Starting Out - Ideas?

It shouldn't matter if you are new to this. You have control over him, and you make the rules. Period. If he ever wants the priviledge of watching you and your lover(s), he must obey with no questions or whining. This is not about him, but about you. You will get yours as you choose; whether he gets to watch becomes his choice. He won't choose 'no.' I must run now, I have a load of laundry ready, and BTW, I'm locked in chastity because my wife owns not only my orgasms but my erections now. I love it and will do anything to please her...

Both of you are an item... it's not about control, or 'making' someone do something. If he doesn't want to, he won't, just as you wouldn't do something you truly don't want to.

If you want to explore the blackmail aspects... consider taking a photo of him in a compromising position, and just keeping it in your purse,with the threat he could be exposed to your friends, or his friends. Just the 'danger' of that happening can be a real turn on for both of you.

If you want to bring Dominance and presentation into the relationship, then that's an option too... but best to do things steadily and slowly.

The MOST important factor of all, is everybody's health. Remember, if you're going to consider another man's cum in you, or your bf tasting it... there's a genuine danger there. You can love the idea, the fantasy of it all etc, but in the cold light of day, people can truly suffer this way.

There's no easy way to ever know which partners are clean, but at least be sensible about folks to the best of your ability.

depends on what he is into but dress him in sissy clothes before he is allowed to have sex with you. then a picture of that would be your "blackmail" to "make" him eat his cum after hes done.

pussylover02: I think the more that the two of you get into this lifestyle the more you will come to realize the TREMENDOUS power that you have over him! He is YOUR cuckold, you are his mistress! You just have no idea what a slave to your pussy will do for you! Learn how to use that power to your advantage and you will become the queen that you deserve to be!