The Venture / The Ramble

Hello all

The quesiton is, should I post what is going on in my life with my wife? Iam 55 and she is 54 we have been married for 30 years. She is my goddess my queen my best friend, my wife!

The question is how to get my dear wife to open up explore more things sexually. She loves sex, loves oral, like/loves to receive. Heck bruised my face once when she came. Like then to ride on top to several cums. I hope I am not too forward. I would like to see her expand her sexuality. And by thus expand herself esteem and self confidence. I would in the end enjoy seeing her hot wife as the end result: but that maybe a bridge too far

I have been a memeber and some time poster here for several years. I truely enjoy the works of Good Husband and Stormdog. I have read posted and gotten coments and advice for some great guys: Two in lex, Allan, IWMWTCM Orban and more.

I would appreciate any comments as to weather I should post/ share both as an outlet for me and for a means of advice, comments, and suggestions

Thank you all

Meijer

Please do start your own thread! If you do let me know where it is. Mine is .

Greetings Meijer. We haven't spoken a lot, but I've got the same situation as you (were both 53 and married for nearly 33 years), except we've made it to 'the next level.' Take a look at one of my threads where I describe how we got to where we are, and we are still ecstatic and hoh in love with each other; she just gets what she wants, whenever she wants it! Post your thread and keep us in the loop!

Meijer,

I think its a good idea to start you own thread as well. Its so hard to find the best way to tell or approach ones wife about cuckold/hotwife-ing.

You will ultimately have to decide if you want to be direct or indirect. Maybe somehow by accident stumble across some interracial material on the computer, leading to maybe some cuckold material. How does she feel about porn on the computer?

The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

This is a thread about my wife and I. It is about my desires wishes and events that have occurred over the past few years. When I was looking for a title for this thread, I thought about journey, etc had been take, NP husband ( great thread BTW). I looked into the synonyms and the word RAMBLE caught my eye.I read the definition and found this:

1. to wander around in a leisurely, aimless manner: They ramred through the shops until closing time.
2. to take a course with many turns or windings, as a stream or path.
Though the first definition may be true; it is the second that I feel more aptly describes this thread.

I have been in and out of this site for several years. I have lurked, chatted, posted ,commented and enjoyed the folks here. It was a past note to Miss Diane that got me think about posting and sharing these events. Thank you Diane. Also, I have been reading Hotwifelover's thread and Tsubs thread and took to heart their comments about writing about this helps them get their thoughts and feelings out, to sort thru. Thank you all!

I do need to preface the initial posting with an explanation. and alibi. These event have occurred over time. I started to write an email to tell what happen. I then have been adding to them as event occurred. Thus a blog-like record of events. I am sorry, in looking back at them, I did NOT date each entry. I beg for your indulgence. To give the kind reader a sense of time the entry about the Cruise occurred in October 2009. I have gone back and tried to some extend "date" events the best I can remember.

I want to thank some folks who have been very kind to m: .Mr &Mrs Panzer; Miss Diana and Jerry , Hotwifelover; Husband; Anysely; Reese; Tcsub; allengt (host); Pianayhotwife; BT2; rypmar7; Matt2 Mr and Mrs Mustan; Jim and Lynda: I am sure I have forgotten some folks. Please accept my apologies if I did.

Finally, I want to thank everyone in advance for their comments, advice, support, understanding and friendship

Meijer

Here is the background on us. I hope this is not too long. I also ask that you understand these events have happen over a several months/ years (2-3).
I hope this helps giving you a picture of my situation. Please feel free to ask questions and I will answer them.

Background, let me give you short set of notes and see where we go from there. I am a 55 yr old hubby with 54 yr old wife. We have been married for 29 years. We have three boys 27, 24, and 17. Two are still at home.

The question is how to get my dear wife to open up explore more things sexually. She loves sex, loves oral, like/loves to receive. Heck bruised my face once when she came. Like then to ride on top to several cums. I hope I am not too forward. I would like to see her expand her sexuality. And by thus expand herself esteem and self confidence. I would in the end enjoy seeing her hot wife as the end result: but that maybe a bridge too far. Also, sorry to say I have some ED issues. Result of age, depression, the gaining of weight, IE getting out of shape ( Uncle Sam) no longer has me up and running at 0600 in the morning)As such my wife says she does not get sex as much as she wants. I fact this past Wednesday night we were going dancing and I rubbed her but and she said great your hot here but not at home. The sad point was point we got home at midnight and we both passed up dues to early work in the morning.

I see this hot wife life a a life of true love! The wife needs something the hubby is unable to provide. So he allows her encourage her to dates. He wants her , his wife his goddess to be happy, to have the best! The wife does it. Because she know how much it makes her Happy and her loving hubby happy.

My wife and I are trying to get a diet and work out schedule together for both of us. We both need to loose 25-30 lbs. For both health and self image issues. We joined weight watchers. My wife has lost some weight 7-8 lbs. I have lost 15.

My wife is 5'6" 180 lbs short salt and pepper hair, 42Cs nice legs and nice ass short dark hair very outgoing. I have a few photos of her I can post if folks are interested howver they are g-rated.

I am retired ilitary. US Army for 23 years, I substitute teach high school, work at a Wal- Mart (Meijer) type store and teach part time at the local university. I have had a very difficult time in finding a good job since i have retired. I want to teach but there seems to be two factors against this. First, the market full of social studies teachers. Plus the is a very "Small town" It really mattes where one went to high school here! I am not from here. My Bride is. My bride of 30 years provides elder home care and sells Mary Kay.

My wife was "wild" in college several BF before me and was an a wet t-shirt contests. During our marriage, she has done some rather nice. hot things. She has met me at the door in bra and panties. She has had me "rush" home from a formal dinner, dining-in, to met me at the door dresses in hose and a corset. Use to buy her stuff at VS while we were stationed in San Fransisco. I was such a good fashion show they use to have. This was before they got bought buy the Gap. If we had a girl we were going to call her Victoria.

A Couple of years ago, while at a play, we were sitting at the top row the light went out and her hand went to my cock which she stroked a few times 5 Min's thru my pants. In my opinion a wild women" or inner slut, wanting to come out.

Summer 2007
Few summers ago was my birthday, my wife and I had great sex. The usual sex play is I sucked her to a cum then she got on top and rode. After she came several times, I did doggy and rolled her over and did her from behind. The big surprise was that Thursday night. For my birthday she bought some KY jelly. We got to bed she rubbed it on my cock, that felt great, then on her nipples, God, she got wet, finally she rubbed in on her pussy that got her going. At one point, she put some on her asshole and then almost powerd my fingers in there. God she was hot and getting off. This is another example of the "inner slut".

