I bought her a Dildo

I was thinking of getting her another dildo that's size is between the two, but I thought instead of a step to the black one, it may be a replacement, so I decided against it.

If she decides she wants bigger than her pink one, then the alternative will definitely fill her properly.

...and if she takes that step, then mine will never come close to that size, so she will need to finish herself with her toys (if she takes pity and lets me in her).

My wife has commented several times that she wants something good and memorable for her birthday this year as Covid messed up last one.

Shes been fucking her dildo regularly and i haven't had sex with her since before her last birthday.

I have been thinking that I could get a cock cage for myself and present her they key on a necklace for her birthday.

Poll

I want this to be real. Should I do it??

we got several dildo she loves them they can fuck her for as long as she needs doesnt cum and get soft

My wife made a surprisingly relevant comment today.
I didnt see that she had her hand extended to pass me a key (for car) and when I eventually noticed, she said "you should always be looking at me; I am the most important thing in your life".
It made me wish I had a cage already, but I'm still thinking that through.

I've taken my next big step.

I've ordered a cage.

That's a good idea little_T and a nice gift for your wife! She has to put the key on her necklace so you can watch it all days long!

I'm now a locked hubby.

It arrived thursday and first chance to have a try, yesterday, i didnt have long enough to figure it out completely. Today i got it assembled and fitted, but didnt plan to lock myself, but i wanted to have a look hands free and it needs something through the pin to hold it.

I put the lock in and closed it, and before i could let myself think too much i put the key and extra parts away and pulled my pants up and went out for a shopping trip for an hour or so. It was interesting to wander around with it on.

When i got back i sat on the lounge with my wife and watched some netflix for a while.

I think i might leave this on a while now. Maybe i can wear it throught to tomorrow.

indenver_indenver
mine loves being fucked with her dildo and licked at the same time it gives her some of the most intense organism she ever had. I brought that we need are friend to fuck her while I lick her.

I've left the cage on for over a day now. For now I'm getting used to wearing it before she knows i have it, so i have to avoid her noticing it, despite i sle ep in just trunks.

I've set myself a goal to try to keep it on until my wife has fucked herself with her dildo at least twice. I like the idea that shes getting off on her dildo while her hubby is locked up, and not just once but multiple times. I might even wait until a day passes since shes fucked herself and if she uses her toy again then i extend my time in my cage.

She'll likely only fuck herself with it once on a day, and i have no way to know if she will tomorrow, or the day after, etc. I could be locked up for quite a few days until i know shes been getting herself off while i'm locked, and i am a proper locked and denied hubby.

3 days locked, and i expect at least 2-3 more before my release criteria are satisfied...

Thanks to the people who voted in my Poll. It helped the decision to get the cage and become a locked hubby.

5 days locked and think i'll be staying locked all weekend too.

Locked up and horny, whatami gona do about it?
Order wifey a nice new dildo to fill her pussy with. Obviously!
Her regular one is pink and i really want her taking black cock instead.

My wife fucked her dildo today

I said that i wanted her to fuck herself multiple times while i'm locked up and perhaps it will only be another day until that happens.

I like her getting herself off on a hard cock without me while i am locked, so while she keeps fucking herself daily I will stay locked. I will keep counting until I am sure shes fulfilled her horny needs, and her toy stays in its case for two consecutive days. If she fucks herself daily for the rest of the week then i will end up being locked for two full weeks...

Perhaps her new toy will arrive in that time and she can give it a good christening once, or many times before breaking the streak.

Starting my first locktober...
I've worn my cage for more than a week previously, but i always had my keys handy. For locktober, i have put my keys away so i cant easily access them. I'm going to give my wife plenty of time to toy herself repeatedly while i am locked up. I'm hoping to double my streak in my cage and her fucking herself to shuddering orgasms with her dildos.

I thought my wife was about to find me wearing my cage last night.

She had a shower and was just in her robe for a while after that, and i saw quite a few times where her thighs were uncovered and i wondered if she would change into pyjamas soon, then she kept the tension a bit by changing into a pyjama top and just panties instead of pyjama bottoms, which is quite out of character for her.

So i'm locked in my cage for Locktober, and i had put the keys away to avoid being tempted to let myself out, so if she wanted to get frisky with me instead of her toy then i couldn't just duck into the ensuite and quickly remove it. I'd have to go fetch the key first, so i just resigned myself that if she climbed on my lap then she would then know that i'm locked.

After parading around without pyjama bottoms on for a while though she did eventually put some on before bed. Perhaps she was testing me to see if i was interested in making moves on her. I was definitely interested, but had put myself in a bit of a spot so i had to suffer in my cage.

