Romance and the bull

What's the view on the bull dominating sexually and romantically? In other words, the main man alll round

I mean, we all love the intimacy of wife with another man dont we, the kissing, hugging, holding hands, stroking, sitting together.
B.Kellard

This is precisely why my wife is not very happy with her current lover...he doesn't romance her enough. She definitely wants that from him, or she will find another stud

This is a little talked about part of cuckolding unfortunatly but for me its what its all about. Dont get me wrong I love all that sex stuff, cream pies, sloopy,seconds etc and my wife has enjoyed playing the slut for many men over the years.

Although we both love that part of the lifestyle we both prefer the romance that should come first. Its one thing to have a larg cock and the ability to come copius amounts but the ability to sweap her off her feet is far more powerfull and eroticaly charged.

Graz
Graz

For me it's romantic.

That's all good but one must be cautious that he (the Bull) doesn't become too possesive of the wife! I used to have a tendency to find my wife young guys because of their great sexual stamina but it turned out to be a 2 edge sword...they were likely to start falling inlove with her and want to be a constant part of her life to the point that one suggested she leave me and move in with him...when she confessed it to me no need to tell you that we immediately ended our relationship with that young stud, even though he was great for her in bed.
We now look for a more mature individual, even one who is married and wants to keep and protect his marriage...he can be romantic with her and not become obnoxious to the point of demanding too much of her time.
A more mature, more stable individual may not have the sexual stamina of a younger stud but he can more than make up for that with a warm caring permisterality as well as romance and respect for her sensitive womanhood.
Just my views and experience on the subject!

I agree with Juanito,except that you should ALWAYS choose a married man.Also,they don't have to be mature,young studs get married too.Good luck.

Sensible advice Juanito. If the bull is the key romatic permister and key sexual permister, then you do have to ask what the point of hubby IS?
B.Kellard

Thats a great point Billy, when the wife takes a lover regardless of the depth of intermacy the relation ship between her and the cuck does not end. In fact it should become stronger, this is certanly the case with us.
Graz

Fuck romance! Leave that to the hubby's
S

Romance with the bull is a big turn on. Hubby is more like a dear friend to the wife. Like a girl friend.

If the bull romances the wife as well as sexually satisfies her, she will end up seeing the hubby as her sort of "buddy" with benefits. It is still a win-win situation for eveyone since the hubby is getting his own sexual gratification by providing food and shelter for his queen, as well as making sure she is sexually satisfied, even if that takes an outside source (the bull). The bull gets his jollies off by making love to a beautiful married woman ('the forbidden fruit') and everyone comes away happy! Cuckolding is not for everyone, but for those of us who truly love the lifestyle it totally rules!!

But Juanito that still begs the question, if the bull provides the main sex and romance, waht does hubby do? Hubby is pretty much redundant. I dont mind them kissing, cuddling etc but I dont see the bull as a romantic interest, or at least not in a major way. People have to be careful the bull just doesnt become the partner with the cuck out on his arse.
B.Kellard

I think it is simply a matter of what style and what extremity of cuckolding the husband and wife are into. On some level, all fetish cuckolding is about eroticizing the fear of losing out in the male competition for sexual partners. The ways you can do that are various indeed.

Many husbands and wives cannot enjoy the fun of cuckolding without the security of knowing that their relationship is rock-solid. A kink that plays with feelings of loss and jealousy like this one needs strong relationships to survive. To indulge it in a relationship that is weak is like takeing when your liver can't handle it. For some, going too far - like having the relationship be more than sex - will be too much stress for the activity to remain pleasant.

But just as there are some people who will buy a lottery ticket and never go to a casino while there are others that will mortgage their house and go to the racetrack with it, tolerance for risk and the level needed for the thrill differs from couple to couple.

There are husbands and wives for whom extramarital sex alone is not threatening enough to charge up their kink. They need the pain and fear generated by a more engaged emotional relationship, a true "affair." While such a step will usually increase the chances of the marrieds losing their intimacy and therefore their relationship (though not always, people are varied) some accept or even revel in the risk to get sexual fulfillment. (And as in other aspects of life, if the gamble goes badly, some will accept the loss stoically and other with bitter regret.)

As to the role of the husband in a situation where the wife is in love with another man (which seems to me what we are talking about), that does not seem hard. In many vanilla marriages ardor cools on one or both sides. People become more like friends, roommates, and business partners. The idea that marriage is about love is a fairly modern one anyway. Traditionally it was more of an economic relationship grounded in mutual protect and benefits - not all sexual in nature. Between parenting, financial cooperation, housekeeping, nursing and health care, etc. there is quite as much of this ground in a modern marriage as there was a few hundred years back.
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Billy rocks, he knows what it's about, listen up people! Fuck the bullcuckolds brownie, there's only 1 hubby to the numerous lovers, otherwise it aint a cuckolding relationship, it's a free for all and the marriage is over.
S