Later that summer, we had gone to play tennis and came home. I had gone upstairs and got ready for bed. She called me down and asked me to look at what the cat was doing. I came down and instead of the cat Sandra had a Porn movies on. It was a first. WOW so hot of an evening. This is also the first and only time she has let me eat a cream pie. I have tried before and she usually says, she is too sensitive down there.

December 2007
Early December, we went to our Bible study Christmas party. There was a gift exchange, where you bring a gift and then go under the tree to pick out a gift. You can either take that gift or trade with one gift already picked. A couple before us got tank top shirt that said" Nice and Naughty" and a pair of thong panties with candy canes on them. My wife got it when it our turn and instead of picking gift went and took the panties and top. Wow, she was great everyone was enjoying the moment. When she sat down, I got up and said time to go! Sorry to say nothing happen. She was not feeling well it was that time of month.

Summer 2008
We started to take dance lesmister about a year ago. We recently started to get into West Coast Swing tp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VadOiSSWwVI and East Coast Swing The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! We go dancing Tuesday night for the "swing Club, (a group of folks that meet at a bar and dance, east and west coast swing, the DJ there plays swing music), Thursday night for class and Friday night for a dance party. It is time together and exercise. Plus a chance for her to dress up and to be around
other men.

One time, we had a great evening. She wore a mid calf length skirt with black fish nets. Very nice! She also asked, how I liked her stockings. I said very nice. I need to make a bigger deal about how she dresses, if I want her to continue and improve. When we got home Friday, we had fun. wore a silk lacy white night gown very nice it did not stay on long. She was able to talk all the time but did ask me to " make her bark like a dog". She said she really enjoys that position

On another Friday, we went dancing again to the dance party at the studio. It was a "Prom" theme. She wore a long black dress. No slit nor low cut, She did look very nice told her several time and even told her she looked nice dancing with a guy. When we got home went to bed she was watching TV in tank top and PJ bottoms. I started to rub her and kiss her. WE ended up having sex with he TV on "Young Frankenstein" But a great time. No dog barking. I asked her for doggy but she just rolled of the top of me and i did her from behind. Good thing middle mister was arelax down stairs. WOW great cum. Funny though she did not want me to go down on her. She had finished her period not sure what was up.

On Tuesday we try go to a swing dance party at the local bar. Lots of folks were there. The bad was no one ask my wife to dance. Could have been because we were new. The good is she wants to go back. While we ere there she told me she has to get some low cut tops. Several women there had ones on and my wife is 42C sag s a bit but would look very nice in one. Told her so. I going to have to take her shopping here and encourage her to buy some stuff. I wonder is she will need a couple of new bras. She is 42d with some sagging due to age. What do you recommend Type of tops and bras to get her encourage her to show more cleavage. I will follow thru with this.Earlier in a week, Monday, I had asked her if she wanted to go hopping for some new stuff top, that she had talked about and she asked what new tops. I did last week you said you need some new tops. She said no
I did not, Strike two. We did dance and Sandra danced the one guy from the dance studio. She was wearing a sleeveless top and Capri's. As we were
leaving she told me I need to dance with some to her women so that men will ask her to dance. So I am going to have to get over my fear and get to asking other women so that she will be asked to dance. Hopefully will again

> > We got home and had a good night of sex. She crawled into bed nude. I tried to take my time kissed her for a few Min's, then rubbed her back and her ass and legs while sucking on her breast I went down on her kissing her clit and licking her pussy some breaks in the to build the excitement. Finally, she came and I licked and she rubbed her self off. She then got on top and rode me cowgirl and came several times. I did her doggy, for awhile, and ended up laying down behind her taking her from the rear and have a super cum.

Fall 2008
I have lost the focus on this process for the past couple of weeks the wife works 6-7 days a week to help out and I worked 3 jobs and 7 days a week. I hope with school out I can get back on task I only want the best for her. I seem to have these wonderful ideas during the day. However,when that evening arrives it seems to fall a part. For example was going to have sex with her last night. But, she came home tired from the night before, we were out salsa dancing till midnight. She came home put dinner on the went to bed. Thus another evening when i had plans to make her happy that did not occur.

I did talk to Sandra about it the other afternoon. How we do not seem to have time for sex. She likes to stay up late and I tend to go to bed because of the times I go to work. I have to find a solution to this issue. With both of us working time together is limited. I feel like I let her down not paying enough attention to her. I seem to think all day about nice things to do for her and when the time comes i have big challenge in putting my thoughts into reality.

Some exciting things did occur this past summer. First, we have been going on Wednesday night to listen to music at a restaurant by the river. The had a live band and it is bike night. An evening I am sure you all would enjoy. Well for a couple of times, Sandra and made comment about guy looking another. I responded positive that of course they would since she so good looking!! Later this summer we went to a Friend house for a party. When we left, she ask me if Had seen this one guy. I said yes. She said he was flirting with her all evening. I said well she still has it. She asked what it was . I said that thing that made her look so Good, IT!

Finally, went to a bar one weekend. Yes we have been going out a lot! We got the bar and she met our Friends. I turned to ask her what she wanted to take. She was not there. She had walked over to the pool table and was talking to two guys. We did not know the guys and the next thing, I know she was joking with them playing pool!! I was Little upset, then remember that is what I wanted. I stood and enjoyed the scene. I walked over in little asked her what she wanted to take got her a beer and gave it to her and left her there playing pool with guys We did not Know.

Winter 2008-2009
On the Sandra Front. She went out Dancing the past Friday by herself. I worked at Meijer and she told me she wanted to go. I encouraged her. The plus is she went out on her own.Had a great evening. She told me about this Saturday morning and again on Saturday afternoon/ evening. The "downside" was the dance was at a dance studio where we have taken lesmister. So not that risky of environment. She was asked and danced with several guys. Had a great time told by several guys and ladies how nice she looked and how great her dancing is. Very positive and thus very good. When she told me I told her over and over again how glad I am that she had a great time!!

We went up to Cincinnati to dance west coast swing a couple of weekends ago. We had a great time! She was asked by several men to dance and asked several men to dance. Ainteresting point. She asked a black man to dance. Then when it was over she sat down and chatting with him for awhile. She then cam e over and ask me how she looked dancing with him. I said she looked great. Found out he is from Louisville and we saw him Tuesday at the Bar. Sandra introduced me. Small steps but still small steps.

Talked to her Saturday night. About buy her some heels. She said she has heels I told her how great she looks in then How great her legs look etc. Also I have her wanting to get some tops for dancing. I told her i wanted to get some dresses for her to dance in to show off. She tole me she did not want dresses but pants and tops. I looked on the net and found this site with some nice tops etc.