If she interprets it as lack of interest, then she will likely be soon stuffing her pussy with her toy(s) and i have missed one of the few opportunities to try getting my dick in her.

So continues my life as a sexless hubby.

I think she was looking to get her pussy filled, because only a couple of days later, on 7th day of locktober my wifey has been at her toy box, and may well have used her latest dildo which has been moved. I hope she did, and perhaps being left wanting for a while was enough for her to want to try it.

Perhaps she only looked at it out of curiosity, felt it in her hands, but every look and touch is a step closer to being in her pussy and fucking her to orgasm; and once it makes her cum, then she'll want it more and more.

Only about 5 more days until end of Locktober.
This is now my longest period locked.

I have removed the cage a few times just to keep clean as i have access to the key. Perhaps next Locktober i will make sure that my wife controls the keys so i can't get out without her explicit permission.

I guess i should answer for myself, what will i do at the end of the month?
Let myself out?
Stay in and keep letting my wife fuck herself with her toys while i'm locked? Stay in the hopes that she tries to test me, and finds me locked?

My wife has a black dildo and she enjoy it very much. I am very proud to see how she orgasm with this black dildo. It's very exciting to fuck her with the black dildo instead of my dick!!!

Olga

I've just bought my girlfriend a nice, realistic 7 inch chocolate brown dildo so she can imagine having sex with one of the two black men she chats to on Instagram. I originally bought her a 5 inch flesh-coloured one to start her off with, but I don't think it's even been out of the packet. Hopefully the thought of going black will change her outlook.
Peter C

little_T - I think you need to tell her about it. There's not much more humbling than to have your wife say that she would rather have the dildo than your little thing in her. Besides, she may love the power of controlling your orgasms. Right now she may be feeling that you just don't want to have sex with her and that usually isn't something a woman wants to imagine. Tell her that you would love to only give her oral sex and then when you're done pull down your shorts and show her your cage and offer her the key. Tell her that it would be a huge turn-on if she would keep the key and only let you out when she decides that she really wants you in her (and that you hope she waits a long time!). You don't want her to feel unwanted sexually so get the courage to tell her soon!

I am in my cage today for the first time in a while.

I am happy to report that i am still playing the denied-hubby while my wife gets herself off with her toys. Not just one toy, but toys. She has now proven to my cuck-fetish's delight, to be regularly using her black dildo that i ordered during Locktober. A 7 inch Pipedream chocolate coloured King Cock with balls.

I have been paying attention to whether it remains in the same place over time, and also her pink dildo, and while there has been the occasion when only the pink dildo moved, i was also happy to see times where both were moved at the same time, or even better only the black dildo.

Compared to her pink dildo that is 5 inches girth, the black one is 5 & 3/4 inches girth (or 1.8 inch dia.) and is definitely thicker than me, so now she is voluntarily fucking a thicker cock because she wants to, not because i am with her and encouraging her to use a bigger toy than normal.

She is starting to want it, and she is letting herself have it, and every time she does it will reinforce that it's what her pussy needs and deserves. Eventually she wont question if she should fuck a black cock, she'll instinctively give in to her needs and grab hold of it and guide it into her aching needy pussy and ride it until the black cock and her own pleasure are the only things that matter.

I would be happy to have her regularly using only the black dildo, then i can find a good time to introduce a larger 8 inch one, and have her continue her journey towards being a bbc-only wife.

As such, I noticed my wife was getting to the point of her cycle where she would be getting horny, and i was due to go out shopping and i had a hunch she would soon be seeking out her toys and i couldn't resist locking myself away.

I figured she'd either use her toys and i'd be the locked-hubby while she gave her pussy a good fill, or maybe she'd be in the mood to test me while she was horny, with a slim chance she'd parade around partly undressed and perhaps get handsy with me (i didnt want to be free to put my dick in her, i couldn't call my attempts before now a proper fucking) and i wanted the risk that she might stroke my pants and find my secret.

Well she definitely took advantage of the time alone and gave her pussy what it wanted. I can't say whether she started with her pink toy, and swapped to her thicker black dildo; or perhaps she went all the way to orgasm with her pink toy, then went back for a big chocolate dessert to leave her doubly satisfied. I think more likely the first, but either way, the result is still a win, because her married pussy undoubtedly received a much needed and wanted orgasm while being fucked deep by a thick black cock.

...and now that she has opened her legs to black cock and guided it willingly in, accepted the pleasure of it thrusting and filling her and bringing her to orgasm, i know her needy married pussy will continue to be given orgasms by a thick black cock; and possibly spread even wider for bigger ones in future, and then as the saying says, there will be no going back. Perhaps even now going back is getting farther from her mind and its not just her pussy that is being filled with black cock.

