big he was. It really turned me on to think of what they used to do. After some time I pursuaded her to go round his house. they didnt have sex but she sucked him and he messed with her. It was so amazing for me to wait. we talk about it all the time since. Since then they have sent each other dirty text messages on and off. A few months ago they had phone sex. now hes desperate to fuck her and im desperate for it to happen but shes a bit worried about it and nervous. Any ideas on how I can go about this? sometimes shes well up for it and will phone him or send him a text message and sometimes she isnt. its a bit confusing. a few weeks ago he rang her and told her what he wanted to do to her and she told him that he had the nicest cock she had ever seen and wanted him to cum in her! it seems therefore that she likes the idea but is nervous. last night she said she might get him round for a couple of days if I go away. so its a bit difficult to know what to say when im getting such mixed messages.

She is unsure of how she feels. Totally normal. Remember women see sex very differently then men. Even with your insistance, and her lust for his cock, she still may not go through with it. Don't push. If she does it, she will need her own time.

well they spoke again and I they've arranged something so we'll see what happens. i feel so excited yet nervous at the same time.

they are going to fuck each other all day

tightslider has it right.She is still "feeling the ground".It is essential to give her the time to find her own way....and to reassure her at every chance.
In a lot of cases this is how the wife finds her dom side....because she is correctly allowed to control the situation to suit her.
Anyway....good luck mate.

So, what happened? My guess is that it will happen, sooner or later. If she already sucked him, it's really at matter of time before she goes all the way. How much bigger is his cock, and would she let him have her bareback?

nothing has happened yet but they are in touch.. i dont think his cock is longer than mine just thicker. and he has a way with the ladies so shes a bit uncomfortable with him going bareback at the moment

well its still yet to happen. it went all quiet but they spoke again recently.

perhaps you should offer to watch from the next room?

well he feels a bit uncomfortable about me being there and my GF feels abit uncomfortable about me not being there

well the good news is that it looks like it might be back on again. basically I suggested just meeting up for a coffee which she agreed to. the thing is , i dont think she will be able to resist.

Keep us all posted, we hope he fucks her soon!

they have had phone sex again and things look like they might go ahead.

Maybe she can convince him that you will respect their privacy at least while they are together this first time in their re-acquaintace. Once they get into each other you can maybe peek-a-boo a little or just get off on imagining them together in the next room and listening to the sounds of their sex. Keep us posted for sure! It's very exciting, and the anticipation I bet is just *******ing you, guy! What a TURN ON!

well unfortunately it didnt happen again. it was all arranged and everyone was excited and then a few days before, he started talking about them getting together afterwards which both myself and my GF didnt like. We know the guy so its a bit cheeky really. very disappointed. where now?

well this is the only one of note and the only one that she is in touch with. we could look for someone new but i quite liked all the history they had. she said stuff like "its going to be like old times". very disappointed.

You can possibly start from scratch....once I placed an ad in "Adult Friend Finders" website stating that I was looking for a decently well hung guy to do my wife while I watched and you just would not believe the TONS of Emails and pictures we received. There are more horny Bulls out there more that willing to fuck your wife with you there than you could possibly imagine! Your wife will feel like a Queen as she gets to go through all their photos and statistics as she chooses whom her Bull will be. And the anticipation will drive you both absolutely crazy with lust!

yeh might possibly go down that route. she quite likes the idea too.

PLEASE, keep us posted how you do. You will see how absolutely horny you both get while picking out the guy who's going to get lucky with your lady. My wife and I were fucking each other like wild naturals, both before the encounter with the Bull guy as we anticipated the day getting closer, and also after she had fucked the guy and we would be re-living the exprience while making love. An absolute turn-on all around!!

Be patient dude! Speaking from my own exprience, it took me a full 2 years to finally convince my wife to spread her legs to another man. What another poster said was right, woman DO look at sex, love and even marriage differently than we do.

She seems like shes just sorting out her feelings on this. Keep gently suggesting it. It will happen. She will give her pussy away if you don't give up.

Good luck...
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well they are in touch again and trying to arrange something for week after next. she said I have to buy her new knickers