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The last time I tried the site the serve was down i think. She also like Layne Bryant. Size is the issue she is 16- 18 dress size and currently 42D. Too Large for Victoria's Secret. Want to get her a a swim suit or two one one piece and a two piece try to use it as a incentive to get into better shape . She could wear them on our anniversary. Your thoughts / opinion.
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Now latest developments. We had sex last Wednesday. We went to our room and she was straightening out her drawer. She was pulling out her thongs and nighties and other things I have bought her over the years and mentioned how she should throw them away since I never had her wear them. She also wanted me to try on a green thong of hers. That did not happen. Probable a mistake. The sex was good she came several times.I hope however was unable to keep a hard on and did not take a blue pill or put me cock ring on before we started, She got rather upset about that.

Saturday night we went dancing, another Louisville swing club. We had a Good dinner then went to the dance. I asked her where she wanted to sit. She choose a poor location. What happen was the people we know from class sat at another location. Thus no-one asked her to dance. I did ask another lady to dance. We got home late and in bed by midnight. We did not play any due to the fact I had to get up at 3:00 am in for get to be at work at 3:30 am early to work due to getting out early to attend a family Easter event.

This Wednesday night we went Salsa dancing. Class was at 9:00 pm the dance started at 10:00pm Latin American time, LOL. Had a great time! I dance with a couple of ladies and she danced with several men.

This past weekend Thursday thru Saturday we had an awesome time. Thursday i had to work. She dropped me off and went shopping at Lane Bryant's. Sale. I got home and we were in the bed room and she was showing me what she had bought. I told her how great they looked on her. She insisted on showing me how great she looked in the new bras she had bought. also telling how hard it was to find ones that fit! I enjoy ensuring they fit that evening. We feel into bed and had a wonderful time that ended with me eating her till she came and the her getting on top and riding me. mmmmmmmmmm..

Friday night I had off and we were able to go> dancing. It was at a dance studio where we have taken lesmisters. She was wearing a red camisole with a thing red top black short and 3 inch heels. She was showing little bit of cleavage. We had a wonderful time. got home all the misters were out of the house. I went and walked the dog. I went upstairs and sat a straight chair we have there. Sandra walked over and sat on top of me an asked if I liked her top. I spent the next several Min's showing her how much i loved her top and what it cover. I tried very hard to giver her a hickey on the underside of her tits . I got her pants pulled down and she started to grind on my legs. I go My pants down and she sat on top of me.
> After she came she could not get up. Her legs were weak. I got her to bed where she got on top again and rode me cow girl style a few more times. I then got her on her side and entered her from behind. After this i was able to lick her some.

May 2009
Saturday went to a Friend house for a Kentucky Derby party. DID you see the race. WOW it was great!! Wish I had money on Mine is Bird 50-1. Good foo good time good Friends good cigars. While there we talked to several Friend about going on a cruise. She finally decided that we would go on a cruise for our anniversary. In the talks she asked if there was dancing on the ships. They said yes. She then asked if there would e men for her to dance with! I know small steps but still steps!

May 2009
> > Next the good news! Saturday took Sandra out to Mothers Day dinner at a local BBQ place. I was in the dog house for not getting her a gift! Got cards but no gift! Usually she does not want anything , Oh well. Got of work Sunday and met Sandra at Meijer. She was in kinda of a down mood. I worked Two misters worked. Thus, she was alone and had to go to church by herself etc. Got her in a good mood and went home after seeing her Mom etc. All day at work, I had been thinking about how great she has been looking since November. That is when I took her to Lane Bryant's to buy some new clothes. I told her how great she has been looking. She said, So I did not look good before? I said, no you did but I so enjoy how you dress now. Side note, had the same discussion yesterday as he dropped me off. This time I said I like her her new style enhances her beauty. She enjoyed the complements both days. She has just bought two new bra's that are push up types
really enhance her cleavage and when she asks I keep tell her how much I like them!!!!!

> > On Sunday night I had gone to bed early. I had gotten up at 4:00 am to go to work. Sandra came up to bed and woke me up. She was getting excited about our cruise. Yes, she did decide to goon a cruise in Sept or Oct for 6-8days. She asked me what we were going to do on the cruise. I said have > fun. She asked what type of fun I said fun. She asked if we were going to have sex! I said yes a lot!.

Tuesday night took my blue pill at 10:00 after work drank lots of water. We had fun at 11:00 after watching "Castle" on ABC. No oral. She got me hard and climbed on top and rode. I think she did not want to take any chances that I would go soft afterword. I finished up taking her from behind!!! The clinic did call the Dr is upping me from 50mg to 100mg of the blue pill!

Things with Sandra are progressing well. A few months ago she bought some new bras. Tuesday night she commented that she need to buy some more new bras. Just think, last November she was wear white old lady bras and now color push up bras and want to buy more!!!! They really help display her tits. One night a few weeks ago, I was upset at her, do not really remember why. She came up stairs and and took off her top. She then grabbed the back of my head and pushed my face into her tits. She said it is hard for me to stay mad at her when I was in her cleavage. I then took her and enjoyed that cleavage. Sucked the tits and slowly took off the bra. I got the rest of her clothes off and fucked her good. Ate her pussy and she even sucked me a little.

The next time we had sex, again, we started with her cleavage. I then spend a good 10-15 mines on her ass; sucking it, licking it. At several points she started to hump my face. Even got on her knees and allow me better access to her ass. She humped back as I was sticking my tongue up her ass hole. WOW, she got hot. I finally go there to sit on my face and I ate hr pussy and her ass while she sucked my cock. She still licks it but is sucking it more and more. We finished the evening with her on top ridding me to some great cums and he taking her from behind!
Tuesday night this week the house was empty except for us. We had dinner I had a beer and she was takeing wine. We had watched "May We Dance" on TV. In the movie, there is final scene where Greer is playing/ dancing with Sarandun in the kitchen. Very very Erotic. We started to recreate that scene in the kitchen and in the family room. At one point Sandra sits on my lap and pulls up her shirt and presents me her Tits. I suck them and kiss them and lick them. I then start to give her a hickey. She tell me she will be pissed if I do . LOL oh well! The we end up in bed, where I spent a large amount of time making love to her ass and her pussy. Side note, while enjoy the pie, she asked/told me she would shave since she knows how much that excites me!! Mmmm going to keep working that angle. She came like gang busters and then roles over,"******". I waited. A little while later I start to kiss her back and work my way down to her ass. She
starts to move and then asks me what am doing I said enjoying another cleavage I love!!!!