In appreciation of my wife taking these steps on her journey of accepting that big black cock is right for her, i will take my own step by staying locked for the week, and if she fucks herself again with her black dildo, i'll add another week each time. I'll even be thoughtful of her needs and try to find some reasons to go out and leave her alone and horny.

She's fucked her black dildo only again, so that means a week of cage time for me. I wasnt making it regular before, but now i'm linking her black dildo play with my chastity play.

I have another bigger black dildo in the back of the cupboard for her, and i know she's looked at it, but she hasn't mentioned it and i think she'll just keep that knowledge tucked away and act like she doesnt know. That one is 9 inches and very thick at 6.5 inch around.

Not confronting me about finding another big black dildo is an encouraging sign, which to me says she certainly isn't super opposed to it, she just hasn't gotten brave enough and aligned to an opportunity to try it.

Once she's used to going straight to her 7 inch black dildo each time without warming up with her pink dildo, then she might start using her regular black dildo to warm up for the bigger one.

I'm thinking that if she used the bigger one a few times, then perhaps it would be time to 'accidentally' leave my cage somewhere she might find it...

Her new regular fuck friend on the right,
and the new guy on the left who will have to wait patiently for her to spread for him...

My wife went on a daytrip yesterday, left early and returned home fairly late. It presented an opportunity.

I hadn't worn my cage for a while and i thought it would be an ideal time to have a bit of chastity play while she was away. I even put in the anti-pullout that i normally dont as it can get uncomfortable. I was still wearing my cage when she got home, so i figured i'd take it off the following morning.

I thought i'd let myself out, except my wife announced after breakfast that she wanted to take a shower, which went on longer than normal, and i found that she had just been fucking her black dildo.

I'm now on board for a week of chastity, as per the rule i decided on, but this week it'll have the added feature of doing it including anti-pullout.

This is worth it for her to satisfy her married pussy with black cock. Later when she has no need of her original pink dildo, it will quietly disappear or be replaced by another sizeable black one so that all her dildos are black, longer and thicker than me, and increasing in size.

I was looking at sites that sell QOS panties and found some that are subtle enough with just repeating pattern of spades, that i could get them for her and it would keep my fantasy building in small steps, until she shows that she wants bigger and less subtle changes to our relationship.

Heres hoping that this time next year that my wife is fucking only big black dildos, is aware of my cage and keeping me locked up, while telling me how she prefers bigger cocks and wearing naughty QOS panties to tease me even more.

I havent gotten her any QOS panties (yet), but she now has two pairs with
I MY
DILDO

They will do for now, and serve as a reminder that its been so long since i was in her pussy while her toys are filling her whenever she needs.
I have another big black toy arriving for her soon, as it seems since february she has only been using her new black toy, and i will see to it that her pink toy disappears and she only has big black cocks to fill her pussy with.

I was so horny the other night i spooned up to my wife while i was wearing my cage to see if she'd notice, but i think she was too out of it, and its not like she was having a big erect cock between her thighs and press against her slit, which is what im sure she would prefer.

I have found a metal cage that i like the look of, and am sure i'll end up getting it at some point. I think it will be better for longer wear, which i'm sure i'll need within the next 12 months... perhaps by Locktober she'll know and be holding the keys for me...

Unlocked

I have been wearing my cage for over a week, and one morning recently my wife asked if i was ready to take a shower as she wanted to have some steam to clear her head. After a moment imagining the discussion she would start about whats going on with my dick, I skipped the cock cage talk by getting into the ensuite alone first 'to use the toilet' (aka. remove the cage) which was narrowly possible as i left the keys in my underwear draw which i quickly rummaged to get pair to put on post-shower. One day she'll put me on the spot and i wont be able to weasle out of her finding me caged.

Today my wife has tidied the bathroom cabinets, and it is clear that she has discovered that she now has three black dildos in her collection ranging 7, 8 & 9 inches, and that her pink dildo is no longer in her toycase.

The 7 & 9 have been left in the case, which is clipped closed plus combo lock on it, while the 8 inch is accessible in an open basket as i had left it, making its access much more convenient than the 7 inch which was her regular toy for the last few months.

While she could bring up this discovery to discuss later, i am hoping that she lets it quietly pass and she accepts that i obviously want her to use her updated toy collection and continue to satisfy her pussy with only thick cocks.

I have also just decided to put my cage keys in the toycase, and will leave them there and stay caged until she has her next toy session (plus a week of tribute to her toys for the satisfaction they provide her) and every night i will make the effort to snuggle up and spoon her in bed and perhaps she will notice the cage if i get a fraction too close and she feels something unexpected. If she finds out i have this cage, then it will make it a lot easier to buy another metal one and not have to hide the cost and delivery.