September, 2009

That evening we went out dancing. I had heard of this nightclub near us. Live band. Also, talked with a couple of folks we met at dance lesmisters. They said good bad nice place to dance just crowed floor on Friday and sat. We arrived at 900pm Good thing we were then because the bad started at 930 with singer at 10. We sat next to a black couple got to talking about the club etc and the football games of the day. The lady was wearing black top low cur but was unable to see more. She even offered to share her bottle of Hennisy with us, She bring a small bottle wither to the bar. The take were expense. Cover charge was $14 for us. A beer and coke was $6.50. We had not been out so we are not sure if that is high or n to? Back to the story. The club is definitely a bar for both couples and pickups, singles. About 50-60% black, that is good . We had lots of fun danced a lot, The crowed floor did cause some work but it was god. We both felt good in that
several couples complemented us on our dancing that again made us feel good.

I noted there was very good looking red head there with a black man. In fact looked at her to much Sandra asked what I was staring at. I said no the nothing looking in space. LOL. He looked like b/f not Close enough to see a wedding ring or anklet. Thus could have been my first hot wife sighting!!!!. She had a very nice looking black guy on one said she was sitting in a high bar stool had a halter type dress on. Next to her was another white lady I would say early to mid 30'. At one point the red head asks her "bf" to ask his Friend to dance with her Friend.

We left said good bye to folks. Outside said I asked my wife if she had a good time and she said yes. We will have to come back to this place. We are going out this coming weekend with another couple and we may end up there.

October, 2009

We left early Friday morning, 8:20 am flight to Chicago. From there we had a 3 hour lay over to Orlando. We arrived at Orlando. A great looking airport and went to baggage claims. Our bags had not shown up. When we were leaving Louisville, we had not flown in so long my wife had items over 4 oz in her carry on. I was able to take those items and get hold of the skycap. He was able to retrieve her bag and allow me to load then in her bag. That could have been the reamister the bags did not show up. We went to Southwest badge assistance. They were very helpful. Filled out the paper work. They were sure they would find the items and would deliver them to the hotel. Our Cruise did not leave till the next day. We went to the hotel. Checked in and went out to eat. While we were eating I got a call from the Airlines that they had our bag and would deliver them to the hotel. Happy ending

Got up the next morning eat a quick breakfast and went to the boat. WOW!!! it was awesome There were two boat in port a Disney and a Carnival. We were taking a Carnival 7 day cruise. We could not believe how big the ship was.

Let me hit on some high points. We visited Nausea on day two, It was OK, We were there on a Sunday. We got to Nausea about 700am and had to leave at 200pm. We did not take a ships a tour. We went on our own and explore coupe of historical sites and shopped Little.

Than evening we went to dinner. Had a great 2 other couples at our tables. They both had cruised before.. The food was good. We continued to eat at the table for the rest of the cruise great folks. Surprisingly, I only gained 3 lbs and Sandra stayed the same.

That evening after dinner we went look at all the entertainment. Found a rock band we like and listen to hero music and danced. We then went to the disco. It was not crowed only 1100pm. We danced some then Sandra saw some ladies dancing, black, and went to join them. During this dance Sandra started to "pole dance" on a pole that was located on the dance floor. I have to find place for her to take pole dancing lesmisters. While she was out there I noted several of the black men make positive comments about her. From there went check out the karaoke bar. Danced there several times as the karaoke. Had lady come up to me and ask me to dance with her a east coast swing. The music had ended and not was able to do that. Sandra was cool with hit.

That night had awesome sex. We both were in the mood. The highlight of the evening was Sandra riding me cowgirl with a vibrator in her ass. I have never seen her face I such lust pleasure as that before. I also had my cock ring on and was hard as a steel rod. We had one small problem the vibrator got stuck in her ass. We/ she finally got it out and comments we needed to get a bigger vibrator! My task this week after I pay the bills!

The rest of the cruise we had sex every day. Usually in the morning. I was able to performed whole Cruise with out the blue pill. Must have been no stress not tried etc. Often with me eating her and she sucking me with us having sex. She did offer me her ass but there was something in it. That is only the second time she has offered that to me. Sandra also showed more interest in sucking me. The last morning I went to get her coffee and juice while she woke up. When I returned I ended up between her legs waking her up!

The next port of call was St Thomas we did not get to the beach there. Ended up shopping and a little sight seeing. I want to go back to St Thomas I understand the Beaches are great!

The next port was St Maartin. WOW our favorite on the cruise. We did a little shopping Chocolate, a excellent store there. Plus the store would deliver the items back to the ship. Thus I did not have chocolate in my back back in the heat. I also bought 2 Cuban cigars. I was a "bad boy"

Sandra and I did go to the beach there. I had told her I wanted to go and the Beach on the French side was "European", topless and nude. Sandra announced she wanted to go to the nude beach. We took taxi and spent 3 hours at the nude beach. I am sorry to say no photos. Sandra wanted me to take some, a another step, but there were big signs no photos in the area. But she stripped as soon as we got the nude area was perfectly comfortable with it.

Side story. When one entered the nude area I saw a guy nude standing next to some rocks reading. I walked up to the bar to get Sandra take and wow I was impressed. I took Sandra into the water and asked her if she had seen the guy. She said yes . and comments he was "big". At this time she was standing facing the nude area of the beach. later that day he turned and faced hate clothing area. Later on the book Sandra told me she had found out, wonder how ,the guy who was nude and hung Nick name is "Mule."

The trip back had two events and one tragedy. The last night of the cruise. We were listening to a bad when the ship took a turn. The band joked that it must be Cubans. A little while later they captain cam e on the speaker and said they had received a distressed call and a call for assistance, They were responding. They found the boat and rescued the people on board. never did find out who the folks were. It did make us 2 hours late i into port. It was OK out flight was at 300pm. Next on the way way to the airport just outside the port the buss we were one broke down just stopped. Lucky a another bus by eh same came was running empty back to the airport and was able to pick us up.

The tragedy! When we got home we found our dog dead on the family room floor. IT had gotten into a bag of ship that our mister had left out and sufficated. We have gotten another dog.

January, 2010
First, I broke my ankle, left, the Sunday before Christmas. I was chasing our dog with our mister. My left foot landed ½ on the road and ½ on the shoulder. I went down. I broke, crack in the bone, my ankle. Saw the Orthopedics last week and was told the bone is healing well. The long time healing will be the tendons and ligaments. Today is the first day I have been walking without a brace on it and ia m doing well.

Second, Sandra has gotten laid off a few jobs. Instead of working six days a week she is now working two.
New years were fun, even with crutches. We went to a New Years Eve party at a hotel with our friends. When showed up with crutches they “joked” asking if I need a wheel chair. How ever something hot did happen. Late in the evening 11:15pm Sandra and I went up to get our last takes from the open bar. I told Sandra I was gong to get a cup of coffee so that I could get some Irish in it. When I got back to the line thee was a guy rubbing Sandra’s S shoulders. And talking into her ear. When got the r she introduced met him. He was 6’2” shave head form south Africa. He shakes my hand with a strong grip. I read the grip like a contest. Let us see who let goes first. After a while we stopped the shake. WE talked a little while waiting in line. When we got back to he tale Sandra told me he stared to rub her neck and she thought initially it was me. He then stared to kiss her neck and that was when I showed up. She asked me at the table l how I felt
about it. I told her I was jealous and hot at the same time proud infacr. She d said Proud? I said yes proud I have a wife so that that guys hit on her. I overheard her tell the other wives the guy had told her him and his friend, His fend gave ma shot of Markers mark for my coffee in line. Were looking for sex and was she interested!
The next event occurred last Sunday. A homemade cream pie. MMMMmm usually Sandra says she is too sensitive butt his time I ha Cuma and she wanted to cum and pushed my head down there while she played wither vibrator. IT was hot. Oh the other day She told me her feet were cold and I started to kiss them to make them warm, MMMMMmm

And now.

Some new developments. Sandra has a new thing she likes to do. That is she is getting into teasing me. Lately, since the Cruise, she has been in bed and when I get to the bed roomteasing me with what she has on. Takes off her top, t shirt etc and under an nice bra and thong asking me if I like it etc. Go in and slowly putting on her heels. This has been going on quiet a bit to my enjoyment and hers.I am thinking that this could be an opening to take some better photos of her as she does this tease routine


We have been some what busy. It is more stress that has been keeping us busy. We are still dealing with the IRS issues. I beleive you know how those guys can cause soem stress. We are getting an handle, I hope on this. I have an issue with being positive about us dealing with this and not felling this is my issue my fault. I need to get past that and not let that feeling keep me form doing what i need to fix the problem.

Feb 14, 2010
Valentine day went well. Sandra and I went out to eat at White Castle. Yes we did. Our middle mister is an assistant manager there. They have a special set up. Tablecloths, candles, flowers, servers/waiters, and, yes, reservations! We went to see the movie "Blind Side" I had read/ skimmed the book. The movie was good I did feel at times it dragged some. After that Sandra and I went to have desert. We got home and went up to bed. Sandra has some of my favorite Bra and panties on, Red. We went and made love. I wore my cock ring which helped a lot. We both got excited and went to the main event with Sandra riding me cow girl.

Blew an "opportunity" a few days prior to Valentine though. I was cleaning up stairs and Sandra was doing some work. Out of the " Blue" Sandra walked up to me and asked me what my fantasies were. I think she had been watching something TV an they were talking about fantasies in relation to Valentine days. After I got my head wrapped around that: I told her it would start with heels, stockings... She stops me and tells me she know that. I was going to finish with sex out doors outside the house. the bedroom. But the moment passed. Been thinking about it and want to bring it back up. Talk about her dressing dancing with other guys perhaps getting them excited and then going home with me, perhaps fun on the way home.

March 12, 2010
The weekend was a bust. As you know, Sandra and I have been under a lot of stress. I planed to have a special day for her Sunday. A nice take, special dinner ( use the china, silver, eat in the dinning room), and after dinner take ( if the weather was good, which it was, smoke a cigar). Then after relaxing together some, go upstairs. Once up stars, candles, music, perhaps give her a bath, take a shower together, and make her bark several times.
The weekend was a bust. As you know, Sandra and I have been under a lot of stress. I planed to have a special day for her Sunday. A nice take, special dinner ( use the china, silver, eat in the dinning room), and after dinner take ( if the weather was good, which it was, smoke a cigar). Then after relaxing together some, go upstairs. Once up stars, candles, music, perhaps give her a bath, take a shower together, and make her bark several times.
Unfortunately, MR Murphy arrived Sunday Morning. She and our mister when to Mother Mass and Brunch at school. When she got home, I was arelax form getting off work, at 8:00AM. She told me, she had been offered to work that evening 9:00 pm to 9:00 am.. It is with a new client. One of those issues, where she could have said no, but she wants to get her foot in the door and get more hours with this client. So I said, yes. She asked if it was OK. I said, well I was hoping we would have some time together. She said, she understood but explain why she thought she need to work. I understand. We went up to the grocery, time together. As you know Sunday was great!! I asked her, if she want to cook out or have the dinner I had planned. I told her, I was going to cook a nice meal for her etc. Sandra said, she would prefer Hamburgers etc. After we shopped, on the way home, I asked her what her work schedule looked like. It seems tonight is the only
night she will be home. She has quiet a few clients, at night trying to get her foot in the door when a day shift opens up. I told her then, we need to have some special time tonight. Yes, I really told her that. I was hoping for Sunday night but we need time together. Sandra replied, yes we need time together etc. Sunday was a great day, spent time with Sandra, told her what I had planned and did not come off. I hope she understood what I was trying to do, appreciative (?). But rather a let down

I worked substituted that day and Sandra worked that evening. I got home form teaching and Sandra was upstairs in her PJ relaxing. Unlike some of her jobs she could not relax watching the elderly lady. Plus it was her first night on the job and at a hospital. Shew was tired. We chatted when she got home I changed and went o work..
at work thought about her, I tend to do this a lot. How can I Make her happy what to do if she is ****** when I get home. I told my self if she was awake I was going to make love to her.

I got home about 940pm Sandra was awake. Took my blue pill. After we settle down, how is work etc. I got out the candle and lit them. We had a little discussion about where to put them I am usually the one worried about the candle accident in High school. The candle ended up in the bathroom. LOL They still put very nice light in the room. I
I then went and took a shower and locked the door. I could tell she was exited. Got into bed started touching etc. I also took a short break and got out the cock ring and the vibrator. We kissed and touched. She asked me to scratch her back and I flipped her over and scratched and gave her a massage. At this she moaned I took off her PJ bottom and started to s kiss up her legs.

I got her going with the vibrator and she was playing with her self, WOW that is kind of a first. I was talking to her encouraging her. I would kiss stroke a little both her clit and my cock. She finally cam After that she climbed on top and rode me to several comes, Was trying to figure out how to ask her to go reverse cowgirl. She then got on her knees and I took her doggy style. It was great as I was getting ready to come I asked her if she wanted me to come in her or on her. She said in her.
We rested and then cleaned pupa and went to bed happy.
Unfortunately, MR Murphy arrived Sunday Morning. She and our mister when to Mother Mass and Brunch at school. When she got home, I was arelax form getting off work, at 8:00AM. She told me, she had been offered to work that evening 9:00 pm to 9:00 am.. It is with a new client. One of those issues, where she could have said no, but she wants to get her foot in the door and get more hours with this client. So I said, yes. She asked if it was OK. I said, well I was hoping we would have some time together. She said, she understood but explain why she thought she need to work. I understand. We went up to the grocery, time together. As you know Sunday was great!! I asked her, if she want to cook out or have the dinner I had planned. I told her, I was going to cook a nice meal for her etc. Sandra said, she would prefer Hamburgers etc. After we shopped, on the way home, I asked her what her work schedule looked like. It seems tonight is the only night she will be home. She has quiet a few clients, at night trying to get her foot in the door when a day shift opens up. I told her then, we need to have some special time tonight. Yes, I really told her that. I was hoping for Sunday night but we need time together. Sandra replied, yes we need time together etc. Sunday was a great day, spent time with Sandra, told her what I had planned and did not come off. I hope she understood what I was trying to do, appreciative (?). But rather a let down

March 19, 2010
I wrote earlier about the stress. Also out work schedules have changed. I am still working evenings at Meijer, 5-9pm and now Saturday night, 1200 am to 800 am. Sandra works Tuesday 9-530 pm , Thursday thru Saturday 130 pm-530 pm. Plus Friday and Saturday 900 pm to 9 am. This causes the me not to be able to be on the net as much as I use to be. Second due to the work schedule and money we have not been out dancing ( time for us) in a while!

I still want the best for Sandra want to see her and us to expand our sexuality. So the goal is still there.

Angain thank you so much for sharing with me and reading thru this rather long set of entries. I would enjoy your comments and suggestions.

Things have been busy here. I have finished providing the IRS all the information they requested. Now the ball is in their court.

Sandra is working a lot. This week for example. She worked Tuesday 9am to 6pm Wednesday 9pm to 9am, Thursday 1:30pm to 5:30pm, 9pm to 9 am: Friday 1:30pm to 5:30pm, 9pm to 9am. Saturday 1:30pm to 5:30pm: Sunday 9pm to 9am. I am working my usually evenings and now Saturday night midnight to 8AM. I am challenged to find time when Sandra and can be Sandra and I.

April 6, 2010
We had fun few Monday night nothing new . Well kind of two things happen. First, after I ate her an she came she had another cum right after, I mean she was pulsing. Possible a multiple? And while we were busy, she told me quietly she had seen on TV a vibrating cock ring. Sounds like something else I need to order. I will do that tonight or early tomorrow morning. So that is a Vibrator (Rabbit) Stockings, and vibrating cocking and perhaps something for anal play.

April 13, 2010
We did have another event the other week. One night while we were having sex. She was using the vibrator and enjoy herself. She mentioned to me she had heard about a vibrating cock ring on late night TV. The next week I went to to a site “Dear Lady” and ordered one. I, also, ordered a new vibrator for her also: a 7.5 in rabbit. They arrived in the mail and a few days later we were able to enjoy. She was a little “forgetfully” about eh cock ring. She said she does not remember tell me about it. I told her I did not dream it up. She loved the new vibrator. It will take us time to learn al of the uses., LOL. But happy for her. She had wanted a bigger one since the cruise. The small one we have got stuck. She/ we had used it anally on her awhile I fucked her . IT was great hot etc but it would not come out. Yes it finally did before the batteries ran out!! Never did get the cock ring to operate. It worked fine when I got it our of the pack age but that night did not want to stay on.

April 20, 2010

But now the important stuff!!! Sandra shaved!!!! Worked last night at Meijer and got home. By the time I got settled and went up to bed Sandra was up stairs watching TV. She just had some regular PJs on. Tank top and relaxing pants. During the movie we fooled around Little. Remember this is one of two nights that she does not work. Thus Play time!!! After the movie I locked the door and we got serious I was rubbing her ass and she pushed my hand down her front and All of a sudden my eyes opened big. She had shaved. She know how much that turns me on. After i got her hot she said she is sorry that she did not do that good of a job. I said, perhaps, I need to help the next time! She said yes!!. MMMM. She climbed on top and road me a Little. For a min I thought Would be eating cream pie. However, it was just pie. I got her to cum. In the process did a good job of eating the little brown hole. That drove her up the Wall She then
got to ride cowgirl. M very nice. I was so hot at the time I told her I had to cum. She kept teasing me. Finally, got her on the side and finished. When we had recover, she asked how was it . I replied, well I was speaking in tongues. How do you think it was!

My question is several fold.

1) How do I help her keep shaved? It is such turn on for me!!! I have been tell her how hot it is . In the past few mornings she has made sure I play with her before we get up. It really turn her on.

2) More basic how do I shave her? She stated she did an OK job. I want to do a good job clean job etc. She said I could help and / or do it for her!

3) How do I make the experience; Romantic. erotic, etc; to make it an experience she and I enjoy and want to do again!!! Not just a here is the shave cream and the razor, like I do in the AM on my face!


Going to Chicago this weekend. Our Son has a Volleyball Tournament. I just looked at a place to go dancing Saturday night. I hope this weekend goes off. It would be nice to be able to have some US TIME. Even if all we did was: eat at the hotel,then a take or two at the bar, hot tub, and to our room for play!!


April 22, 2010

Thursday was a bad day.

We got broken into. God, we all felt so ***d. Everyone physically is OK. They only took stuff. I keep telling myself and the rest of the family; mister's lap top, two different video systems, games a few odds and ends. we reported it to the police. They said due to the KY derby, they would be back to us in 2 weeks. We did give them serial numbers etc.


That all said. Sandra was so upset ,we decided that she would be best to stay home. She was there to comfort our mister, get an alarm system put in, and deal with the insurance company.

Meijer, so sorry to hear about the SOB's stealing your stuff. I hope they get caught and spend some time on their knees in jail. They need to get torn a new one.

Per your questions, you are the lucky one; I have never been able to get my wife to shave. Got her to relax with other guys, but you know, a girl just has her limits!

I'm interested to see what others think, how they shave their wives/gf's. Maybe some day I'll get to play with that one...

By starting your own thread you will be able to share this part of your life with other like minded people. I really hope you will some day see your wife dance with another man...a man that will take her to heights she has never experienced. That my friend will also bring you to new heights.

Herz4fun: What if you got on your hands and knees and begged?

a tour de power

May 17, 2010

Hello

I hope this finds everyone in good health.

I has been challenging past few weeks here. I feel I need to give a warning to this note. I deals withe my wife and I and a three situations about our sex life. I share this only because i value the comments for the great folks b here. At time sit will seem like a self critic session. Perhaps I will feel better venting.

About 2 weeks ago my wife was cleaning up stairs She called me from the top and stairs I answered. She had "found" a book i had gotten, "How to give her absolute pleasure" by LouPaget. She w asked why i go the book I said because I wanted her to have the best sex I could give. She asked if it was so I could read porn. I said no I wanted her to have the best. She asked had i ever complained, She said I f w i was unhappy she would let me know! She ten put the book back into my night stand.

early last week, Monday night. I worked 2:15pm till 10:45 pm really strange hours. Anyway it is an right off for her. I got home and she was up in b ed watching TV. WE chatted about dancing with stars etc and go to bed. WE started to fool around, I had taken my blue pill. I went down on her. WE played and she tried to get her self off. I ate her kissed her play with her nipples and she rubbed her self hard. But still could not cum. Ended up both of going to relax, Felt bad i could not get her off. Feel like I failed her. But again we both work a lot of hours though mine is slowing dome now

This past weekend our mister graduated form high school He is your youngest. Friday was man don breakfast and Senior awards ceremony Saturday was baccalaureate mass. The mass was great some issue with her folks, they are elderly finding chairs they could sit in etc. After the mass we went to dinner. Irish pub food . great beer great food. After dinner about100pm our mister took off to met friends Wife and I walked around the neighborhood. We walked by a place had a small band playing went in and had a take and danced little We had a good time. WE went home. When we got home my wife opened her car door and showed me her legs. She was wearing a mid calf gold skirt and gold heels about 3", I got down on my knees and started to rub her legs and kiss them All t his time she was benign over showing me her wonderful breast. She after a few min stopped me and said not out side. We went in and got ready for bed.

WE got into bed i was rather tired and we started to fool around. She had one her bra a with a camisole on over it very nice showed her ass and her great legs. After a few mins I put my cock ring on and we played little more. She then asked if i had taken my blue b pill. I said no I would be ok. She asked why not. I said it takes an hour for it to work She got upset that I did not plan ahead. I got upset and pulled the cock t ring off and threw it across the room and rolled over. She was upset and finally got me to take the blue pill. After she had read the las able and said it only takes 30mins. I put another cock t ring on it goes to a vibrating cock ring, never ave been able to get that to work. We laid and I ate her to a good c. After she recovered w she rolled over and I was soft. WE worked on my cock and got it semi hard She jerked me and i h jerked and she played with my nipples. She got on top and after a few strokes asked if I was hard. I said
yes. She replied it didn't feel like it. At which point she f rolled over and pulled off the cock ring and pushed me o my back. She d crawl y up and put her pussy over my face and yelled eat me make me cum! after a few mins, no cum, she got off rolled over and said good night.

Woke up the next morning feeling down I did not relax much. I felt bad about what happen that evening. Got moving got mister up. Wife and mister were worried about being late for the ceremony I told them in a loud voice that I was not in a good mood and did not need this. WE got tot he site. I went inside to save seats. Sat there with my I-pod. Wife came in and asked if these were the best. She finally decided we should move. I made some flip remake about I cannot even choose the seats right. She was not happy about that. Her folks came got them seated. Some one need to go outside and show sister in law where we were. I said I would every one said not I said yes grabbed my coat and walked out. As I left lady in law asked why I was I so mad. The mister graduated Afterworld drove home Oh, I did pout a little wile I was sitting there did not talk to anyone etc. Got home I fell arelax in the car. Sleep is my way to get away form here. When we go home went up stairs and went to relax. Wife cam e several times Finally we talked about what happen. Told her I felt bad did not fell very positive or any good self worth. She check my meeds. Told me I need to go get help. I am going to see a counselor Jun 1. Hope to find a good one Lol.


Bottom line is today is Monday. Wife is at work I am almost afraid of tonight. I want to please her want to cum and make her cum but afraid I will not be able to perform. Tomorrow we both work the pools 6am to 6 pm we are off tomorrow night Perhaps then would be a good time to be intimare, have sex!

Well thank you for listening. Sorry If I sounded not positive etc. perhaps this is not something to share here. But I have met some good folks here.

As I said I will be working the polls Tuesday. I will be able to check back in here Today till about 600pm and on and off till Wednesday night,

I want to thank everyone for their support and any suggestion and or ideas of how to improve correct my problem with my wife, my goddess my queen from this weekend

Thanks! I do nope to have a positive event to share!!
thanks you all so much

Wow! You do have a lot going on. Hope to hear more good things from you soon!

Hello all

I hope this update finds everyone in a good place. Summer is here and very hot! Am working 40 hours a week mainly 5am to 1pm so I may be around in the afternoons, My bride works, 70 hours a week for three different ladies. To refresh one's memory, she does home health care, Elder care. She is now home Sunday, Monday and Tuesday night. Those are night we can relax together!!!!

Things have become more positive. I am very sorry for what was a very negative tone in the last post. Please forgive.

The sexual episode of note occurred one evening. I had taken my blue pill, we go to bed and fooled around She asked for her toy. I had already place the cock ring on. One day hope to get her to do that. She wanted to use her rabbit. It is bigger than the first vibrator we bought plus a little larger that I. She got excited and came. I was had. She climbed upon the cock and rode cow girl for several cums, I am so happy when I can do that for her. I feel so fulfilled! We got rearranged and fucked her from behind, MM it was nice. I lately have been trying to fuck to dance rhythm, waltz, rumba, etc. Had a difficult reaching orgasm, Still not sure why, Ideas? End result was, I laid on my back and she watched while I jerked off. That was a first time for us,

This Sunday we are off together again, I have stopped jerking this AM so that there would not be an issue with that, I am also trying not to make a big deal about it in my mind. Thinking it may be performance anxiety Another plus. She is due for a shave. I hoping to get to do that for her. Excited will be my first time. Suggestions? Do not want her to look like may face some times when I am half arelax.

Progress on Hot wife has been at a stopping point. Due to work schedules not able to get out to dance. I have been working on getting her to lesmisters. Also, there is a big East Coast Swing weekend in Aug In Cincinnati I have hinted I want us to go to. It would be our vacation for the summer. Not sure how that will work out have to find the price etc now and make suer we have the cash

Home projects have picked up Try to point the house this summer and work on the back yard :the Jungle” Since we are not taking a vacation trying to make it nice to be at home. However, have not been able to play any golf yet My goal was twice a month. Will try again in July!

I know I have to deal with the anxiety I have at times with wife. Worried I will perform, Also need to think out side the box, outside the bed , at night; for place to show our love and have sex! Ideas suggestions comments, I did talk to her this AM about finding some time next week to go to a movie, get a take to the park for a picnics, we were to got tomorrow but she has to work ( thought she has d the day off).

Thank you all for you interest and your support. You all are truely great folks

As always suggestion comments thought s about how to move forward both with the Hot wife idea and more time for us would be awesome

Have great Fourth of July!!!

Meijer

I've heard that while the blue pill is conducive to erections that it can be somewhat prohibitive when it comes to orgasms. I think a lot of that stuff is in the mindset. You probably are thinking about it too much. In a previous relationship I was in, we got into a slump. I started putting pressure on her to have an orgasm, not realizing that the pressure was the biggest part of the problem. Once I realized that, we got through it.

If you would like any suggestions about what to do/where to go while in Cincinnati, please feel free to ask.

One subtle thing you may be able to do to move forward with Hotwife ideas is to permisterify her vibrator. Don't call it a rabbit or toy. It's a big cock. While she's using it, ask her if she likes that big cock in her. If she's in the heat of the moment it won't phase her a bit. Also, you could try giving it a name, like John.

Keep us updated!

Hello all

Hope this finds everyone well.

First, I am sorry that I have not been updating as regular as many other outstanding posters here. Also sorry to report progress has been slow if not at time stopped

I have put up what our work schedule are this this summer

Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Me
0500-1300

0500-1300

0500-1300

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Me in August
1800-2200

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Wife
1100-1600
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2100-0900
1100-1500
2100-0900
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The Me in Aug refers to a College class I teach on Monday and Wednesday nights. As you can see, we both live a busy life. Bottom line we have Sunday. Monday and Tuesday nights together.

We have also this summer been working on the house. Painting the outside, it is at a stopping point due to my teaching. We have gotten a lot of work done this summer on the house that we have put off for years. That is a plus.

On the love side of the house. Things have been very slow if not at a stop. With the limited time together.

It seems on Sunday night I pass out arelax due to working Saturday/ Sunday night. Also Sandra will come home and I am arelax. That is also due to me getting up at 330 in the morning to get ready for work at 500 am. Monday night has worked but often one of us falls arelax waiting for her. I have had our mister, tell me to go to bed as I relax in the family room on a easy chair.

Also still dealing with some apprehension about my performance. I at time, as I have written earlier, have a challenge s getting hard. Worried that I may not perform and make my wife happy!

We have talked and have determine we both miss the romance the sex!!.

This coming fall, September I will be working 4 hour in the evenings. I am asking for Monday night off. Thus we will have one night a week date night. Need to find a place to go dancing again or to take lesmisters.

Upcoming event to look forward two are three. First our anniversary is on September 1. Will most likely do dinner and home but ideas suggestions to make it more and sexy would be great. Would enjoy buying her some new hotter clothes but size, 14-16) at times is an issue. Second, in October we are going to Chicago for a weekend together. I am attending an event. My wife is going with me. Thus clothes for her places to go to dance , have men ask her to dance etc. Finally, we have started to save money for a cruise next year. We had such an outstanding time by ourselves and able to reconnect it was awesome. Plus we had sex every day!!

In closing a few things. 1. Hope to have a better report for you all next time. 2. Need help suggestion etc to get back on track for all you great folks. 3. Suggestion for things to do on Date nights to don of the limited time we have together. Things for me to do that keep the p spark alive. For example the other day she was hugging me and talked about going to a cheap hotel for sex! I have to think outside the box. I could use help with that.

Thank you all for reading this and allowing me to bring you all an update and perhaps get some ideas.

Thanks you all!!!

Hello Sir
Sorry that it has taken me so long to update. As I have said in my prior post
things have been rather uneventful this summer. Busy with chores and work. Now
that things have slowed down there is some progress to get back on track.
First, there has been a change in schedules. I am now only working in the
evenings during the week. Plus I have Monday evening off. This is a big step,
since my wife is off also that evening. We are able to have a date night. We
have been able to take a couple of Dance classes, Salsa and next maybe taking
some Rumba classes. Looking at taking a class in couples massage. This 5 hours
and I think would be enjoy able in term of the sensuality, sexuality, the better
communication and some thing we can do for each other. But will have to make
sure “Dancing with Stars” is over or schedule before it starts. The challenge
will be every time I have suggested it to the wife she has been stand offish.
Hope to sell it better this time. I am planning on making Monday a “date””
night for us. Finally, with me not having to get up so early 3:30am on Monday I
am not that pressed to get to bed on Sunday night. She gets home from work at
9:30pm.
On the sex front things are going OK. She has gotten “friskier” past few weeks.
AS I may I have said one day she was around the house in a lounge set without a
bra on? That was a pleasant view. I had gone to take a nap prior to work and
when she to wake me. She then was showing me that she did not have a bra on. MMM
and was sitting on top of me cow girl. Sorry to say, she did this wit 10 mins
before I had to go to work. Additionally, she needs a shave. Need to read the
things on how to give her a nice erotic shave.
My wife joined Face Book; I know the movie is coming out today. I can see how
this exposure could help my wife and me along the path to this life. The
drawback is my wife does not accept friendships from folks she does not know. In
fact our mister, who set her set up, got very upset about a guy who asked to be her
friend, our mister said was “flirting” with her. He made sure she deleted him.
Still I can see how becoming friends with a guy or a wife may help move her
further down the road. Ideas?
Upcoming events: At the end of October we are going to our college Home Coming.
That is two night not at home. No stress to work!! Should be a fun time. She
said she wants to go because of all the people she as talked to on Face Book.
Mmmm (see above)! Plus Home coming is a rather dress up affair for our school.
She wants to spend time with her sorority sisters etc. Told me last night that
her house has loss of activities planned. Said we could go by the ROTC tent and
my fraternity tent. Staying at a nice hotel whit a nice indoor area to sit and
chat and take!!
In November, going to Ft Lauderdale to visit our mister. We had planned to go in
Oct and or go to Chicago. Ended up getting bumped to November. It will be a
Friday thru Sunday trip. Should be able to convince mister to give us some private
time! Need to start the research for places to stay eat and dance!!!
Suggestions? Also, I can get her a new dress to wear out etc.

December is her Birthday 24 Dec and then new years. Not sure if we are going out
with the group this year. Will see, had a great me last year with going to the
hotel party and spending the night!! That is where two guys made a pass at her.
On my front trying to keep form feeling overwhelmed. Stepping up my exercise.
Watching what I eat better. Trying t not to plan so much let things happen. I
need to get that way more spontaneous. For instance, this evening we have from
6pm to 830pm to our selves. In the past I have met her for dinner/ takes prior
to her going to work etc. Good times. Tonight thinking about a dimmer a on the
grill. Fire in the fire pit and just relaxing. Perhaps a quickie??
Keith